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BY jlaix | January 8th, 2014 at 1:36 AM

My Greatest Challenge

Well hey there. Seems as though the dust has settled from all the holiday bullshit, and now we settle in to the new year ready to get down to fucking business.

On a side note, oddly enough, there really don't seem to be that many New Years Resolution Chodes at the gym performing the tradtional January ritual of Curls in the Squat Rack this year. Who knows why, but as Brad says, "CANT COMPLAIN."

This year should be a big one for RSD, as Owen has been saying for a while that 2014 is the year where we are really taking the company to the next level, and everybody's on board. Personally, this means that this year will see:

1. "Jeffy Show 3" - a reengineered manifesto for newcomers to RSD to get an understanding of my personal philosophy and structure of game
2. Jeffy Hot Seat 2 filmed
3. A likely October release of my long-awaited online system "The Program"
4. Many more other surprises I've had percolating on the back burner for a while now.

As this all unfolds, I'll still be doing the same old shit... running bootcamps every weekend all over the place. Most notably in the near future are the 5 Day Bootcamps that I'll be running in New Orleans for Mardi Gras and of course the Miami Model Season ones with Tyler.

January 10: San Francisco
January 17: Austin
January 23: Toronto
January 31: San Francisco
February 7: San Francisco
February 14: Calgary
February 18: Miami 5 day
February 27: NOLA Mardi Gras 5 day
March 7: San Francisco

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So, this week's video comes from the recent Los Angeles Free Tour which featured a record crowd. There were four instructors speaking: myself, Todd, Julien and Tyler, so I kicked off the event with a quick thirty minute set. Starting off, I get into some basic theory and practice of the different stages of the night and how your mindset can be directed over the course of it.

Then someone asks me what my "greatest challenge" was. At first I somewhat flippantly answer that it was when my father went to prison when I was 15 and move on. But then I start to explore that theme a little more and really discuss how I was able to persevere through my challenges with game in the initial years starting out, and how you can do the same:

Cool. So that's about it for this week, I'll see you in the comments. Before I go of course, let me leave you with some fresh photography from Pandurr shirts... funny enough, we've now expanded the line to womens and kids stuff too... you can check it out here:

www.pandurr.com
Womens
Kids

www.pandurr.com

Cheers, I'll see you next time.

-j

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Comments

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 1:57 AM

Zer0.Point

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Nice! Loved this. Love the passion behind this bro, no homo. Especially where you could have ended up and where you and the crew are now - pretty amazing.

If anyone still thinks you guys are cut from a different cloth, they're out of their mind.

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 2:17 AM

CheifBrokenMan

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thats awesome a new jeffy show ill buy it for sure

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 2:19 AM

Resmat

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we need more jeffy freetours / vblogs please.

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 2:27 AM

unacat

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amazing presentation skills! loved the whole speech.

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 2:39 AM

Dr Destruction

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Jlaix whipping out the Clark Kent glasses hahaa, really liked the idea of everybody having to go through the process and work i.e. old story of feeling nervous outside of club to becoming the man you are today.

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 3:26 AM

OutofBacon!

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Posted January 8th, 2014 at 5:34 AM

July

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good shit as always

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 10:02 AM

CoolWingDude

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fckin awesome shit to come!

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 12:51 PM

Matrim

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Man this shit made me feel so mush better, after yesterday.

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 1:35 PM

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This was amazing. "Plateau" is simply not in Jeffy's vocabulary.

PS: Thanks a lot Amir for ruining everyone's Christmas!!!!

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 3:11 PM

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mwingapo

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That was Fucking Awesome!

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 7:29 PM

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Julien's TShirt

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Thanks, Jeff, really motivating. You rock, player.

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 8:48 PM

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timeruns

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i just want to say thanks, that was... incredible.

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 8:52 PM

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jlaix

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Zer0.Point Wrote:

Nice! Loved this. Love the passion behind this bro, no homo. Especially where you could have ended up and where you and the crew are now - pretty amazing.

If anyone still thinks you guys are cut from a different cloth, they're out of their mind.

It's true... if anything, most people are coming frfom a BETTER place than Tyler and I were. Of course, that's not to discount those who may be worse off coming in to this. Hell, I remember when Nine Ball came out, some people were saying, "He wasn't even that bad to start out he was getting laid before all this" etc so hey.

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 8:53 PM

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jlaix

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CheifBrokenMan Wrote:

thats awesome a new jeffy show ill buy it for sure

No, the Jeffy Show 3 will be up on Youtube, like a three hour manifesto.

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 8:53 PM

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jlaix

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Resmat Wrote:

we need more jeffy freetours / vblogs please.

Very well.

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 8:54 PM

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jlaix

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OutofBacon! Wrote:

lol yeah that's the one... back when that came out it was a funny satire of "negs," these days it's what Julien ACTUALLY does for real.

Except Julien's probably worse

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 9:15 PM

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Alen Ocean Sky Depth

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Thank you :D

Posted January 8th, 2014 at 10:14 PM

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shoed

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Hey Jeff, do you still hit up one dollar nights at the Rio these days? I plan on hitting that place up before I die.

Posted January 9th, 2014 at 12:05 AM

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power_level_over9000

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jlaix Wrote:

OutofBacon! Wrote:

lol yeah that's the one... back when that came out it was a funny satire of "negs," these days it's what Julien ACTUALLY does for real.

Except Julien's probably worse

I love it, Jeffy challenge vblog. Brilliant stuff.

Quick question. How do you calibrate asshole/duck head game so well? You and Julian play the bad guy so well.I think I fail at times with women cause I lack a diverse arrangement of emotions, both positive and negative. For 2014, I want to cultivate taking up that role of "bar guy."

I assume you are heading to my city by spring or summer. I want to see what I can do between now, and then. With some chicks, I think I need to fuck with them more. I am a chick magnet lately but, also a shit magnet as a lot of them are party girls. As a older man, I got much going on but, maturity can get played out. Seeing you in lets say Alex's 201x blog shuffling is hilarious. I am working on that. I actually picked up and pulled a choreographer recently. It's excellent cause dancer bods are incredible. I also am takin up a dance class this year. It will help my body language and sub communications, express confidence in my maneuvering, and present opportunity to meet singles. I am not relying on the choreographer. I am planting seeds else where.

Posted January 9th, 2014 at 7:33 AM

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dave7-

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Nice glasses.

Really cool video, enjoyed it. Always enjoy when you guys talk about coming up in the game, It's prob pretty easy to take for granted how far you guys have come?

Posted January 9th, 2014 at 8:13 AM

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nestea

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Jeffy,

i have read both of your books and im a big fan. Honestly the glasses scared me for a while, but the way you ended that video was fucking awesome.

Posted January 9th, 2014 at 11:47 AM

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Feed_The_Goat

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I'm so stoked for Jeffy Show 3!
Can you make a video or just a simple post on gaming when you're 17 years old or anywhere near this age?
I know you started way later,but I would like to see your ideas on this one.
It would be much appreciated.
Thanks!

Posted January 9th, 2014 at 12:45 PM

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It is almost as though the bigger the audience, the better and more passionate Jeffy's delivery is. Excellent.

Posted January 9th, 2014 at 5:14 PM

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