Misconceptions About Game

Posted February 12th, 2013 at 5:04 PM

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Anax

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First

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Posted February 12th, 2013 at 5:29 PM

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I have experienced the non action taking chode calling out my approach and it is a total display of envy.

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Posted February 12th, 2013 at 6:46 PM

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Ey mayne, how do you watch t.v. and learn stuff from the social conditioning like you said in a previous vid? I started watching t.v. after about 4 years of not watching it and all i could do was laugh my ass off about how utterly dumb things were and the people who I was with thought i was Phucked up on everything under the sun. heh. killer shit today j!
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Posted February 12th, 2013 at 7:59 PM

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The OPPOSITE scene

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Posted February 12th, 2013 at 8:56 PM

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Thanks for the info playa.

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Posted February 12th, 2013 at 8:57 PM

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Great video. Thanks for talking about social conditioning misconceptions. It's an important topic. No matter how much we improve, social conditioning is all around us due to the media and stuff like that, so it's important to be reminded not to follow those misconceptions (which is difficult to do when you think you've met a girl who is "your soul mate", and you start to act like a chode around her). This is surely one of your best videos!

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Posted February 12th, 2013 at 9:00 PM

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Rich77

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Lol, funny man!

besserwisser wrote:

The OPPOSITE scene

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Posted February 12th, 2013 at 9:42 PM

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Great fundamentals which where already getting into the distance again for me, thanks for reminding it in a crystal clear way!!!

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Posted February 12th, 2013 at 10:01 PM

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my new fav opener "this is jeff from history class,...i like you ,do you want to go out with me?"
so weird i had a jr. high story just like that, but insead of geting the phone # from her friend, i got the phone number from the yellow pages. i remember staring at that gray paper for like 4 hours. I called to ask this girl out, her older sister picked up and got her, i had moved to a differ state during my school year, then moved back to nashua a few months later, i knew she liked me in the 7th grade, but i felt so weird about it, i assumed when she her it was me from her sister she would be instantly, mega exicted to hear from me. wrong! her vocail tone was breakin rapport, i quickly felt like a bitch, and begin to act like one, i got into my head ,my voice started to crack , I want to say the right things to seek her approval ,she felt weird and the phone called ended it like 20 seconds. i was a perrmison boy... i let her feminine engery control my masculine state,i loss my masculine state and our interaction was running on feminine engery hers or my i dont remember, its funny now, with girls i dont really care about, i could call them up or text them on the phone for hours at a time, but the one time i wanted to have a long meaningful talk call i get 20 seconds. lol

i was a bad student in school and didnt give a fuck about learning i was cool, but fairground jr high taugth me a valuable lesson that day
I have both mascline and feminine enegery in me,A masscline core is my nature default!
'the loss of a mascline state, will lead any man down a path to feminine characteristics."

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Posted February 12th, 2013 at 10:29 PM

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hah nice bro, 8 woman in one lifetime... WTF!?! I am already a super wolf playa.

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 12:17 AM

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Love the video, always nice going back to the basics. Thanks Man!

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 12:19 AM

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you have logically convinced me that rock climbing will get me laid.

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 12:36 AM

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Go bald and you have got the full Alan from Hangover look going.

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 12:56 AM

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Going back to basics again. Hey Jeffy there is already tons of videos explaining the same shit, why bother to spit it again?

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 1:10 AM

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I'm sick of all the newb questions on forum so I'm going over fundamentals. Ill probably be doing this a lot more in the future. If you don't like it, don't watch the videos. Pretty simple.

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 1:14 AM

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You say this Jeff and I don't doubt your experience. Others say it too.

So why then for example, are the most popular guys on dating websites the really good looking guys who have photos of themselves scuba diving, rock climbing, flying helipcopters etc etc? Hell, one website even conducted statistical reesearch on the most popular people on their dating site (OK Cupid) and found that activity type photos were 100% more successful than any other type of photos for men.

It may be social programming but if that's what women have been socially programmed to respond to and are doing so, it make no sense not to follow the programme ourselves!

What do you think?

Thanks

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 2:22 AM

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Aaron

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Great reminders all around; thanks for the vid, Jeff.

And besserwisser, that clip speaks to dedicated wingmanship. Nice!

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 3:40 AM

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Always enjoy Jeffy vids the most, and will probably crack open GLODT again soon...anyone who hasn't copped that shit yet shud get on it. Hilarious that he has his own customized trap beats, production value for the win. Jeffy if you want more orinigal trap beats for your vids hit me up

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 4:22 AM

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It took me longer than I would like to admit to find the filming location in street view - Twin Peaks/Christmas Tree Point Road.

Jeffy, the resignation in your voice when you mentioned the van was heartbreaking. I will never forgive Jezebel for this!

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 6:00 AM

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A topic I've been wondering about being a humble student of the game. Playing the role of the moron. Some guys are morons and they get gamed by girls like none other, but they don't know how to close like me or an rsd guy. The girls just notice the masculine polarity and don't care that he's dumb, she just can't help it but game him cuz its easier that way. I know theres some way I could use this frame to my advantage for greater consistency in manufacturing chemistry.

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 7:11 AM

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Jeff, can you make the next video, on the topic of how to switch attraction button in girls? It's great what you are puttng here, I understand everything, but this one is not very clear for me. Please could You do this? Cheers.

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 10:14 AM

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Basic stuff but almost all you need in the beginning!
Your presenting style is so good, or at least it fits what I like. Analytic, intelligent but also funny and self ironic. To me you're on a level with Tyler when it comes to presenting, leaving all the other guys miles behind you!

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 12:10 PM

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damn, the audio is pretty scrambled because of the wind, makes it hard to understand the highly valuable content

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 4:17 PM

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Jeffy, I appreciate this. I could use a tip in applying this in social situations. I picked up a girl in pita pitt while listening to beer money on the radio. Good times. The place was dead mid day. No pressure. What about in deep when its live and crawling?

Situation: One girl, let's call her little miss fitness I met through cold approach @ the gym. Well, there is no perfect time, the place is rammed at all hours of the day, and I know I'll want to kick my own ass if I don't pull the trigger soon and some fucker does. This coincides with my thread about quality women that add value, attractive, fit, healthy, dolls herself up, and knows she has to work at stuff in life. No one Ittus. 3 other chicks on the go beyond the current number stated above.

I've made a splash in game since the break up. This would be helpful. In attempt to blow past this sticking point, I am starting to sign up at different gyms, attend group classes like yoga or spin running cold approach with zero intent to sign up. Yes, I know. Its diabolical.

Here is my approach: be aloof, nonchalant, tell her what I am doing, where, and when and take digits assuming she bites at the invite. I'm all ears though Jeffy.

From Power with love!

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 4:19 PM

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had a chode mocking me for doing gangnam style last fri - he was stood around with his 2 chode mates. you've got to see it from his point of view - it's easier for him to mock me than to open a girl. he was looking for me to react to him. don't let chodes spoil your night - it's my movie & he's not in it. i ignored him and opened the girl next to me and all of a sudden he didn't exist. it was only reading this article that reminded me of him. b4 you engage chodes(and yes it can be fun) ask yourself, how is this helping me get the girl?

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 7:23 PM

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you need a wind shield for your mic set up.

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 7:28 PM

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Jeffy - you say that not every girl will like you. What about Julien when he runs his drama game on them. I hear it's 100% effective 100% of the time

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 8:56 PM

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rsd hammering fundamentals.

buyer frame : forgott those days to incorporate the evaluation of the product. good reminder.

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Posted February 14th, 2013 at 2:23 AM

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americantopteam wrote:

you need a wind shield for your mic set up.

What did you think about Marco Rubio taking a drink of water last night in his reply to the SOTU address?

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Posted February 14th, 2013 at 5:49 AM

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scaramanga wrote:

had a chode mocking me for doing gangnam style last fri - he was stood around with his 2 chode mates. you've got to see it from his point of view - it's easier for him to mock me than to open a girl. he was looking for me to react to him. don't let chodes spoil your night - it's my movie & he's not in it. i ignored him and opened the girl next to me and all of a sudden he didn't exist. it was only reading this article that reminded me of him. b4 you engage chodes(and yes it can be fun) ask yourself, how is this helping me get the girl?

Getting the girl is just part of your life. Socially awkward situations is another thing all together. Yes, the guy wants you to react. Its like when they say, "sticks and stones" or how insecure people are to make fun of others. People project their insecurity onto others. Its really so lame. Good for you over coming this.

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Posted February 14th, 2013 at 4:11 PM

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thank for info

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Posted February 15th, 2013 at 4:04 AM

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having a buyer frame resolves almost all my anxiety

thanks jeff

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Posted February 15th, 2013 at 4:05 PM

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Another goodun

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Posted February 15th, 2013 at 9:46 PM

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Thnx for putting up fundamentals even tho it must pain you soo to do so haha. It is very valuable, I mean this whole rsd instructor thing is about the students, and teaching us the lessons we need. When I play soccer or teach my peers, I don't teach them the subtle lessons I learn from the game because it would mess them up in game. And it does drive me crazy, but it also warms my heart to see my teammate overcome a bad habit or technique that I know was limiting them. The team has to function, so I pay close attention to their actions and constantly praise the things they're doing that I like and I know is leading us all in the right direction. I know that no one conversation we have, will really change their game, but I have the chance to lead by example and that is really the greatest gift. Just by putting up ur vids and showing ur perspective or personality on the important topics is really the gift. I met this guy randy on bc, and we didnt even talk much, but i now do this thing called the randy opener just cuz i saw him do it so well. u could talk about president obamas speech or how Cheetos can kill ur game, either way as long as ur putting up ur authentic style it gives us all a very valuable yet subtle blueprint. I've been thinking lately that the most profound powers to be had in and from this game are in the subtleties anyway. A lot of girls I see, could harness they're own power so much greater, if they understood the power in the subtleties such as a simple glare or looking good in the right situations to influence important ppl. But what do I know, just a noob. Can't even make any mills. Yet ;)

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Posted February 17th, 2013 at 6:33 PM

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"you are making excuses not to approach....indeed

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Posted February 17th, 2013 at 9:12 PM

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Cool post! I think you do a very good 15 - 20 min microblog format along with Brad.

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Posted February 18th, 2013 at 6:26 AM

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super kool ....

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Posted February 18th, 2013 at 7:45 PM

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I love that you are readdressing newb stuff. As a more intermediate/advanced guy I find that there are small holes in my newbie foundation all the time and that these holes are actually the real sticking points keeping me from having really advanced game. Its like Brad says in the new Evolutions product. Over time what you're doing doesn't change, it just becomes more solid, like petrified wood. Well, I already know all the stuff you talked about in this video, but I can always learn it on a deeper level and become more congruent to it. I think it's foolish for people to not understand that.

Side note: Your new theme song that plays at the end of your videos is really sick. Did you compose that yourself? And if you did, what program did you use? Ableton? Something else? If it was you who composed it you need to do a lot more more producing. Becuase that beat is sick as all hell bro.

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Posted February 20th, 2013 at 5:55 AM

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Loving the fundamentals, please continue!

You mentioned about being honest with feelings... was that strictly in regards to needy emotionally attached feelings?
I've done a few pickups where I've told the girl on the opening line exactly what I think of her.. saying "Hi, I just had to say, I think you are absolutely gorgeous and I had to come meet you." something along those lines...

I've had alright success with this, nothing too too major, and it seems the times that it has worked is when the girl already knows about me through reputation.
Would you consider this to be an average guy's remark?

I'm curious as how you'd open while under natural game while not being so honest

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Posted March 3rd, 2013 at 7:25 PM

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Love this video

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Posted March 17th, 2013 at 1:50 PM

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