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This is it folks... the LAST DAY for you procrastinators to get your hands on the new book "Get Laid or Die Trying" and receive the awesome "FULLY WHORED OUT PACKAGE" including both The Jeffy Show 2 and a SIIIIIIICK ass Q&A audio which I honestly think trumps the video program as it is the most honest and grounded interview I've ever done.

Check out this final preview clip from Jeffy Shore, where I talk about BOLD MOVES and a little concept we like to call "yellow light":



If you still haven't got in on this, here's your last chance to do so... click here and buy the dang thing already:

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1451620896/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=...

Now anyway, let's kind of touch on what I discussed in the video clip.

This shift in mentality from "looking for IOIs" to "CREATING IOIs through escalation and bold moves" has been one of the single most helpful things for my game.

Take, for example, the header picture for this very article, where I'm beasting a hot ass 20 year old into the sunset over my shoulder. I was out at the St. Paddy's Day parade, and this girl saw me and came up asking to "take a picture with my mullet."

Now, the old me might take the picture, then launch into some DHV bullshit, then escalate slowly, if at all.

NEW JEFFY simply says, "Yes but there's a little tax... MULLET TAX" and proceeds to grab a fistful of her hair and forcefully make out with her DURRRRRRR

Well, whaddya know, she responds VERY WELL and reciprocates the kiss. BAM it's on and for the next 45 minutes I basically own her and her friends, saying shit like, "I am going to keep you locked in my bedroom for a month and fuck you continually the entire time... no breaks except for food and basic hygeine, just hard core FUCKING... then I shall release you to the wild" while they stand there in amazement.

Then POOF over the shoulder and up up and away.



Almost superhuman pull... and we got it all on video. Perhaps you shall view it one day.

Of course, it wasn't always like this. Over the last decade I've had to earn my stripes in the trenches. That means literally tens of thousands of approaches. Looking back though, I wouldn't change a thing.

Now, perched up here at what I really feel is the peak of my achievement and skill level in the game, I can look back and reflect. And I'd say, without a doubt, that the most important contributing factor to the level of success that I'm able to enjoy today has been a mastery of the FUNDAMENTALS.

Not fancy techniques, not elaborate explanations and hand wringing about evolutionary biology. Just a solid grasp, and constant repetition of the fundamental principles and mechanics of the game.

The great coach John Wooden, aka the winningest coach in NCAA history and one of my favorite inspirational figures, was a major proponent of the mastery of fundamentals. He said, "It's the little details that are vital. Little things make big things happen."

The devil of this game is in the details. Guys are always looking for that magical pill that is going to increase their game by 100%. This is why they gravitate towards things like the "ARMAGEDDON GAMBIT" and all this kind of shit.

The thing is, "good game" is really an aggregate of hundreds of LITTLE things that might bump your game up by a FRACTION of a percent.

Little shit like, say, using the girl's name a lot. Or maintaining physical contact with the girl as you're pulling her out of the venue. Or remembering to text her the same night you met, if you didn't pull. Stuff like that. Dotting the i's and crossing the t's, as they say.

The sobering aspect of this for many is that it's not sexy and will invariably take a long time to master.

You know what? OH FUCKING WELL. The time is gonna pass anyway, and you might as well spend it beasting. That time will pass in the blink of a fucking eye, and either you will have learned and grown, or stagnated.

The pain of discipline, or the pain of regret. The choice is yours.

Having said that however, I can't really in good faith call it "the pain" of ANYTHING, as looking back, this has been a crazy journey filled with laughter, tears, lots and lots of sex with hot girls (and some not so hot girls lol) and awesome adventures with friends.

It truly is the journey, not the destination. It's been a hell of a ride, and again... I wouldn't change a thing.

Speaking of hell of a ride, I'm about to wrap up my whirlwind tour of the USA and return to San Francisco. This being my first major book release, I can say it's been somewhat stressful and nerve-wracking, but also very eye opening. It's also great to see the fans of what we're doing here at RSD really come out in droves to support us with this book.

So yeah, this is going to be the LAST TIME I badger you to pick up a copy of the book if you haven't done so already:

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1451620896/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=...

After this, I'll be laying low for a bit and turning the stage back over to the other guys.

Not for too long, however, as there have been whisperings of something big on the horizon. I'm not gonna say what it is quite yet, but it's gonna be BIG.





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(jeffy hotseat)


OH NO HE DINT

;P

Peace,

-j
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#1

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WINNING
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 Jeffy, assuming this won't be covered in the Jeffy Show 2, would you mind popping over to the alumni forum and posting what you think are the fundamentals.

It's been a while since I took my BC and I'm sure things have moved on in RSD since then.
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mortalis

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 Thx for the value Jeffy! I purchased the book, I'm 100 pages in and its gooooood!

How do I get access to the bonus material btw? getlaidordie.com isn't working.
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 You know what? OH FUCKING WELL. The time is gonna pass anyway, and you might as well spend it beasting. That time will pass in the blink of a fucking eye, and either you will have learned and grown, or stagnated. 

The pain of discipline, or the pain of regret. The choice is yours. 

Ohhh man this makes me angry/motivated, I'm gonna smash the living fuckin shit out of the chode part of my brain!  ;)
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Anyone get the link for Jeffy Show 2 yet, I got an email when I ordered saying I would get it today
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"The pain of discipline, or the pain of regret. The choice is yours."

Sounds like something out of "Saw". Maybe you should let that little doll with the cheeky pear-shaped head roll up on its little tricycle and announce a message to some poor chode, while he got his dick stuck in some electric potato peeler :"Good evening, Richy!   All your life you have let approach anxiety get the best of you and looked for the easy way out. But procrastination is not a solution forever, at some point you got to choose! Your task is to approach 15 girls - for each girl less you approach, half an inch of your penis will be cut off, because after all, you will not need it any more. Have a life or don't, Richy - you have to chose!"

A ha ha ha ha ha!

Aaaaa hahahahaha!

Aaaa HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!

[evil laughter]
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 I want to have your children.
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NICE CLIFFHANGER AGAIN BROOOOO
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What DO YOU DO?!
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"Or remembering to text her the same night you met, if you didn't pull"

Really?
Never heard that one before.
What´s the point?
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Has anyone who purcahsed the book recieved the Jeffy Show 2??....i still havent got any sort of link sent to me!?
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Hotdog wrote:
Anyone get the link for Jeffy Show 2 yet, I got an email when I ordered saying I would get it today

I havent got any sort of link either??....i was also informed it would be sent to me on the 6th April
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guist69 wrote:



Hotdog wrote:
Anyone get the link for Jeffy Show 2 yet, I got an email when I ordered saying I would get it today

I havent got any sort of link either??....i was also informed it would be sent to me on the 6th April
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i didn't got it either and it's past monday now (in my state).. what's up with that?
guist69 wrote:



Hotdog wrote:
Anyone get the link for Jeffy Show 2 yet, I got an email when I ordered saying I would get it today

I havent got any sort of link either??....i was also informed it would be sent to me on the 6th April
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i didn't got it either and it's past monday now (in my state).. what's up with that?
guist69 wrote:



Hotdog wrote:
Anyone get the link for Jeffy Show 2 yet, I got an email when I ordered saying I would get it today

I havent got any sort of link either??....i was also informed it would be sent to me on the 6th April
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Yeah, i thought it was April 6th too. There was a countdown on the site and everything. Most anti-climactic countdown ever lol
guist69 wrote:



Hotdog wrote:
Anyone get the link for Jeffy Show 2 yet, I got an email when I ordered saying I would get it today

I havent got any sort of link either??....i was also informed it would be sent to me on the 6th April
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 while i respect all where he's come from, and i'm sure he's got some killer skills, i dont think at the core he's changed much, thinking everyone is out to spite him, 

i went to one of his book signings to meet him in person and see what he's like.... i've met owen before aswell at a hotseat and he's in a way better place then jeff

congrats on the book

moish
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 It's now April 7th here, where is this Jeffy Show 2? lol I was all excited to watch it on the 6th the day after my bday, like a wee extra birthday present :(
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I agree. I went to the book signing and jeffy just seemed so nervous. but then he started being a dick head but knew how to calibrate his behavior so no one would punch him in the face after. Is that the whole game? Just go be a asshole and then act human so you won't get yourself in trouble? The book was good though. better than THE GAME.
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 it is not!
i have a few friends who are pretty good with women but they dont put any value in it, they dont believe they are better cause they can put a woman to bed, granted. there is a respect for someone who can especially knowing they used to not be good with women, but that comes from the fact that they know what it takes to "OWN THE FUCK UP"
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Haha I love this shit. Can't wait for the Jeffy Show 2.  
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Haters gonna hate, players gonna play, Jeffy gonna .. mullet?

I liked this article Jeff, I think the idea that ESCLATATION CAUSES ATTRACTION is really really really good.  

If you were my mother, Jeff, I hope you would pet me at night like a soft kitten.

Until then...
-Cat
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i also got an email saying i'd get it today but havent gotten it.
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WHERE is Jeffy Show 2!!!?

Looks like nobody has recieved the bonus links yet....Has anyone got any idea on whats happend/happening with the bonus'
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Nice. Will the likes of you brad and tyler ever be coming across the pond for anything? mby like a world summit in europe i would love to meet u guys, cant afford to travel to us for summit.
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Yeah, um. I just wanted to say, I read Jeff's book, and it is AWESOME. Did it really take a year to write? That's killer, the dedication to everything. I read the book in roughly, 10 hours? Give or take.

It's highly entertaining, and really hard to put down. Warning: This book may put your life on hiatus for a short period of time. 

As somebody else mentioned, it's A LOT BETTER than "The Game." A ton better. The cool part? While you're reading the beginning, you think it's really awesome. But it's even cooler at the end.

The transition he makes, anyone can make. The principles apply to A LOT MORE than "pickup." This is your life we're talking about here.

Anyway, RSD guys. Listen. Hey. I want more Jeffy. Hook it up with the Jeffy Show 2. S'posed to get it yesterday, right? I didn't get SHIAT. But I'm patient and stuff. I'll keep checking my email. Thanks for everything.

Peace,

J.
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guist69 wrote:
Has anyone who purcahsed the book recieved the Jeffy Show 2??....i still havent got any sort of link sent to me!?
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Yea wtf . I  ve bought the book , almost for the bonus i ve received an émail which said you re Young to receive the bonus april 6 Th but i ve bought the book today april 7 th. Can rsd administration résolve This shit please. Thanks  
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GLODT Extra Chapter:
JEFFY RIPS OFF A HUNDRED IDIOTS

haha. nah, chill out guys. prolly Jeffy and the RSD team are taking longer to make the product even better.
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wow people ripping Jeffy for seeming nervous or something? lol. Maybe he was, or maybe you were projecting it. We're human beings. And who cares? He gets laid and thats what youre here to learn.

He doesn't say you have to be like him. Jeff didn't say it was a fundamental to tell girls you were going to them. We all have our own styles. I connect more with Tyler's 'vibe' too. Jeffy's is more aggressive/blunt/oftentimes offensive, but Im sure theres lots of dudes who connect better with that. this company offers up a variety of personalities to work with in order to prove that the little quirks can be endearing as long as you hone them.

It's the FUNDAMENTALS that are important. Forget the nitpicking of personalities, it just says more about YOU.
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Dr Feelgood wrote:
"The pain of discipline, or the pain of regret. The choice is yours."

Sounds like something out of "Saw". Maybe you should let that little doll with the cheeky pear-shaped head roll up on its little tricycle and announce a message to some poor chode, while he got his dick stuck in some electric potato peeler :"Good evening, Richy!   All your life you have let approach anxiety get the best of you and looked for the easy way out. But procrastination is not a solution forever, at some point you got to choose! Your task is to approach 15 girls - for each girl less you approach, half an inch of your penis will be cut off, because after all, you will not need it any more. Have a life or don't, Richy - you have to chose!"
hahahah
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why did you talk to her and her friends for 45 minutes...it seems like she was dtf and you could have dragged her to the van in way less time...but I wasn't there so I don't know the vibe and shit going on or if the friends were cockblocking...


Maybe because he's not anxious to prove anything to himself and can actually hold a conversation with a woman?
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 Jeffy Show 2 was fuckin awesome, listening to the audio just now :)
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yeah but who's got the time for all that.  10,000 approaches...only way you can do that is be completely free of a job and have no commitments in life.  not coincidentally, that's what these guys did remember.  they ran out to L.A.  with no job and had all day to do this.

i literally dont have enough time in the day to eat my lunch.  again, only way this works is you got to be a kid in college or have no job cuz it takes time which i dont have.
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Maybe because he's not anxious to prove anything to himself and can actually hold a conversation with a woman? www.myefox.it
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30/36. fuck yeah
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All good, got bonuses yesterday & loved em!....Winning! Epic!....RSD Tigerblood + Adonis DNA= Jeffy Show 2....
''I WANNA LICK IT!''.......DUUUUuuuuuuuuUUUUR!
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I got 27/36 on the Eye test.
I killed the face memory test. 69/72.
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fugee wrote:
yeah but who's got the time for all that.  10,000 approaches...only way you can do that is be completely free of a job and have no commitments in life.  not coincidentally, that's what these guys did remember.  they ran out to L.A.  with no job and had all day to do this.

i literally dont have enough time in the day to eat my lunch.  again, only way this works is you got to be a kid in college or have no job cuz it takes time which i dont have.
so you have a few choices... you can either make time, or die a virgin. i'm being a bit melodramatic, but you gotta pay the cost to be the boss man
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i ordered the book a while ago and still aint get the jeffy show 2
i sent my book order number in but nothing
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woops lol just found it :]
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I don't have my bonuses. Where can I find them??
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I don't have my bonuses. Where can I find them also!   myefox

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#45

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Hi Tyler, Jeff, Brad, Ozzie, Alex.. and all the RSD guys

I would like to share a suggestion with all of you !
I think it would be só much more insightfull if you guys would bring out vids of you actually infield executing the moves and the principles you guys talk about. I think it would be so much more valuable.. especially because the community already exist for such a long while and all the theory is basicly stilled down to very simple but valuable things. You hear, and you forget.. you SEE and you remember, you do and you understand !
I don't understand why there is so less infield stuff of you guys, i would also like to see Evil Stifler beasting.. now THIS would be great education ! Haha,

anyways i'm off, greetings Jarno !
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