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 WHADDUP Jeffy here once again with another little Free Tour video for you. I skipped last week's entry because my computer took a shit on itself, and I had to scramble and go to Best Buy and pick up some el cheapo one just to present hotseat on. ANYWAYS, now I'm back, the old lappie is up and running again, so I was able to throw up this week's installment on Youtuibe and get it out.

January in Canada. Who the fuck came up with this idea? IT'S FUCKING COLD. The whole time, I'm up there having dreams about the upcoming Miami Model Season Bootcamp lol. And now, tomorrow I'm headed to Calgary. Been there in the summertime for stampede and I found the girls to be among the hottest in the entire WORLD. Let's see how they stack up in the dead of winter. haha. Anyways, here are the remaining dates on my tour:

www.jeffyhotseat.com

January 14: Calgary
January 21: Toronto
January 28: Montreal

After that, I'll be doing the Miami Alumni Bootcamps with Owen and my Vampire Diaries brother Julien (he identifies with Damon, whereas I see myself more as Stefan, the truly evil one). Then it's back home for a long time to regroup. I figure for the next year, I'll take a backseat and let the other guys shine while I develop my next hotseat, which will probably see the light of day in 2013 provided the world doesn't end.

Speaking of that, 2012 is off to a good start. I've held to my resolutions of game... my count is at TWO for the year as of last night, haven't taken any phone numbers and only LEGIT hotts thus far. So far I'm averaging 1 every five days, a pretty auspicious beginning if I say so myself. How have YOUR resolutions of game been holding up? Remember, it takes 30 days to cement a new habit, so if you aren't feeling it now, give it time... let it play out and acclimate to the new reality. It will be worth it.

So, not a lot of time here as I've got a cherish night ahead of me at one of the finest restaurants in the city (I turn 36 next week and she's taking me out, aww!), so I'm gonna head out in about 20 minutes. Before I do, allow me to present to you this week's video. It's another clip from the Free Tour I did back in September in Munich. More of a practical video this time, in which I discuss a couple of age-old topics: passing congruence tests and "plowing." Enjoy.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i-hhWSvPdtQ

It's interesting for me to watch this, because as I say in the clip, I wasn't always this "alpha" guy with a rock solid frame. I distinctly remember when I was starting out, I would get tested by people in the venue and just become PARALYZED. However, through repeated exposure, you become accustomed to social pressure, and when you encounter it you no longer freeze up... instead, the training takes over and you respond appropriately.

My homeboy Gandi said it best: "These girls can't say SHIT to you... because no matter what they say, you will have some kind of comeback... they have no idea what the fuck is gonna come out of your mouth next."

I mean, it's true. I'm like some kind of TV character at this point, I always have a better answer, no matter WHAT THE CHICK SAYS. Unlike Hank Moody, however, I do not have a staff of writers scripting it out for me. I have to be able to generate my shit on the fly. How did I develop this skill? BY GOING OUT CONSTANTLY FOR YEARS.

When you go out incessantly for a period of years, pushing yourself hard, you are accumulating a MASSIVE set of data which you then learn to process heuristically. PATTERNS EMERGE. I mean, let's face it, while there exists an infinite amount of different topics that might come up in a given conversation, there are a LIMITED amount that TYPICALLY DO. No matter how aggressive the chick is, or how sarcastic, or how "close to home" the girl hits with a given topic, at this point it's almost 100% that I've heard this particular line, or some variant of it, before. So yeah, you become the most laid back, in charge, in control motherfucker around. DON DRAPER BITCHES.



Again.. how do you achieve this? GO OUT. A LOT.

There's no way around that.

You can sit here and read this faggotry all day long and it's not gonna make one iota of a fucking difference unless you GO OUT AND EXPERIMENT.

And once you actually develop this "rock" frame, that's when the real fun begins. That's when you're able to actually start FUCKING on a massive scale, because you are no longer IN YOUR HEAD scrambling to keep your head above water in the conversation, and you can use that mental processor space to actually focus on making shit happen.... escalating JUST THE RIGHT AMOUNT while monitoring her emotional wavelength and making micro adjustments, circumnavigating logistical obstacles, etc. In many cases, you'll feel almost like a cat, batting a mouse around before you eat it. Like, holy shit, this is too easy, it's not even fair. This is what we're talking about when you hear advanced guys say shit like, "I'm so good it's scary." Like, it's actually kind of frightening. lolol

Anyway, bottom line here is not to brag, but really to reiterate the FACT that NOBODY IS CUT FROM A DIFFERENT CLOTH. This isn't LUCK, it isn't MAGIC, it's KNOWLEDGE and it's REPRODUCIBLE. If we were able to achieve this kind of success, well goddamn son, ANYBODY can, provided they're willing to slog past the initial pain period where they don't see result.

And believe me kids, it's worth it. BANGTOWN USA.

Anyways, I'm off to my cherish of love. Got a LOT of videos in the pipeline, all kinds of stuff I've accrued throughout the tour. Now that my machine is up and running again, I'll focus on editing all this crap up for y'all. Until next time, I'm off to Calgary! BRR.

-j

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PS... Calgary Free Tour this Thursday! Check out the details here:

www.jeffyfreetour.com