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Heyo, just got back from Vegas which was a good time as usual.... lots of scandalous episodes with Tyler, Brad, Manwhore and the rest of the crew of retards and sex addicts. Gearing up for a bit of springtime Canadian fun this month, where I'll be joining Alexander for his last Hotseat dates in North America. There are still spots left for these programs, so if the idea of taking program with two of the most experienced coaches in the entire world sounds appealing to you, follow that instinct and sign up today:

April 12-14: Vancouver (w/ Alexander)
April 19-21: Calgary (w/ Alexander)
April 26-28: San Francisco
May 3-5: Montreal (w/ Alexander)
May 10-12: Toronto (w/ Alexander)
May 17-19: San Francisco
May 23-25: Dallas
May 31-June 2: Austin
June 6-8: Las Vegas

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SO anyway, I'm back in San Francisco and there's a ton of shit to do... really doubling down on my efforts to get the long-awaited online program going, and the more I work on it, the more work it seems like there is to do, as I keep coming up with ways to deepen and enrich the learning experience. When finished, this will lay to rest all of the misconceptions and rumors swirling around online game, and will give guys an extremely clear, easy, and EFFECTIVE way to hook up with hot girls from the internet as though you was on AMAZON PRIME DOT COM. Pussy with free two day shipping. 

Today's video is another inner game treatise. I shot off to scenic Treasure Island, where I was all like, "YO HO HO" but without a bottle of rum. I had a can of Red Bull instead, and then fired off a little missive on some common "filters of insecurity" that tend to trip guys up in field. Check it:



Pretty straightforward stuff. As I said in the video, this list is by no means intended to be a comprehensive catalog of all the various "filters of insecurity" that exist, but rather a list of the more common ones, and a starting off point for you to think of any others that might be affecting you when you're interacting with girls. 

How does one go about eliminating them? Time, practice and experience are the only real ways, but as they used to say on GI Joe, "now you know... andknowing is half the battle.: The first step is, always, admitting that you have a problem, as they say in AA.

And as I say here, in my bed, where I'm writing this from, "Cut the shit. Time to fuck."

So yup, gonna leap up for a quick coffee here, then gym, then it's back to the grind to get this goddamn online program going. Wish me luck.

C U Next Tuesday

-j 

PS. Take note... I will be doing a RETURN TRIP TO TEXAS in May to conduct two special bootcamps... the memorial day weekend bootcamp in Austin should be particularly epic, and I will also be returning to Dallas like JR motherfuckin Ewing. If you're looking to take your game to the next level in a hurry, this is the quickest and most effective way to do it. Call Stuart inthe main office for more details. 

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Mars~

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Jeffy's videos are always awesome. Favorite instructor hands down.
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Noronha

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 Jeffy is getting hotter..... lol 

I love your basic tips for game. Makes my game more simple and focused. 
Its like, micro adjustments that change my whole game. 
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Some guys are really clever when it comes to make you look bad in front of the girls. They will raise their voice, they will completely ignore you when you talk, they will make gestures of disapproval, they will secretly tell the girl you are weird. What they are doing is obvious and does not require much interpretation. Specially if they only do it when girls are around.
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YoungClassicRock wrote:
Some guys are really clever when it comes to make you look bad in front of the girls. They will raise their voice, they will completely ignore you when you talk, they will make gestures of disapproval, they will secretly tell the girl you are weird. What they are doing is obvious and does not require much interpretation. Specially if they only do it when girls are around.
True.  But, if you don't react to it, who looks more low value?
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churlskunk! wrote:

YoungClassicRock wrote:
Some guys are really clever when it comes to make you look bad in front of the girls. They will raise their voice, they will completely ignore you when you talk, they will make gestures of disapproval, they will secretly tell the girl you are weird. What they are doing is obvious and does not require much interpretation. Specially if they only do it when girls are around.
True.  But, if you don't react to it, who looks more low value?
If your boss raises his voice to you in front of them to look alpha and you just respond politely, you still look like a bitch, even though you didn't react by acting politely.
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churlskunk!

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YoungClassicRock wrote:

churlskunk! wrote:

YoungClassicRock wrote:
Some guys are really clever when it comes to make you look bad in front of the girls. They will raise their voice, they will completely ignore you when you talk, they will make gestures of disapproval, they will secretly tell the girl you are weird. What they are doing is obvious and does not require much interpretation. Specially if they only do it when girls are around.
True.  But, if you don't react to it, who looks more low value?
If your boss raises his voice to you in front of them to look alpha and you just respond politely, you still look like a bitch, even though you didn't react by acting politely.
An employer is a different dynamic.  A boss has power over you.  Granted, if you feel your boss is being abusive toward you, you can always take it up the food chain or quit or be transferred to a different department.  Some dude in a club, however, only has as much power as you give them.
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I think this is one of your best vids. Very informative. Enjoyed it Jeff! 
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Great video and topic, learned alot especially from "fear of expression". Thanks!
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Jeffy's got the hair of a god
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is the game is an expressing of your internal state convey by the rhythyms that you use to direct the energy of the interaction?
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*expression
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Thank you, come again
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 awesome post, this is what I've been thinking lately. Just one question, how do you know when to assume the insults as jokes, and when is it time to call someone out and break rapport? thanks
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justindark said: "awesome post, this is what I've been thinking lately. Just one question, how do you know when to assume the insults as jokes, and when is it time to call someone out and break rapport? thanks" 

The key distinction in the video is that a person of high self esteem NATURALLY interprets anything anyone says as a joke or a compliment, as they value their own opinion of themselves more highly than others' opinions. So the answer is to work on your self-esteem. You do this by means of self-development. 

As far as when to break rapport and when to joke, well you can actually do BOTH at once. For example some guy says some insult to me, ,I might be like, "Oh hahaha, that's funny. That reminds me of that old saying... (*scratches head*)... how does it go?...... oh, right: 'go fuck yourself' (*flips bird with a smile*)"
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car decal deja vu
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Noronha wrote:
 Jeffy is getting hotter..... lol 

I love your basic tips for game. Makes my game more simple and focused. 
Its like, micro adjustments that change my whole game. 


NO HOMO I THOUGHT THAT EXACT SHIT I WAS LIKE YO DUDE LOOKING HEALTHY 
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Enjoyed the vid, great content and shot!

Here's a vid that could add to the same concept...



Tyler
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If it were possible, this video should be "pinned"

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 Agreed.  This video would be a great intro to RSD for many of the guys that are on here trying to learn how to meet women.  So many of us are learning this with the mindset of 'getting back' at the women that spurned us at one point in our lives, and this video IMO demonstrates a very healthy way of viewing what pick-up should be about:

Bringing value to social interactions and being attractive as a consequence of that.
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 Anyone can see that Jeff is getting better and better, which probably takes a lot of work, so congrats. :-) 
The waves have a kind of meditating efect, nice touch.
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 I love these kind of videos
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 good vid
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Awesome ..very informative..I have to improve on lot of things
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Jedman

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Great post.

Similar to justindarks reply above, I defintly have some issues with low self esteem and paranoia, I can find it hard to know when someone is joking around and just making banter with me, or whether their actually taking the piss and taking it to far.

I used to just joke aroud with these people and join in with the joke, but have found that that has lead to the other person continusly pushing the boundry until it becomes abusive. But when I have called the other person out on their bad behaviour, sometimes they appolagise and understand that they crossed a boundry and its resolved, other people however refuse to admit that they have done something wrong and swear it was all a joke. Also ive found that this can make you appear to other people in the group like you are overreacting and taking things to personally and thus makes you look wierd.

I guess you have to set a boundry of what you will exept from people in the initial interaction or else people will continue to push your boundrys untill you have to call them out on it, so its important to break rapor with people like this early on or else its easy to become a doormat.

I think that with some people though you may get on well and be friends on a certain level, but you will always have a kind of social missfire where you can inadvertantly end up missinterpretting each other and falling out eventually.
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