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 Hey gang... just finished the first 5-day alumni program here in New Orleans. It was a fucking blast, lots of success all around, glory times in the night. I'd never been to New Orleans before, and so to land and head straight to Bourbon St. on Fat Tuesday it was quite a culture shock... the best way I found to describe it is... REDNECK VEGAS. haha. Super fun, great food, great parties. I'd definitely like to come back and do it again next year. From here, I'm off to Miami for a couple weeks in the sun, with the intention of changing lives, banging girls and developing this summer's tan early. I hope that by the time I return to San Francisco, I will be mistaken for a Puerto Rican. We shall see. 

Here's my schedule for the foreseeable future:

February 19-23: Miami Model Season Alumni BC (w/ Tyler and Julien)
Feb 26-Mar 2: Miami Model Season Alumni BC (w/ Tyler and Julien)
March 8-10: San Francisco
March 15-17: Los Angeles (w/ Alexander)
March 21-23: Seattle, WA
March 28-30: Los Angeles
April 5-7: San Francisco
April 12-14: Vancouver (w/ Alexander)
April 19-21: Calgary (w/ Alexander)
April 26-28: San Francisco
May 3-5: Montreal (w/ Alexander)
May 10-12: Toronto (w/ Alexander)
May 17-19: San Francisco


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So yup. Just shot today's video blog earlier this afternoon in Jackson Square. In this one, I go over what exactly is meant by "congruence," how and why it is necessary for the development of social intelligence, and how you can go about cultivating it. 



This is meant to be a little wake up call for the guys who endlessly read theory and obsess over the forums and, yes, even these videos themselves. No matter how much knowledge you have on the topic of pickup, it will not help you one iota until you have gone out a great deal and experimented with their implementation extensively. After that, you draw conclusions, internalize lessons, and try again. Wash rinse repeat. 

This is the slow, sometimes agonizing process of internalization. It is only then that you will become congruent with the teachings, and only then that pickup ceases to be something that you are DOING, and becomes simply WHO YOU ARE. Effortless. 

Of course, there's always a next level to strive for, regardless of how accomplished you become. But really, that's part of the beauty of the JOURNEY... you choose how far you want to take this road. You can stop along the way, and resume later. It's never over... until your dick falls off, or they put you in the ground. Whichever comes first. lol

So yup, simple message. Take it to heart. 

Gonna hit the hay now, then pop up bright and early to head to SUNNY MIAMI BITCHES to reunite with my wonderful friends as well as my Floridian fuckbuddies, and possibly even make some new ones. And eat at La Sandwicherie every single fucking day. 

God Bless America.

-j
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Pimp it!
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Jeffy in Nola! freaking awesome. I wish i was there
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jeffy racing julien for top views ^^
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Love the food, it looks very appetizing. smile
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I think Jeff explains this stuff as well as anyone I've heard.
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funny how jeff and julien made sure to have topcomment on the others article haha
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man... as crazy as jeffy is, his explaination of the game is absolutely clear. He is the biggest pimp in field, and can explaine his stuff like the biggest nerd. awesome.
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Hm. What else did you do with the electronic ab machine?!
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Aww Miami <3
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dude you are a PIMP
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Solid advice! Question on a related note: How does a confirmed gastronome go about getting healthier in this world of nutritional pitfalls and spectres through which we tumble and spin? This is one of my biggest current sticking points (and I think, for many others too). How does one have their cake and eat it too, so to speak?
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Mesteño wrote:
Solid advice! Question on a related note: How does a confirmed gastronome go about getting healthier in this world of nutritional pitfalls and spectres through which we tumble and spin? This is one of my biggest current sticking points (and I think, for many others too). How does one have their cake and eat it too, so to speak?


Great question actually. Best workaround I've discovered is Intermittent Fasting protocol combined with additional exercise/cardio
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developing a pimped out 'individuality'. peace
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Jeffy, will you be a candidate in the upcoming election for the new pope?
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I always look forward to these kind of videos where you talk about the journey. Thanks man! 
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Beard man pimp
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Market yourself.  Be thorough in what you are selling and overall be a really fucking cool dude.  Although I see you like to eat food (like me, we are practically related), it is good to eat it in several small servings and be man enough to just push the plate away.  What do you want more: rock hard abs or food satisfaction?
You and Todd make an interesting combo, in which conflicting personalities come in handy by changing each other's state of mind, and so on and so on.
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Anthony John wrote:
Market yourself.  Be thorough in what you are selling and overall be a really fucking cool dude.  Although I see you like to eat food (like me, we are practically related), it is good to eat it in several small servings and be man enough to just push the plate away.  What do you want more: rock hard abs or food satisfaction?


Food satisfaction. :)
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lookin pretty caveman there jeff with the beard and protuding pecs lolololol
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Very good advice. Probably one the most important thing. New Orlean remebers me a little bit of Montreal at summer time.
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Hopefully next video you'll have a big tall glass of ice cold kombucha on tap. 
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That's me men, you get me. i stop aproching because of so many rejections losing hope maybe. what i did is just waching videos like this one or I am spending time on Face Book, rarly i wach porno too, and masturbeating. so this message is totaly for me,  and I am consider to change. thank you. I began my day by jogging and i am  looking forwards to be constantly congrunt. and I cheak the eara of my life what's going wrong and i want to  limit those habits and I'll get girl friends in real life. 
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I start getting why I suck so much.
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But, I just want to watch the #49092804923809th video. Damn it Jeffy, you making me do work.
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Best pimp alive.... 

respect jeff
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I dont get iiiiiit,... whaaaaag, I thought you told us all that looks dont matter, - now all of a sudden you are supposed to dress like "a cool guy".... I thought being good with women doesnt have to do with anything like that, - .... now you're basically just telling us to become douchebags whaaaa all this different pieces of information,... waaaagh, - i dont get it


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dave7- wrote:
Hopefully next video you'll have a big tall glass of ice cold kombucha on tap. 

Kombucha is for lesbians. I know this because my friend told me; she lives in New York City.
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Great vid, its cool getting the basics again from you "reptition is the mother of all skill"..!
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Are those food comments referring to the shrimp covered birdseed?
Why are you eating bread, that shit is crap.

Like the content of the video, though.
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Out come the paleo cultists lol- if Tyler told you to drink bull semen and rub it on your face you would gladly line up for some taurine bukkakke. Piss off, I do what I want *cartman voice*
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In the next video, I'm going to drink whiskey and eat a loaf of bread
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You know Jeff a Iiked the video before I watched it. I also like that you do videoblog more often than in past.
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Isn't Tyler trinking Kombucha all the time lol?
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Lucky90 wrote:
Isn't Tyler trinking Kombucha all the time lol?

Yup. I'm here with him right now in fact and he's writing up an article on his computer while listening to Melissa Etheridge
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Thus in theory mixing Kambucha and Whiskey together might actually make Melissa Etheridge's music palatable...
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Intrigue79 wrote:
Thus in theory mixing Kambucha and Whiskey together might actually make Melissa Etheridge's music palatable...

I lol'ed
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shiiiiittt haha de-nerdification is pretty good. Un-dorkify..?
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All heil PALEO motherfucker. I eat a better diet than all you fuckers combined.
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LOL!...."DerrRRRRRRR!!"

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Holland wrote:
All heil PALEO motherfucker. I eat a better diet than all you fuckers combined.

And what. You're going to live maybe two years longer than me and have to go through life unable to eat at most restaurants without being that annoying guy at the table whining to the server about his dietary restrictions while everyone else rolls their eyes? I mean hey more power to you, it's just not my cup of tea. I look good naked so fuck it

Ps- mark sisson recommends you drink bull semen, check it out
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jlaix wrote:

Holland wrote:
All heil PALEO motherfucker. I eat a better diet than all you fuckers combined.

And what. You're going to live maybe two years longer than me and have to go through life unable to eat at most restaurants without being that annoying guy at the table whining to the server about his dietary restrictions while everyone else rolls their eyes? I mean hey more power to you, it's just not my cup of tea. I look good naked so fuck it

Ps- mark sisson recommends you drink bull semen, check it out
Don't feed the troll Jeffy. Either this guy is an idiot or he's trolling.

If he's trying to demonstrate eating paleo is a sign he's superior he should also be intelligent enough to realize half the forum actually fuckin eats like that. So he's not really better than any fuckers.

Or if he's trying to demonstrate eating paleo is the way to achieve a superior physique then he should be focused on getting that physique and not meaningless discussion in forums in the first place.

Which leads me back to my original conclusion. Thinly veiled troll is thinly veiled.
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jlaix wrote:

dave7- wrote:
Hopefully next video you'll have a big tall glass of ice cold kombucha on tap. 

Kombucha is for lesbians. I know this because my friend told me; she lives in New York City.
Yea lesbians are gaaayyyy
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dave7- wrote:

jlaix wrote:

dave7- wrote:
Hopefully next video you'll have a big tall glass of ice cold kombucha on tap. 

Kombucha is for lesbians. I know this because my friend told me; she lives in New York City.
Yea lesbians are gaaayyyy

And the sky is blue. What's your point? Homophobe.
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jlaix wrote:

Intrigue79 wrote:
Thus in theory mixing Kambucha and Whiskey together might actually make Melissa Etheridge's music palatable...

I lol'ed

Sorry to make you LOL. I hope it didn't cause you to choke on your gluten free vegan bull spooge :)
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Dammit lol'ed again
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There are more benefits to a solid diet than just longevity.
I call birdseed all the time, call it trolling if you want, I'm just saying that shit is wack.
I understand that people may have different choices in lifestyle.
If you want to pound the birdseed, go right ahead.
Plus, why eat in a restaurant if you can get double the amount of food for half the price in an organic food store?
This whole 'living the good life in a luxurous restaurant' is just a bullshit 'looking good' mirage of social conditioning (similar to a guy that puts himself in debt and buys a hot car with rims and a big watch to impress other people).
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Shit man, the veil has been lifted. I see now that enjoyment of earthly things is delusion. Thank you sir
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