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How ya goin mates, Jeffy here once moar with yet another live update from the fields of majesty, aka Middle Earth, aka Kiwi Village, aka New Zealand. Pretty epic weekend, lots of transformation taking place on this past weekend's Bootcamp... totally warped some students' paradigms, got them LAID... and even Alexander has come around and now admits that Auckland has some pretty hot girls, having railed up a Maori Pocahontas under a waterfall (aka the shower in the hotel room).

Now that the first stage of the down under tour is complete, it's on to Australia. As usual, I'll now present the remaining stops on the tour for those just joining us:

www.jeffyhotseat.com

Australia & New Zealand:
November 12: Perth
November 19: Melbourne
November 26: Sydney

Canada:
January 7: Vancouver
January 14: Calgary
January 21: Toronto
January 28: Montreal


Recorded a pretty awesome vblog yesterday addressing many of the questions that were raised in my article a couple weeks back about being highly polarizing and obnoxious. However, due to issues with the 3rd world internet situation here, I was unable to upload it in time for today's deadline, so I'm going to retain that one for a future article. I've also got new clips from the various free tours I've been conducting, but again they need to be uploaded before that can happen, so today I'm just busting out a straight, text-only article... oldschool style.

Nonetheless, I intend for it to be a barn burner... or more accurately, a funeral pyre.

Today I am solemnly announcing the DEATH OF BEASTMODE.

"What the fuck Jeffy? Aren't you MR BEASTMODE?! What is this all about?"

Glad you asked. Let me explain.

We'll start with some background. About two years ago in San Francisco, circumstances were such that a loose knit group of wings began to coalesce around me and the whole RSD operation there. The first guys to join up were Minotaur and BonoboTimes. Minotaur was a bootcamp student, a guy who was naturally quite aggressive in other areas of his life, but not so much when it came to girls. On the bootcamp, we taught him physical game... and he basically just RAN WITH IT to its logical conclusion. lol. His wing Bonobo came on the scene around that time as well, and together these guys began wreaking utter mayhem in the clubs on a nightly basis. You'd see them out EVERY SINGLE NIGHT, going hard as FUCK and pulling.

Then, through my attorney, the original "Stifler," (a beast par excellence in his own right I might add), I met the now-legendary Evil Stifler. I view meeting this guy as some sort of cosmic intervention, because he's almost like some sort of joke... a caricature of what the ULTIMATE PLAYER might look like, that is, a guy who does ABSOLUTELY NOTHING except strive to get laid. LITERALLY. Combine this with a backstory that is the perfect storm of game... genetic predisposition and upbringing conducive to ultimate natural game.

We all started going out together and around this core, others began to embrace the highly aggressive nature and style of game being executed by these guys. It was RSD principles, but taken to an extreme, going hard at 100% clip, fuck or walk type shit.

Minotaur was the first one to coin the phrase that would become synonomous with this style: "BEAST MODE."

That's what it was. Straight fuckin beast shit. Unthinking action, like fuckin animals, prowling through the club with minimal thought, just action.

I've got to admit, this style was a bit of a shock even to me, at first. But then I saw that the results that these guys were getting and there was no denying that something awesome was happening here. Pulls almost every single night, and occasionally multiple times a night. That's when I knew, there was something to it. That's when I decided to go down this rabbit hole, and immerse myself in this style completely, to learn exactly what the fuck was going on here.

So BAM... role reversal. The teacher decided to become the student as I observed these guys and basically followed their lead over the course of the next two years. the tales and things I saw and experienced over this time were legendary, and I'll likely bring them to the world at some point in the form of a book. This shit, this "beast mode," was the real deal, and I loved every fuckin minute of it. It was brutal, it was effective, and most of all.. exhilaratingly fun.

Hence, I wanted to bring it to the RSD Nation at large so they, too, could reap the benefits of this new style.

So I began espousing it. Initially it was well-received. There were questions, and I had answers. The now-legendary thread "Beasting on Scallywags" by Bonobo brought the PROOF that it worked in the real world. All was well.

But somewhere, somehow, things started to go sideways. People began hearing about "beasting" and applying their own meanings to the term, without actually bothering to learn what the fuck it was all about. Haters began purposefully warping the term to sow dissent. "Beastmode" started to become a caricature of itself. Now you've got guys abandoning the core principles and just power-bombing bitches with their dick with zero attunement to how they're making the chick feel. LITERALLY just zero skill numbers game shit. Getting punched in the fuckin face because they have no calibration, and laboring under the impression that they are "REPPIN BEAST MODE BRO."

Things have gotten so out of hand with this, that it's basically lost all meaning. The shit means nothing now. It's a fuckin sound in the air that sounds "BEEMOHHHHHH" that's it. Hell for all I know, the term could mean a Portuguese dish consisting of waterfowl and spices or some shit. Who gives a fuck, it's done.

I'm over it, fuck beastmode it's done. REST IN PEACE MOTHERFUCKER.

BUT... even though the TERM itself has sort of dissipated beyond meaningful comprehension, the SPIRIT lives on, indefinitely. Over the course of these past two years I've learned everything that could be learned from "beastmode" and these lessons are in fact extraordinarily simple:

1. Act without thought or hesitation immediately upon seeing the girl
2. Play to WIN (not to "avoid losing")

The big thing I learned from winging with Evil Stifler is that the guy is operating on a very, um... "low level consciousness." He doesn't think about SHIT. He just goes. It's true that man is a thinking creature, but we do our best work when we are in that "flow" state. You go and you trust your faculties.

Look at it this way: humans have existed on this planet for roughly half a million years. During that entire time, evolution has ruthlessly weeded out the "unfit," generation after generation. This is not some abstract hyperbole, this is fact. Yet YOU are somehow here today. That means that EVERY SINGLE ONE of your ancestors was able to get laid at least once, going back to the dawn of the species. The ability to approach a woman and have sex with her is hardwired into your fucking DNA and has been continually error-checked for hundreds of millenia. "Social conditioning" is an EXTREMELY recent phenomenon, relatively speaking, yet here we are. Chodes scared to "look bad" half-stepping with behavior and second-guessing themselves and their natural instincts.

Like I said in last week's article, the big lesson that I got from Evil Stifler was how he is completely connected with his sexuality and effortlessly expresses it as though it's the most natural thing in the world... BECAUSE IT IS. Like a cat stalking a bird, he trusts his faculties and goes. He's never had to think about getting laid, and to do so might actually fuck him up. That's why he's somewhat fascinated with RSD and the idea that you could develop some sort of intellectual framework to pickup; it seems utterly alien to him.

When I first started exploring beastmode, I couldn't help but be reminded of my time in Barcelona, and how I was fascinated by the architecture of Antoni Gaudi. Around the same time that I was getting into this style, I ran across an article in National Geographic about Gaudi and was struck by the parallels between himself and Evil Stifler (completely ridiculous, I know... lol... but hear me out).

Gaudí based his buildings on a simple premise: If nature is the work of God, and if architectural forms are derived from nature, then the best way to honor God is to design buildings based on his work. As the Barcelona scholar Joan Bassegoda Nonell noted, "Gaudí's famous phrase, 'originality is returning to the origin,' means that the origin of all things is nature, created by God." Gaudí's faith was his own. But his belief in the beautiful efficiency of natural engineering clearly anticipated the modern science of biomimetics.

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Gaudi understood that nature's purpose is not aesthetic but functional. Nature does not try to make works of art, or to "look good" but rather produces elements that rule the growth and reproduction of species. He was a "tightrope walker on the line bridging art and science. He understood that nature is constructed by laws of mathematics. What is strongest is inherently lightest and most efficient, and therefore most beautiful."

Often times, guys get into this stuff and the first thing they do is have a knee-jerk reaction to "social conditioning," and take pains to eradicate it from their lives. The problem is, it just gets replaced by another form of conditioning... "pickup conditioning," where everything is analyzed. Relative value to the girl, angles of approach, etc etc etc ad nauseam. Social conditioning gets replaced by another form of conditioning.

The true strength lies in a return to the origin. A return to nature and natural forms.

A return to "beastmode."

Like I said, at this point I think I've learned everything there is to learn from our buddy Evil Stifler, because it's not that complicated, nor in fact is it even "his" to begin with. He's just completely free of extra "thought-baggage", takes massive action and goes for the kill, every time.

Having internalized this, I feel I can now return to the realm of the "higher consciousness folk" with a much better understanding of the underpinnings of our more complex ideas surrounding this whole "success with women" thing. Head to head with Evil Stifler in set, going for the same girl, a lot of times I can blow his ass out or eclipse him because I have better verbals and better technical understanding. That's fuckin SCIENCE right there pal.


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But a lot of the time, while I'm busting out my awesome technical verbals, dude just grabs and goes. He's got the balls to yank and pull while I'm still dickin around and in those instances he wins out. And even if he doesn't, welp... he just goes and pulls some other ass. The dude pulls every fuckin night. So, the bare fact of the matter remains... KEEP IT SIMPLE, STUPID. You have everything you need RIGHT NOW to get laid like the proverbial rockstar. You've just got to let go of the noise in the head, take massive action without hesitating, and play to win.

"Beastmode" may be dead, but as Bassegoda wrote: "Looking toward the future, the lesson of Gaudí is not to copy his solutions but rather to look at nature for inspiration … nature does not go out of fashion."

Cheers,

-j

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PS. Heading to PERTH this week... for those of you on the West coast of Aussieland, get your ass to the free tour, as this is my FIRST TIME EVER in Perth and not only that, Alexander is coming with me. All are welcome as there are plenty of seats remaining. Here's the venue:

Metro Hotel Perth (61 Canning Highway, South Perth)
Thursday, November 10th, 6:00 PM

See you this Thursday!

www.jeffyfreetour.com
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#51
jlaix

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Actually, I just wanted a controversial title to generate page views.

BEASTMODE WILL NEVER DIE SUCKERS
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#52

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 Love this Jeff. Know exactly what you mean- even beastmode fucked me in the last few months or so, after an initial month of success. Began being rigid and uncalibrated.

The whole 'being natural' and returning to originality thing reminds me of your article on 'Believing my game is a 10 at all times'- That you wrote a couple years ago- was the purest, most motivating shit i've ever read. The week after reading that was my best period i've ever had- truly BEASTING but with calibration rather than an overly aggressive oaf.
Good to see you're returning to that and hope I can too
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#53

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 social momentum aspect of beasting still important tho- idea of 'beasting' all day, not thinking, playing to win--more you do that, more momentum you have
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#54

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 social momentum aspect of beasting still important tho- idea of 'beasting' all day, not thinking, playing to win--more you do that, more momentum you have
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Tyler wrote:
I always palm my face at any notion that RSD is "selling out" because my understanding of how to ACTUALLY SELL OUT is pretty damned sharp -- not to mention that opportunities to do so are thrown at me by major companies on a weekly basis.  In the same way I understand game, teaching game, etc, I understand how to "sell out" and reserve the right to do so any time I feel like adding an extra 7 or 8 figures into my bank account -- but for now, I keep it real as hell by going out 7 nights a week and teaching nearly every single weekend.

Guys like Nick or myself have graduated from good schools and have other career opportunities.  We do this because we love it.  If we were in this for the money we could make a lot more.  Even just shifting my focus from going out non stop to doing a lil bit of internet marketing would be more profitable.  Instead I run intimate and low profit 3 on 1 bootcamps nearly every weekend and teach bizarre esoteric concepts that the mainstream can barely understand, because I have a true love for the game.  (Look at my actions not my words.  Anyone can say "I'm in this for love".  Look at my actual behaviour though.)  I choose to increase business by improving product quality and not marketing, which takes a lot longer but is something I do for love.

This is hard to understand for someone who doesn't have passion because they assume that if THEY were in my position they'd sell out -- they can't believe anyone would be hardcore enough into the game that they'd love it more than money (they fail to realize that a certain amount of money is enough and that a passion is beyond what money can buy).

Instructors creating their own spins on PUA is me allowing them to spread them wings creatively and as teachers.  It's to make things more interesting for the students as well because people often connect with different terminology or angles.  If I wanted to crank in cash I'd immediately switch from the free Youtube videos to monetizing them into video streaming combined with added value extras in order to do a few hundred thousand a launch.

If you want passionate people to provide you with free value and stay true to the game I say reward them with props. If the few people who actually do this for love get called greedy capitalists then you're encouraging them to actually be that way and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.  In my case I get so much props I wouldn't let the odd guy put me off of doing what I love, but in general I'd say it's not the way to go.

In the meantime I've always believed I can create that mega success by doing things organically.  If I do so I have no doubt people will still say it's a sell out but I know that the audience whose approval I actually value will see it for what it is. ;)
NaturalZane wrote:

besserwisser wrote:
Then I bet beastmode is like diet coke. They will introduce the same thing with another name and there you have coke zero. idea
YUP, nothing is truer in RSD culture. I heard Alex Tresure is making a video program and maybe he'll come up with his own term.

I wasn't expecting a long reply but thanks! And I do give you guys props on all the hard work and value you guys offer to the people.

I also give you guys props for no being a greed capitalist and keeping the passion in your work.

It's just that I have to learn what these terms mean and it made it harder to "use what works and discard what doesn't" because some of these term are made up by "advance guys"  who are trying to be playful and have fun because they've reached a level of their game where they can.
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#56
Tyler

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Aaaah yeah that's a good point.

I'm working on a newbie site for this exact reason.  Did 4 dryruns in the past month.  Putting serious work into this, even though for me it is boring as hell and difficult to come across sincere with it because newbie PUA no longer interests me.

I'd say follow the "Foundations" DVD program.  The only reason I'm even having to redo this is that everyone assumes because it's older that it's no longer relevent, which is not accurate -- all I'm doing with this newbie site is making an even more dumbed down version of Foundations with more recent terminology.

Tyler
NaturalZane wrote:

Tyler wrote:
I always palm my face at any notion that RSD is "selling out" because my understanding of how to ACTUALLY SELL OUT is pretty damned sharp -- not to mention that opportunities to do so are thrown at me by major companies on a weekly basis.  In the same way I understand game, teaching game, etc, I understand how to "sell out" and reserve the right to do so any time I feel like adding an extra 7 or 8 figures into my bank account -- but for now, I keep it real as hell by going out 7 nights a week and teaching nearly every single weekend.

Guys like Nick or myself have graduated from good schools and have other career opportunities.  We do this because we love it.  If we were in this for the money we could make a lot more.  Even just shifting my focus from going out non stop to doing a lil bit of internet marketing would be more profitable.  Instead I run intimate and low profit 3 on 1 bootcamps nearly every weekend and teach bizarre esoteric concepts that the mainstream can barely understand, because I have a true love for the game.  (Look at my actions not my words.  Anyone can say "I'm in this for love".  Look at my actual behaviour though.)  I choose to increase business by improving product quality and not marketing, which takes a lot longer but is something I do for love.

This is hard to understand for someone who doesn't have passion because they assume that if THEY were in my position they'd sell out -- they can't believe anyone would be hardcore enough into the game that they'd love it more than money (they fail to realize that a certain amount of money is enough and that a passion is beyond what money can buy).

Instructors creating their own spins on PUA is me allowing them to spread them wings creatively and as teachers.  It's to make things more interesting for the students as well because people often connect with different terminology or angles.  If I wanted to crank in cash I'd immediately switch from the free Youtube videos to monetizing them into video streaming combined with added value extras in order to do a few hundred thousand a launch.

If you want passionate people to provide you with free value and stay true to the game I say reward them with props. If the few people who actually do this for love get called greedy capitalists then you're encouraging them to actually be that way and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.  In my case I get so much props I wouldn't let the odd guy put me off of doing what I love, but in general I'd say it's not the way to go.

In the meantime I've always believed I can create that mega success by doing things organically.  If I do so I have no doubt people will still say it's a sell out but I know that the audience whose approval I actually value will see it for what it is. ;)
NaturalZane wrote:

besserwisser wrote:
Then I bet beastmode is like diet coke. They will introduce the same thing with another name and there you have coke zero. idea
YUP, nothing is truer in RSD culture. I heard Alex Tresure is making a video program and maybe he'll come up with his own term.

I wasn't expecting a long reply but thanks! And I do give you guys props on all the hard work and value you guys offer to the people.

I also give you guys props for no being a greed capitalist and keeping the passion in your work.

It's just that I have to learn what these terms mean and it made it harder to "use what works and discard what doesn't" because some of these term are made up by "advance guys"  who are trying to be playful and have fun because they've reached a level of their game where they can.


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#57
parabolic

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billy ray cyrus wrote:
gaudí mode 4lyfe
hells yeah!
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#58

AsierGonzalez

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The thing is: BEASTMODE helps you to get out your comfort zone sometimes you get loads of pain but it made me grow loads too.

The key in social dynamics is of course not saying: "OK now I'm beastmode fan , beastmode for life , Let's do a tattoo and treat my mum beastmode way"

The key is having an arsenal of weapons , one is BeastMode , EmotionalMode , DeepMode , HilariousMode... And using it when the occasion demand.

By the way, You'll never get that unforgettable nights without beastmode... You can get laid being romantic or nerd or chode ( sometimes ) ... But that beastmode experiences are matchless.
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#59

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 By the way , Beastmode was always there:

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#60
Kuz

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jlaix wrote:
Actually, I just wanted a controversial title to generate page views.

BEASTMODE WILL NEVER DIE SUCKERS
Oh thank god! For a minute there i thought you wuz serious.

To be honest Jeffy, this is sort of your own fault. You seem to get a kick out of making the extremes seem like the norm. That of course is your style/image and we love you for it... but i didn't see much in the way of "beasting" at Hot Seat. No whipping the dick out or telling girls to SUCK A PENGUIN'S DICK etc...

Hey, it's fun getting blow-jobs on the dance floor etc... And lord knows in the right place with the right people (Warehouse raves, *ahem*) crazy shit will happen. But if you go around presenting this shit as the norm, and talking about this shit INORDINATELY then people are gonna latch on to that as what they should be ASPIRING to. When really, all they should be thinking about is concluding an interaction to sex as efficiently as they can.

I'm sure much of this has been prompted by your discussions with Alex down-under as he seeks to define himself seperate from all the other RSD Instructors presently.
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#61

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 I dont regret getting into beastmode and YES I have often taken on situations that I had no experience/attunement with. Instead of trying to baby step forward i jumped in. Yes a lesbian narrowly missed my face with her lesbo palm of death technique but I have also experienced a lot of successes that otherwise my attunement/experience level would have never allowed like 5 minute pulls to alleys. I love being able to go big, I am the person many wish they were. I watch TV shows like Sons of anarchy and my weekends are just as full of adventure, characters, and drama. (although much safer) thanks to beastmode my life is exciting. Many people attune themselves around me and I dont have to bother, and I can do extreme crazy shit and get away with it because i have so much experience going big its just second nature.

It's like getting into a very fast car for the first time. You just want to floor it and feel the power, you may veer around wildly but soon you learn control and to ease up on the turns and anticipate the curves of the road. 
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#62
Rosco

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Jeffy regularly explained that Beastmode was taking immediate action and playing to win not long after Beastmode became a buzzword or whatever. I don't get the confusion :S

Like Tyler said though there probably was only 10 guys that went out and behaved like crazies, I'm really not understanding the beef people seem to have with Jeffy lately lol, and the London HotSeat was fucking awesome as well.

I think people maybe have these little ideas made up in their heads (that aren't based on their own actual experience but rather theories...bullshit) of what Instructors are like, and the reason for all the retarded misinterpretations is that their not actually going out regularly so have no idea how this shit works. I met a few people at HotSeat that were clearly not going out and actually told me this, and they were the ones that were full of ideas and theories and bullshit, its quite scary. Also met a bunch of cool mofo's there too btw.

My point is that its pretty likely that most of the dudes that misinterperet RSD stuff aren't actually going out and applying it regularly, cuz if they did they would have some fuckin common sense and realise that they'll come to understand this shit by going out more, not being lazy and posting retarded questions.

I've never asked questions on this forum because like, jesus christ the company has a fuckin 20 hour dvd seminar that explains everything :S just fuckin go out. You can't learn the shit without going out a tonne, you can read the answers but you won't understand.

Rant over but fuck that had to be said,

Rosco
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#63

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 HOW DARE YOU GREEDY CAPITALISTS! YOU GAVE ME FREE INFORMATION AND I COULD NOT UNDERSTADN IT!!! never mind that I did not impliment it BUT YOU SHOULD HAVE TO GIVE ALL YOUR MATERIALS FREE TO THE NEEDY BECAUSE your the selfish ones!!!!  ;)

(kidding- im reading atals shrugged... if youv read it, what im saying makes more sense.....)

and im not on your level so you should have to come down here to help me! its meee who deserves more girls because I dont have any... forget that I dont put effort into it... forget that I never fully understood your concepts but feel like I can devise my own hypothesis out of a completly rehtorical understanding.

DOOO I MAKE SENSE TO YOU!!! Did you stay at this for 10 years wanting it more than you wanted to breath? because I havent :S pft but lets be honest when your in the middle of a full garbage can, its hard to tell your in the middle of all that trash.. until you climb your way out you wont truley see all the filth that was around you...

anywaysss.. I literally like to pretend im phycotic sometimes and dumb for pure self amusment and to see my best friend laugh, knowing full well he realizes my intelligence while the guy across the street looks at me like im about to his dog ;)
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#64
Brucefast

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Hey Jeffy. Nice article buddy, articulate, and eloquent prose too!! You said it New York and are saying again. Just take the bitches without obsession or reflection.

Ya know, like a lot of guys on this site I get caught in the analysis, and the pain of flakes associated with intermediate purgatory-reading this post has inspired me to forge ahead and "RUN THE BITCHES OVER" in Boston and Providence. Ostensibly speaking the expression of intent element of my game probably has diminished since the bootcamp in October-but your article through the exploits of evil sticker has reminded me of this core element expression of intent, it simplicity and utterly profound importance!! Thank you for that..

Wishing you an awesome time in Aussieland.

Regards.

Bruce

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#65

zeekay

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So fucken true
Rosco wrote:
Jeffy regularly explained that Beastmode was taking immediate action and playing to win not long after Beastmode became a buzzword or whatever. I don't get the confusion :S

Like Tyler said though there probably was only 10 guys that went out and behaved like crazies, I'm really not understanding the beef people seem to have with Jeffy lately lol, and the London HotSeat was fucking awesome as well.

I think people maybe have these little ideas made up in their heads (that aren't based on their own actual experience but rather theories...bullshit) of what Instructors are like, and the reason for all the retarded misinterpretations is that their not actually going out regularly so have no idea how this shit works. I met a few people at HotSeat that were clearly not going out and actually told me this, and they were the ones that were full of ideas and theories and bullshit, its quite scary. Also met a bunch of cool mofo's there too btw.

My point is that its pretty likely that most of the dudes that misinterperet RSD stuff aren't actually going out and applying it regularly, cuz if they did they would have some fuckin common sense and realise that they'll come to understand this shit by going out more, not being lazy and posting retarded questions.

I've never asked questions on this forum because like, jesus christ the company has a fuckin 20 hour dvd seminar that explains everything :S just fuckin go out. You can't learn the shit without going out a tonne, you can read the answers but you won't understand.

Rant over but fuck that had to be said,

Rosco
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#66
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Tyler wrote:
Funny enough I often "beast" harder and more aggressively than anyone (remember I go out 7 nights a week).  Including taking risks to my physical safety and being very competitive -- not for the ego aspect of being competitive, but strangely for the "spiritual" side of it -- I believe that CHOOSING to be competitive brings you closer to your inner nature as a young man.

(Ultimately we need to "be ourselves..."  When we are truly ourselves, we are closest to our inner natures.  The decision to compete in our youths forces us to face reality for what it is and make continual course corrections, which drives us into the present moment.)

I don't teach it in this way because my personal belief is that there's certain understandings in the game that cannot be related to the newbie, and yet you do not NEED to explain them because anyone who goes out long enough will STUMBLE ON THEM ON THEIR OWN.

Like there's very brutal aspects of human nature that I understand and that would fry the brains of most newbies.  But why get into it?  Anyone who goes out long enough will "get it" in their own.  This stuff is so obvious to anyone who goes out.

What I always say to people who think Jeff is too aggressive or insane is this:  Take a program with him.

Because your kneejerk reaction is a sign that you want to stay in your comfort zone.  Go beyond.  Learn something that makes you sick to think about learning.  That's where some of the most profound progress is often made.

(I was sickened to learn from Eckhart Tolle.  He seemed like a braindead old man who couldn't speak properly, like a man who had given up on life.  Yet he's become my most important teacher.  Go figure.)
Moliere wrote:
jeff ty bro ...much love :)

btw
for me BEASTMOD always seems fun and funny thing to do but at the same time its like really immature.
that is way i prefer tyler style .. just be congruent


LOL i just can't imagine you beasting (or maybe i dont really know the meaning of beasting)
but who knows, perhaps if you release like 5-10min from the Hot set I\we will have better reference of you wink

and your absolutely right ... i should get out of my comfort zone more often

btw
it will be like a dream come true if i could take progrem with jeff or with you
but unfortunately im not from US
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#67
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it can be as political/controversial as you like, but arguing over a definition will never end well. it will probably be a good thing that they repackage it and refine the term, i know i associate beast mode with some sort of rapey sex mongering wolf man of the night… the term just sounds rough.

jeffy explained what beast mode was from the start... then people ran with it and the term eventually got skewed. shit happens. call it what you will, but anyone who is actually interested in self improvement would recognise the fundamentals for what they are - be yourself (not a social retard) and nut the fuck up. simple.

this may mean being heavily physical or just chilling back... i don't know... that's relevant to the situation and the onus is on you to figure that one out. they are hear to signal you in the right direction, not spoon feed you a magic pill.

golly gawsssh guys. why so serious!
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 Tyler is EXTREMELY aggressive, way more than I am most of the time. He just doesn't post about it. 

anyway, me and Alexander aka "purple earplug" have a new style on the go. ROMANTIC BEAST
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jlaix wrote:
 Tyler is EXTREMELY aggressive, way more than I am most of the time. He just doesn't post about it. 

anyway, me and Alexander aka "purple earplug" have a new style on the go. ROMANTIC BEAST

what exactly do you mean by "aggressive"?
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5x in a day with romantic beast....um...

Game has to be engineered really around the kind of results you want. You kinda go back to the drawing board once in a while.
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I don't think you can be aggressive only when approaching a girl...

You have to be aggressive and dominant in all fucking areas of your life.

His aggressiveness is just an expression of who he is at this moment in his life. IMO he's just trying to be more congruent with it..

Moliere wrote:
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Moliere wrote:

what exactly do you mean by "aggressive"?
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MAYHEM wrote:
+1 to Beast's point.

Tyler's aggressiveness is totally congruent with his personality and the way he lives his life. Very strong single minded intent, with a decade of public speaking to back up his verbal somersaults and commanding lead. If you're a Tolle monk, you just won't be able to pull of what he pulls off without it being very incongruent and try hard.

Like in Tyler's new video, know and accept your own unique personality. If you're a nerd, "own it" and work with that foundation of your game. If you're a hippie, you probably won't be a "beast".

but Tyler's nerd. he said that on himself all the time
and base on free tours lits easy to see that the guy is not really an alpha (and nothing wrong with that of course).
so how come that he still can be aggressive and congruent at the same time? you know like the example with the 2 russians and the champagne (i want him to buy me the champagne! LOL) he act really alpha but dose it mean he were also congruent?
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MAYHEM wrote:
You're assuming that people who fit into "nerd" and "alpha" categories are one dimensional people who aren't capable of behaving outside of what their category allows.

"You're a nerd! You aren't allowed to be aggressive! You can only do this, this and this... AND NOTHING ELSE!"

"You're alpha. Bend me over and fuck me in the ass. I'll let you because you're obviously alpha and I'm beta so that's the natural order."

Really?! Fuck no!
dude wtf
this is you said "Like in Tyler's new video, know and accept your own unique personality. If you're a nerd, "own it" and work with that foundation of your game. If you're a hippie, you probably won't be a "beast". "
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jlaix wrote:

anyway, me and Alexander aka "purple earplug" have a new style on the go. ROMANTIC BEAST
So is it "Romantic Beast von Gandi" now? Gotta be careful with those terms, ha ha!

Guys, let me also quote some Celine Dion here! The lyrics of "Beauty and the Beast" get a whole new meaning when you picture Jeffy doing his thing while reading them:

"Tale as old as time
 True as it can be
 Barely even friends
 Then somebody bends
 Unexpectedly

[...]

 Ever just the same
 Ever a surprise
 Ever as before
 Ever just as sure
 As the sun will rise

 Tale as old as time
 Tune as old as song
 Bittersweet and strange
 Finding you can change
 Learning you were wrong

 Certain as the sun
 Rising in the east
 Tale as old as time
 Song as old as rhyme
 Beauty and the beast."
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Thank God!!! End that silly shit! Beastmode never really worked for me! Ended up freaking the girls out more than hooking up...Probably was doing it wrong! "mouthrape??" ....also bad advice! lol
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Moliere wrote:

MAYHEM wrote:
You're assuming that people who fit into "nerd" and "alpha" categories are one dimensional people who aren't capable of behaving outside of what their category allows.

"You're a nerd! You aren't allowed to be aggressive! You can only do this, this and this... AND NOTHING ELSE!"

"You're alpha. Bend me over and fuck me in the ass. I'll let you because you're obviously alpha and I'm beta so that's the natural order."

Really?! Fuck no!
dude wtf
this is you said "Like in Tyler's new video, know and accept your own unique personality. If you're a nerd, "own it" and work with that foundation of your game. If you're a hippie, you probably won't be a "beast". "

Mayhem has a great answer to your question because I thought the same thing but hes right, your just assuming nerd means the same thing to you as it does to him.to him nerd means reading books like he said and working non stop, its who he is but he owns it agressivly at the club man, busts up into that shit because like mayhem wrote theres more than one demension to it. good question, good answer ;)
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"Simplicity is the last step of art and the first step of nature" -Bruce Lee
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Yes, it's funny because the guys always call me Romantic Beast anyway due to the fact that I get laid mostly off of Day2s. Internet, phone numbers from field, etc. During the week, Evil Stifler be like, "DUDE LETS GO OUT" and I'm always "Nope, got a date." Monday, tuesday, wednesday and thursday, like clockwork. Romantic date. So they be all, "Shiiiiiiiiiiiit. Romantic Beast."
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 I like this article.
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 but tell me Jeffy:
It was because that article u wrote a while ago that everyone hated on so u  gotten to this conclusion? i hope not, u are congruent! But I'm glad u changed ur style, just be aware of the people u offended in the process, know that, respect that, and all will be forgiven.....UASHUSHAASUHSAHAS
just messing with ya. great article.
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 Dear Vini:

Fuck you, kill yourself

Yours Truly,

Jeffy
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pure comedy.
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acting like a is not caused by social conditioning
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#85
burleybrawler

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Beastmode is Dead!
Long live Beastmode :)
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Welp.

3 Months of Beasting...probably should have read this.

Funny, I figured out on my own that all this mindless escalation and explosiveness was probably doing more harm than good. I learned that if I chill out more, allow the girl to feel comfortable, and tune into her emotional state, my game will be much better.

HOWEVAH

I think Beast Mode is a place that people NEED to go. It really warps your reality when you understand that rapid escalation works, and is alright sometimes. Without these 3 months, I don't think my physical escalation would be anywhere close to as tight as it is now, and I'd still have a chode lag time.

Alas, it is time to move on. Romantic Beast? I can dig it.

Gonna have some chodes crying over the one girl whose hand they held. Can't wait for that blog post.
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 Depravity Debra derp
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