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Just completed the second program in the European leg of my worldwide Free Tour/Bootcamp/Hotseat tour here in Munich, and have internalized some amazing new lessons. Namely, that the "mullet hair cut" I am sporting is just as strange and mesmerizing to Eurochodes as it is to Americunts. Perhaps more, even.

So yup, it's off to Stockholm next week and London after that... then the USA with Tyler. Here's the full schedule of my remaining dates on this tour:

www.jeffyhotseat.com

Europe:
September 17: Stockholm
September 24: London

United States:
October 1: San Francisco
October 8: Los Angeles
October 15: Chicago
October 22: New York City

Australia & New Zealand:
November 5: Auckland
November 12: Perth
November 19: Melbourne
November 26: Sydney

Canada:
January 7: Vancouver
January 14: Calgary
January 21: Toronto
January 28: Montreal


Anyway, I'm beginning to settle into the groove of what it takes to put this thing together and present it, and I can already see the changes taking hold in my psyche. The original confusion and frustration at the amount and variation of work required has begun to slide away and become replaced by the satisfaction that comes from executing the tasks and checking them off, on a regular basis.

Oddly enough, even though on the surface this seemed like it was going to be a massive amount of work (and make no mistake, it IS), I actually feel HAPPIER and more satisfied doing this.

Initially, I had a lot of reservations about the tour. My life in San Francisco is pretty much PERFECT: lounge around, leisurely prepare breakfast, hit the gym, take a nap, have sex, go out on the weekend.

However, I also felt that I was kind of stagnating internally. I mean, yeah... after the whole experience writing the book, I certainly DESERVED some "time off" so to speak, but like my good friend Tony Robbins always says, "If you're not growing, you're dying."

I said it in last week's article, and I'll say it again now: in pickup or anything else, when you smash through a plateau you SHOULD take time to savor the accomplishment and regroup your energy, but then it's always gotta be "ON TO THE NEXT."

So yeah. By the way, just wanted to also mention that I'm traveling with Alexander and we're doing joint bootcamps here in Europe... there's still a spot or two left on our program this week in Sweden, so if you want to hit up a dual spiritual gangbang with the two most experienced pickup coaches in the world, hit up stu@realsocialdynamics and he can tell you more.

I recorded an awesome video blog in Amsterdam with Alexander last week and my original intention was to post that up today, but upload issues have made that impossible, so it's going to have to wait until I get somewhere that doesn't have THIRD WORLD INTERNET. Hopefully this time next week.

In its stead, I've decided to give you guys the second video from the speech I did while in Boston for the GLODT Book Tour. Topics include peripheral awareness and group befriending, how to go out for extended periods of time in what I call "Beast Blasts" and the aftermath of these sessions, and perhaps most importantly, how to deal with the issues of "reputation" that so many people seem to be concerned about when getting into this lifestyle.



Anyway, gotta run here as my computer is literally a minute away from dying and I wanted to get this posted. Be back next week hopefully with that Amsterdam clip. See you then.

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PS: reviews are coming in constantly for the Jeffy Hotseat, check them out in the Success Stories forum to get an idea of what awaits you at this awesome program. And of course, for more info check the site itself here:

http://www.jeffyhotseat.com

Cheers!

-j
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#1
Tezer

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Awesome vid, really explained a few things
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Johnathan Sampson

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cool vid
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Jlax I always enjoy your vids, good job
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Trojan-

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It's not a mullet, German girl I was with told me it's called a Vokuhila.
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AZmagic

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 Thanks man. That's a lot of fucking value!
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Matt281

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This vid and the especially the last one were really interesting because I think a lot of people have this perception that beasting means uncalibrated retard mode, but you're obviously really aware of how far to take that attitude.

good shit
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 "" Eurochodes as it is to Americunts"

lololol
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Drone

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I am one of those concerned about the reputation. I do not live in a small town but occasionally I meet someone I know in a venue.

Only now I realize that this is related to social conditioning. I should give a fuck what others think.

To hell with the reputation ... I prefer to look like an idiot instead of not having sex.
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 Nice!
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Resonates sooo much with me...
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VGAlan

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Yeah, throw the fatties a bone, haha.
Somehow I'm still a bit akward with dudes; I talk to them, but probably I clearly show that I don't want them there. Maybe just see them as my chody bro's, give them my validation, so that they feel ok and get back to the HB.

I've always been honest about gaming to anyone (most importantly me), that's probably why I've exchanged all my old 'friends' for time to beast, I evolve and they stayed behind; bye bye!

Thanks bro!
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Oh, man, you're so cool, man
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dude man!  awesome and pure value!  love it love it love it.  so much wisdom.
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dude man!  awesome and pure value!  love it love it love it.  so much wisdom.
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dude man!  awesome and pure value!  love it love it love it.  so much wisdom.
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