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WHATUP HOS. I'm writing this up in the lobby of a hotel in the French Quarter in New Orleans. Just finished up the winter Alumni Bootcamp tour, killed it and had an absolute BLAST in both Miami and here at Mardi Gras. Now, it's back to San Francisco for the next month, where I plan to quit alcohol for Lent. lol.

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So, now that we've gotten that business out the way, let's get down to brass fucking tacks. 

Today's video was shot last week in Miami. In it, I address a question that I got via email from an alumni. In his final bootcamp notes, I suggested that he needed to become more flirtatious in his interactions with women, and avoid staying in the seemingly "safe" zone of "friend to friend" communication. He needed to do this both physically, and verbally, and I threw out a list of various attraction tactics. 

He asked for clarification and examples of these, and it made me think that a lot of guys out there could actually benefit from this... a video where I move away from the more esoteric stuff and give some concrete examples of these so-called "attraction tactics." Check it out:



So there you go. Note, of course, that while these tactics and techniques are powerful and FIELD TESTED to have a dramatic impact in set, they are simply TOOLS. 

Too many times, I've seen students who ruthlessly study these types of gambits and commit them to memory, but then in the field rely on them as a crutch for poor emotional intelligence. They just go up and blurt them out in rapid fire style, and it just comes off super "gamey" and weird. The girl can clearly tell that the guy has zero attunement to her subjective emotional experience and is merely rattling off some sort of canned lines, and invariably it results in a BLOWOUT.

If, on the other hand, you go up feeling fun and awesome, remain PRESENT to the moment and genuinely connect with the girl paying attention to what she's giving you emotionally, and THEN layer in these tactics, the results are NUCLEAR level. Just always, remember, they aren't the meat and potatoes of the interaction, they are merely the SEASONING.

So looks like it's about time for me to shoot off to the airport, so I'm gonna call it here. Got an amazing Mardi Gras video coming out next about my philosophy of the absurd, and it's going to be a doozy. Should be a real bitch to edit, as it's more of a "tyler-style" vid with many different locations etc etc. But it will be worth it. SO keep your eyes out for that. 

Let me know what you think in the comments, and I'll see you next time!

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#1
Ryan

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Absurd video... looking forward to that. Just finished reading The Stranger.
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Is the Jesus tattoo real? Sometimes I see some recents videos and you have the tattoo and sometimes not. Lol
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Holy shit the Pentagram from 9-ball is real
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great video, i love the content and your way of presenting it! keep up the good work and i would love to see more freetour videos of you!
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Elephants really do have big dicks though.  

Like....scary big. 
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Noronha Wrote:
Is the Jesus tattoo real? Sometimes I see some recents videos and you have the tattoo and sometimes not. Lol
Then what does that tell you about whether the tatoo is real or not? Lol.

I think this is the best video on outer game so far in the RSD cannon. Very succint. This is pretty much everything you need to know about verbal attraction game.
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Oscar Fuckin' Wilde... there's a witty guy who DID take his dick out and DID get laid... go and do likewise, gentlemen.  Go and do likewise.
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#8

TrashBandicoot

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Pepper in the sexy, why didn't I think of that!

Oh wait, I'm a fucking chode.... Now to fuck up the next 3 weeks of interactions and quit game forever due to 99% pepper 1% steak... 

Yeah no this video's fucking sexy, like a super fly Lamborghini finely tuned to get you pussy.
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awesome video jeff. loved it!
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Jeff you are Gangst'a !

Your intro Music is also Gangst'a 
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Those legs on the right...damn.
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I-Beast Wrote:
Those legs on the right...damn.


i know them well
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Jeffy,

What's Alex's version of this? Does he employ the things you talk about? I know he talks about the adoption frame, etc.
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Hey jeffy, for me you're the best at explaining outer games! You should do that more often.
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fearloss Wrote:
A while ago you seemed a bit annoyingly arrogant
It looks like you changed, your attitude seems to be more likeable now
nice vid

Nope, haven't changed, I'm still a massively arrogant dick!
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Fuck you jeffy. Post infield you dick. I'm going to start posting infields that will make you crawl up into a fetal position and cry if you don't & I'll post them youtube style in comments section starting  next month just to hijack your page if you don't show me some real gangster total balls shit.
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OzzPUA wrote:
Fuck you jeffy. Post infield you dick. I'm going to start posting infields that will make you crawl up into a fetal position and cry if you don't & I'll post them youtube style in comments section starting  next month just to hijack your page if you don't show me some real gangster total balls shit.
Just go to his bootcamp yu leeching value ..... Who wants all free
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I don't read the comments anyway. But I totally believe that your "in fields" would make me cry, although not for the reasons you think
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I just remembered the time when I was starting out, I was rolling round with a V card lol and was watching rsd vids religiously, still do mostly but anyway Jeff said "Lead" in an old vid and I did, it was the day of reckoning haha. Love This shit it's too Fun.
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Jeff and RSD, is the stuff made of real Legends (Temple Monk Bow in respect haha).
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Really? you don't read the comments?

Be prepared Jeffy.
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#22

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Thank you for this piece of wisdom Jeffy.
​Don't worry about super elegant edition and multiple locations, unless it is necessary for a specific purpose. Your delivery both in game and in content seems to be "you get what you see". I like that.
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Thank you for this piece of wisdom Jeffy.
​Don't worry about super elegant edition and multiple locations, unless it is necessary for a specific purpose. Your delivery both in game and in content seems to be "you get what you see". I like that.
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Nice video - Lolito
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FUCKING GOLD!
 
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Hey Jeffy! Do you use these tactics before or after hooking the girl?
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Thanks Jeffy!
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you look so distracted, by that girl - she must've been hot - was filming with her in the frame, a self-'challenge'? Maybe next time, you could end the video out by approaching
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good one
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Great video Jeffy good points on attraction. Since learning from RSD what i learned is that the meat of it is that sex worthiness. This is working oon yourself (Meditation, reading and also eating right) Then the seasing as you said is the routines. Since doing this my game as changed a lot and has taken it to a whole new level. 
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