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 So I just completed yet another glorious weekend of Bootcamp instruction, this time here in San Franmotherfuckingcisco. That of course means the van was rolling the streets, and in fact on Saturday evening one of the students pulled a lovely young lady to this amazing vehicle for some romance in the mist. 

This weekend I'm staying here in SF and after that down to LA with my buddy Julien and then off to Canada for CALGARY STAMPEDE! Check it out:

June 21-23: San Francisco
June 27-29: Los Angeles
July 18-20: Edmonton
July 26-28: San Francisco
August 1-10: Las Vegas World Summit (BOOTCAMPS ALL WEEK)
August 16-18: San Francisco
August 23-25: San Francisco
August 29-31: Vancouver, BC (with JULIEN)


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So today's video is on the topic of PREMATURE EJECTULATION.

This, simply put, is when you are interacting with a woman, it's going well, and then for apparently no discernable reason, you decide to just POOF! Cut the fuck out of the set and eject. 

BUH BYE

Why do we do this, and how can we prevent it from happenening in the future? The answers lie within:



And there you have it. 

As for me, I'm really stepping up my workout schedule these days, which means I'm in a perpetual state of mild fatigue. In a good way. Seeing as how I have a romantic date scheduled for later this evening, I'm going to go ahead and take this opportunity to have a bit of a nap. 

See you next time.

-j

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Whatup hos, just got back from Austin, and I'll be heading promptly back to Texas this Thursday to do up another bootcamp in Dallas. From there my schedule is as follows:

May 31-June2: Dallas
June 6-8: Las Vegas
June 14-16: San Francisco
June 21-23: San Francisco
June 27-29: Los Angeles
July 5-7: San Francisco
July 11-13: Calgary
july 19-21: San Francisco
July 26-28: San Francisco
August 1-10: Las Vegas World Summit

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So today's video was shot outside of the flagship Whole Foods location in Austin. 

Dude, what. I already shot a video with the skyline, and RSD Nation is also concerned with nutrition. And daygame. So yeah... Whole Foods. Whatever. 

Anyway, the topic of the video is MOTIVATION. 

We've all had times where we find it difficult to continue plugging away at this skillset, especially when it seems like not much progress is being made. Where one person decides to simply give up and let these dreams of pussy fall to the wayside, another guy instead DOUBLES DOWN and hits it even HARDER, until he breaks through his current plateau and lives the impossible dream.

The difference between these two fellows is simple. Motivation. One guy is energized by the challenge, the other is disheartened and gives up.

So in this video, I talk about an interesting article I read in Scientific American identifying three variables that you can consciously tweak to your benefit in order to gain MASSIVE motivation to go out and bang the guns night after night.

Because, ultimately, that's what it takes to get good, and to get the girls. 

Check it out:


http://youtu.be/EVi_stWU8oU

So that sums it up... three things: autonomy, value and competence.

When you know that you have to go hit up the club but you simply aren't feeling it, examine yourself and see if you are lacking in any of these areas. Addressing them can give you that boost you need to get back in the game and back on your path to mastery. 

As a bonus today, I'm gonna go ahead and include the blog I shot back in January in Austin, as it's one of my favorites. It's on the topic of BAD ADVICE, aka the conventional wisdom about game that gets typically gets handed out by chode society, and the hidden insights we can glean from this:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-rI7n4cxHq0

Thanks for reading this space, see you next time!

-j

sup. Guess who, it's me. Back from Canada, got a bootcamp in SF this weekend then it's off to Texas for some good old fun yee haw. Here's my Bootcamp schedule for the next few months:

May 17-19: San Francisco
May 23-25: Dallas
May 31-June2: Austin
June 6-8: Vegas
June 14-16: San Francisco
June 21-23: San Francisco
June 27-29: Los Angeles
July 5-7: San Francisco
July 11-13: Calgary
july 19-21: San Francisco
July 26-28: San Francisco
August 1-10: Las Vegas World Summit

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So today's video is from Toronto, you can see the CN Tower in the background.

In this one I take a minute to re-examine an area of game that is of fundamental importance... your rapport game.

Like I've said before, any asshole can go up and get attraction. She's not necessarily going to LEAVE with you, however, until you've established some sort of vague "connection." This is rapport, and you'd do well to cultivate an ability to gain it with women.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PsFD9usCUHo

I find it valuable to go over my old (and by old I mean ancient) notes, like the stuff I was into in 2003, just to revisit it and see how my understanding of the material has evolved after, in this case, eleven years in the game.

And really, the more things change, well the more they stay the same. Your understanding of WHY it works becomes deeper, which allows you to be more efficient in the application of the concepts or techniques.

So anyway, before I leave I have another quick video to share.

I assume you're familiar with Tyler's now infamous video where he's all jocking himself in the mirror with some weird voiceover, and then there's another part where he's walking through Las Vegas narrating his inner monologue:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=plDuQy9ss5w

Well, I was so inspired by this that I decided to go ahead and, with Alex filming, make a similar video up in Toronto. Enjoy:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OhsjM6P4Oyk

It tastes amazing.

So anyway, yeah. See you next week.

-j

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Hey gang, I'm back. Last week's video was delayed because I had a catastrophic hard drive crash. Apparently this was a fault with the older intel SSDs where they would occasionally just FUCKING TAKE A SHIT ON THEMSELVES. Awesome drive Intel... great job!

Anyway, got a new drive, rebuilt my computer from scratch, had a lot backed up but not all of it, so now I'm on board with the fuckin CLOUD. Moral of the story? BACK UP YOUR STUFF FOLKS.

So yup, had an amazing Bootcamp this past weekend here in San Francisco. Everybody got laid, including one student who fucked in the Consensual Sex Van. Yes, the van keeps rolling along, despite the best efforts of the LAME-STREAM MEDIA to derail it. Come on, motherfuckers, give me a break, this van is made from American steel, you're made from BULLSHIT and TEARS. Go cry moar trolls, I'm Billy Badass and you're Wendy Bullshit. 

So yeah, the party does not stop. Here's where I'll be running program over the next couple months:


May 3-5: San Francisco
May 10-12: Toronto (w/ Alexander)
May 17-19: San Francisco
May 23-25: Dallas
May 31-June 2: Austin
June 6-8: Las Vegas
June 14-16: San Francisco
June 21-23: San Francisco

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Having said all of that, let's get straight to today's video. In this one, I illuminate two core concepts that can dramatically improve your success with the opposite sex: DISCIPLINE, and INTENT. Check it:



In my experience, these are the two most important qualities or characteristics that come into play when determining whether a guy is going to have (relatively) quick success, or if he's going to languish in first gear, spinning his wheels for god knows how long. 

Further, embracing the concepts of discipline and intent can help you to avoid the dramatic ups-and-downs that can often plague guys when they're learning the game. 

Take note that these concepts must be used in CONJUNCTION in order to have the true synergistic effect that will skyrocket your game to levels you previously found unimaginable. 

That's all for today, lot on my plate with RSD stuff.... lots of cool shit coming down the pipeline.

See you next time.

-j

 Yo yo jeffy here, it's Tuesday and that means it's time to update my little corner of the blogosphere. Kickin it here in SF this week, hitting the gym hard and cutting my own hair while drunk. After this short respite it's back to the motherfuckin grind with two bootcamps here in SF, and then back on the road for more love and magic. Check it:

April 19-21: Calgary (w/ Alexander) 
April 26-28: San Francisco
May 3-5: San Francisco
May 10-12: Toronto (w/ Alexander)
May 17-19: San Francisco
May 23-25: Dallas
May 31-June 2: Austin
June 6-8: Las Vegas

As you can see, I haven't really planned out my summer schedule yet, so if you would like me to come to your city, I'm totally open to travel to YOU and make your dreams of pussy come true. 

It's what I do. 

So anyway, about to break my "intermittent fasting" in a minute here, but before that, I'd like to share with y'all a little video I shot at the Bay Bridge last night, with its quite impressive new light display. The topic of today's video is...

DURRRRRRRRRRR

Yes, DURR. Many have wondered what this simple, guttural word means over the years, and it has never really been adequately explained. Hopefully this video will change that... FOREVER. Check it:



And there you have it. 

Of course, take note that this "method" REQUIRES a basic knowledge of game mechanics. As I stated in the video, you are LETTING GO and having faith in your PREVIOUS TRAINING, in combination with your INSTINCTS. If you are not already massively familiar with the mechanics of game, say for example how to orchestrate a pull, then the DURRR method may actually do you more harm than good, as you passively stand by and watch the set go to shit. lol

This should go without saying, however we all know there are many people who simply read forums and watch videos endlessly without taking the necessary action in field to give context to the advice and thus make it ACTUALLY USEFUL. 

Ok, well I'm off to take a free tour of the Anchor Steam brewery here in San Francisco, which shall constitute my breakfast. Experiment around with this, and I'll see you in the comments section.

-j 

Heyo, just got back from Vegas which was a good time as usual.... lots of scandalous episodes with Tyler, Brad, Manwhore and the rest of the crew of retards and sex addicts. Gearing up for a bit of springtime Canadian fun this month, where I'll be joining Alexander for his last Hotseat dates in North America. There are still spots left for these programs, so if the idea of taking program with two of the most experienced coaches in the entire world sounds appealing to you, follow that instinct and sign up today:

April 12-14: Vancouver (w/ Alexander)
April 19-21: Calgary (w/ Alexander)
April 26-28: San Francisco
May 3-5: Montreal (w/ Alexander)
May 10-12: Toronto (w/ Alexander)
May 17-19: San Francisco
May 23-25: Dallas
May 31-June 2: Austin
June 6-8: Las Vegas

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SO anyway, I'm back in San Francisco and there's a ton of shit to do... really doubling down on my efforts to get the long-awaited online program going, and the more I work on it, the more work it seems like there is to do, as I keep coming up with ways to deepen and enrich the learning experience. When finished, this will lay to rest all of the misconceptions and rumors swirling around online game, and will give guys an extremely clear, easy, and EFFECTIVE way to hook up with hot girls from the internet as though you was on AMAZON PRIME DOT COM. Pussy with free two day shipping. 

Today's video is another inner game treatise. I shot off to scenic Treasure Island, where I was all like, "YO HO HO" but without a bottle of rum. I had a can of Red Bull instead, and then fired off a little missive on some common "filters of insecurity" that tend to trip guys up in field. Check it:



Pretty straightforward stuff. As I said in the video, this list is by no means intended to be a comprehensive catalog of all the various "filters of insecurity" that exist, but rather a list of the more common ones, and a starting off point for you to think of any others that might be affecting you when you're interacting with girls. 

How does one go about eliminating them? Time, practice and experience are the only real ways, but as they used to say on GI Joe, "now you know... andknowing is half the battle.: The first step is, always, admitting that you have a problem, as they say in AA.

And as I say here, in my bed, where I'm writing this from, "Cut the shit. Time to fuck."

So yup, gonna leap up for a quick coffee here, then gym, then it's back to the grind to get this goddamn online program going. Wish me luck.

C U Next Tuesday

-j 

PS. Take note... I will be doing a RETURN TRIP TO TEXAS in May to conduct two special bootcamps... the memorial day weekend bootcamp in Austin should be particularly epic, and I will also be returning to Dallas like JR motherfuckin Ewing. If you're looking to take your game to the next level in a hurry, this is the quickest and most effective way to do it. Call Stuart inthe main office for more details. 

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Whatup, ya boy Jeffy here coming at you from San Francisco... just got out of the gym and I'm about to go see the new Harmony Korine film Spring Breakers. If you haven't seen his previous film "Trash Humpers," you're missing out. Following the exploits of a group of rambunctious and murderous eldery peeping toms, there is really no plot to speak of and is basically two hours of old people humping trash and breaking shit. I feel it was the best film of 2010 and used to play it when I brought girls home before sex. 

Anyway, I digress... I'm heading to Vegas to run program with Tyler and Brad this weekend, as far as I'm aware there are still a couple spots left so if you want the opportunity to work with a three star dream team of glory this is it, in Las Vegas no less. 

Here's where I'll be this weekend and beyond for Bootcamp:

April 4-6: Las Vegas (w/ Tyler)[/b]
April 12-14: Vancouver (w/ Alexander)
April 19-21: Calgary (w/ Alexander)
April 26-28: San Francisco
May 3-5: Montreal (w/ Alexander)
May 10-12: Toronto (w/ Alexander)
May 17-19: San Francisco
May 23-25: Dallas
May 31-June 2: Austin
June 6-8: Las Vegas

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Note the Canadian dates, which I'll be running with Alex concurrent to his Hotseat. There is at least one spot left on all of those dates, so if you're interested give Stuart and Huey a call at the office and they'll tell you whatever you need to know.

Anyways, it is Tuesday and as such it's my day to post, so here goes nothing. 

I just cranked this video out in my room this morning, as I'm kind of short on time... no fancy panoramic vista behind me, no frills. Except some stock footage of San Francisco, a quick infield makeout, and an excerpt from an Italian porno. In the video, I discuss a few old tricks you can use to:

1. evoke feelings and behaviors in yourself that you might not otherwise have access to (the example I use is ENTITLEMENT, but there are many other applications) through use of the power of "if."

2. Create the "bubble of love" between yourself and the girl by means of "engaging with hyper focus"

3. Identitfy and remove unnecessary physical tension, which is deadly to your game, and

4. Break the pickup into discrete parts to guide you along. 



So that's it, just a few practical tips to spice up your game tonight. If you go out on Tuesday night, that is. 

Don't you?

Heeeeennnnyways, ok, I'm off for a little pre-game cocktail then the movie, but I'll be back later and catch you in the comments section.

-j

PS. Oh before I forget, let me also bring to your attention the TEXAS dates I have in late May. Austin and Dallas are both a go, so get on the train for some extreme mayhem and springtime love. cheers

Oi minga, how ya goin... been hammering hard with my work schedule these last couple months, running bootcamps and getting this damned online program together. Had the weekend off for once this past week, and now it's time to gear up for another tour on the road... this time I'll be doing CANADA with Alexander, and will even make a stop in Vegas with Tyler and Brad in a couple weeks. Here's my bootcamp schedule:

March 28-30: Los Angeles
April 4-6: Las Vegas (w/ Tyler)
April 12-14: Vancouver (w/ Alexander)
April 19-21: Calgary (w/ Alexander)
April 26-28: San Francisco
May 3-5: Montreal (w/ Alexander)
May 10-12: Toronto (w/ Alexander)
May 17-19: San Francisco
May 23-25: Dallas
May 31-June 2: Austin
June 6-8: Las Vegas

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As you can see, I will also be in Texas at the end of May... this is a done deal, it's gonna be a hardcore couple of events, so if you are in either Dallas or Austin, this is a great opportunity to take your game to the next level. 

Anyways, today's video is about love and magic. As usual. 

The other day, Evil Stifler, fresh off a breakup with his girlfriend, called me up to go SARGE. We hit the Zeitgeist in the sun, and I got a bit of a tan, and we also got a pair of breezy young ladies to accompany us to the karaoke bar. While at the bar, I had some insights into the game that I share with you in the following YouTube blog video presentation:



Lots of good stuff in there on congruence, freedom from outcome, frame control, etc. etc. And of course an R. Kelly reference.

Not much else to say right now... I am fairly exhausted from a long day of running about which included a trip to the DMV, where a crazy person who looked like Ol Dirty Bastard kept yelling "IM DISABLED" whilst listening to rap musics on his cellular phone, and in between declarations of "IM DISABLED" would begin cackling maniacally. When some worker woman told him, "Come over here sir," he simply replied "IM NOT ABLE... *cackle*" 

Quite the bon mot, I must admit. 

So yeah, I'm hitting the proverbial hay, but I'll catch up with you in the comments.

cheers,

-j

Well just got back from Miami. It's funny, because each year around the second week we're running those alumni programs, I start to think, "Oh, I just live here now... right?" Then the sadness comes when I realize, no, it's just a magical moment in time, and this too must end. So yup back to cold ass San Francisco. Here's where I'll be the next few months:

March 8-10: San Francisco
March 15-17: Los Angeles (w/ Alexander)
March 21-23: San Francisco
March 28-30: Los Angeles
April 4-6: Las Vegas (w/ Tyler)
April 12-14: Vancouver (w/ Alexander)
April 19-21: Calgary (w/ Alexander)
April 26-28: San Francisco
May 3-5: Montreal (w/ Alexander)
May 10-12: Toronto (w/ Alexander)
May 17-19: San Francisco
May 23-25: Dallas
May 31-June 2: Austin
June 6-8: Las Vegas

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Note that I've got a bunch of Canadian dates on the schedule with Alexander in April and May. It's pretty far off now, but there are still plenty of spots available for those bootcamps, which always prove to epic... Alex and I have a long history of teaching together and have our combined bootcamp dialed to a science. If you're even slightly interested in this, now is the time to start thinking about it and possibly budgeting for it, as it's a couple months off yet. Love me some fucking Canada eh.... really hope there's enough interest this time around so I can spend some time with you fine folk.

Note too, that I enjoyed my time in Texas so much that I have decided to return to the Lone Star State in early summer. Yippie kay yay motherfuckers!

This week, I've got a final video from Miami, shot along the scenic Espanola Way just off Washington. The previous night we'd gone to Story which is the new hot shit in South Beach, and it was one of the best clubs I've ever been to in my life. This article's thumbnail on the main page is from that night and if you look at my face, it looks I'm on some roller coaster with Julien and this is the photo that they take as you plunge down the final hill or whatever. 

On the debrief, I showed this picture to one of my students as a way to illustrate how we are PROCESS oriented as opposed to RESULTS oriented. "You think that the instructors are somehow 'cut from a different cloth' but nothing could be further from the truth. Much like yourself, I used to feel fear when I'd go to a club like this.... just walking up to the entrance and hearing the music coming from inside, my heart would start pounding and I would get extremely anxious. Over time however, I learned to love that environment. Tonight, was like one of my top ten nights ever... like look at this picture" as I showed them on my iphone... "Look at my fucking face... it looks like I'm at Disneyland, on Space Mountain." I literally remember thinking that to myself in the club... "it's like Disneyland when you were a kid... except there's also boobs and pussy available." lolol running around, ripping girls in, making out, partying hard. Sure, I didn't get laid (thanks mainly to bootcamp responsibilities, but hey that's life), but regardless I was loving the process itself, and that is the point. 

The sex is almost just the icing on the cake to us.

The point was this... I was telling the student that process is what to focus on above all... however, I personally wasn't able to enjoy that process at the beginning. I had to make some fundamental changes to my identity before I began to feel at home in the hectic environment of the top clubs. That's what I address in this video today. BOOM:

Little RSD:Miami intro there. I should have made a quippy remark at the end, then put on sunglasses like Lt. Horatio Caine as portrayed by David Caruso in CSI Miami, but hey. I didn't. So sue me. 

Anyways, time to get to work here back home. Gotta do my taxes, complete the rebranding of the van, and finish this damn online dating program. Lots to do, lots to do. But anyway, I'll be back soon enough with some more absudity for that ass.

Till then, take care of yourselves... and each other.

-j

Whatup hos, it's one week into my annual trip to Miami for the block of alumni Bootcamps, and it feels like the time is just flying by. Too much fun. About to roll into the second program tomorrow night and then it's back to San Francisco, and with a drumroll allow me to present my schedule for the next few months:

March 8-10: San Francisco
March 15-17: Los Angeles (w/ Alexander)
March 21-23: San Francisco
March 28-30: Los Angeles
April 4-6: Las Vegas (w/ Tyler)
April 12-14: Vancouver (w/ Alexander)
April 19-21: Calgary (w/ Alexander)
April 26-28: San Francisco
May 3-5: Montreal (w/ Alexander)
May 10-12: Toronto (w/ Alexander)
May 17-19: San Francisco
May 23-25: Dallas
May 31-June 2: Austin
June 6-8: Las Vegas

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So anyway, today I got a quick little video that I shot out on Watson Island overlooking the Miami skyline at dusk. It's purty. In the clip, I discuss a variety of things including having respect for the people you're interacting with, and what it really means to run a "perfect" 'pickup.



So there you go... ultimately you have to find your own path in this game, and live it to the hilt. That's the only way you are truly going to have that "authenticity" that creates what we call "charisma." Julien speaks to this in his last video where he talks about simply OWNING your life and bringing that 100%. If you find yourself trying to simply execute technique in an dispassionate half-hearted manner, the vast vast majority of the time it isn't going to work. 

This is why it is so important to enjoy the process itself, otherwise there is absolutely no way that you are going to be able to stay on the long, hard road to mastery. 

Remember, it's called "the game." Not "the work." The point is to enjoy yourself. The sex is just the icing on the cake. 

See you next week.

-j