I have worked as an Executive Coach with Real Social Dynamics since 2003, running programs practically every weekend for the last 12 years in over 100 cities across North America, Australia, Africa and Europe. I am extremely passionate about getting my students ACTUAL RESULTS and am continually improving my program to achieve this end.
In 2007, I released a critically acclaimed DVD program called "The Jeffy Show."
Simon & Schuster published my memoir "Get Laid or Die Trying" on March 29th, 2011.
What up cunts, Jeff here with a quick blast on your face.
Summer is here, and with it come times of joy. I am taking the summer off bootcamp in order to complete a variety of tasks that are sure to bring you great edification. These tasks are as follows:
Execute the Program v1.5
Jeffy Hotseat Number Two
Both of these projects will be filled to the brim with the same care and value that I strive to include in all of my works. I'm not sure when these will be ready so as of now the dates are not set in stone, but I'm putting literally all of my efforts into these jobs right now. I'm approaching 40 and want to crank this shit hard while I still have the passion.
I think I'm at a place now where I've hit the sweet spot of my game - still young enough to get my dick hard, and now old enough to have the TECHNIQUE and more importantly WISDOM that trumps the advantage of plain old youthful exuberance.
In the meanwhile, I'll be putting out weekly videos as well now that I'm not traveling as much.
Anywhoo, WORLD SUMMIT is only a month away, so hopefully I'll see you there!
Today's video is a quick one from the recent NYC Free Tour. In it, I discuss the strange phenomenon of a CHILD attending the tour, discuss the infamous DEVILS THREESOME, and give some pointers on how to be a Dumb Midget With Emotional Problems.
Thanks for participating the the glorious experiment known as RSDN and I will see you next week.
Sup y'all it's me, back from teh NYC. Just one more bootcamp on my schedule... LAS VEGAS next weekend, then I'm off traveling for the summer, just running sporadic bootcamps in San Francisco and filming for my upcoming Hotseat.
I'm calling it "the Summer of Jeff" like George Costanza in Seinfeld.
May 22: San Francisco May 28: Las Vegas June 12: San Francisco June 19: San Francisco
Today's video was actually uploaded to my YouTube channel last week, but due to internet difficulties I wasn't able to post my blog here... so better late than never, I suppose.
It's from the Chicago Free Tour, and I open the talk by expanding on something Madison, my wonderful opening act, was hammering on... how guys in the community are always looking for immediate solutions to specific situations that arise in game, not realizing that if they were to actually do the hard work of SHIFTing their identities, then most of these issues wouldn't even arise in the first place. Check it out:
So there you go.
In other news, wanted to announce that PANDURR has a whole new website, and since you guys were with us from the beginning, we want to offer you a special THANK YOU discount for supporting Pandurr and doing your part to make fashion funner.
For one week, get 20% off your ENTIRE ORDER when you go to www.pandurr.com and enter the code RSDURRNATION at checkout.
I'll be back next Tuesday with another video. Until then,
Jeffy here once more, to save you from the morass of your own idiocy.
Been traveling quite a bit, as usual, headed up this weekend to that most diverse of North American cities, Toronto, then off to NYC and Vegas, and after THAT, taking a couple months off for some quiet reflection... aka prepping for the upcoming Jeffy Hotseat World Tour in the fall.
May 7: Toronto May 14: New York City May 22: San Francisco May 28: Las Vegas June 12: San Francisco June 19: San Francisco
This week's video is the last clip from the RSD Winter Summit 2015 in Miami. Here are the topics I cover:
- How to leverage the power of logistics to crack the dreaded "intermediate plateau"
- How to acclimate yourself to the club environment as a newbie who might be intimidated by such venues
- Cultivating the elusive quality of "depth" to take your game to the major leagues
- Reconciling two seemingly opposite concepts: "say whatever you want, no filters," and "don't say stupid shit"
- Finally, how to eliminate the concept of "rejection" as you know it, forever.
There you go..
OH! Before I go, wanted to announce that Pandurr has a brand new website with more functionality... that means we'll be doing a lot more sales and promotions, to give you the opportunity to pick up Pandurr swag at steep discounts! Check out the new store and see why Pandurr clothing makes it worthwhile to get dressed in the morning.
Today's video explores a very common game mistake I see in younger guys in particular. This guy, he's not a pussy, he can approach no problem, but he's just a little too eager, almost spastic in his movements and just too aggressive overall. The girls tense up, and often he doesn't have the requisite social acuity to back off. In fact, he will often DOUBLE DOWN on his advances, causing the girl to dig in even more, or more likely just peace out.
Fortunately, there are steps you can actively take to begin slowing things down, which ironically results in you getting laid in less time.
Today's video deals with one of my biggest pet peeves:
It boggles my fucking mind: students spend all this money on a bootcamp, get their clothes and style all sorted out, and then show up with fucking GROSS ASS BREATH. I'm like, damn motherfucker, get out of my fucking face with that shit.
How do you think the girls feel about this situation? lol
I don't care how good your game is, if your breath is SHIT then you're not getting laid, period.
Check it out:
Love me some NYC, and love me some MINTY FRESHNESS IN TEH MOUTH.
Anyway, before I go I wanted to give you guys a first look at some new stuff we got on tap at PANDURR:
Hey kids I'm back from NYC where I ran a Bootcamp with Max it was the tits yo. But FUCKING COLD.
So anywhoo, it's off this weekend to Las Vegas, NV for a bootcamp and the Execute the Program Live Event on April 4th. After that, I'll be here:
April 2: Las Vegas April 10: San Francisco April 16: Edmonton April 24: San Francisco April 30: Chicago May 7: Toronto May 14: New York City May 22: San Francisco May 28: Miami June 12: San Francisco June 19: San Francisco
Today's video is pretty good. It's from the recent RSD Winter Summit in Miami, and in it I take a couple audience questions. The first guy asks if I think pickup will ever become mainstream (SPOILER ALERT: I don't.).
The second guy brings up a common issue among newer students, and that's the reluctance to step up and get competitive with other males in the club over the limited resource that is attention from the truly hot girls in the club. This is a natural thing to feel, after all, you don't see yourself as a DICK most likely... most people like to think of themselves as a "nice guy."
Well, that's a noble sentiment, but ultimately if that's the mindset you're bringing when you go out to game, you're gonna get fuckin tooled and schooled by the guys who actually ARE willing to step the fuck up and take the prize.
Further, I explain how competition with other skilled guys can even foster a respect between you and the very guys you're battling. Check it out:
Remember that old chestnut:
YOU CAN'T BE HALF A GANGSTER
Just got a fresh printing of ^^ these badboys, our most popular shirt actually. You can get yours here:
Oi oi, Jeffy here coming at you today with yet another edition of my thing.
February is always an interesting month for me as I go to Mardi Gras and then straight to Miami for two weeks. These cities are extremely dissimilar, yet party equally hard (albeit in different ways). I'm back in SF this weekend, and then I'll be off to these ones:
March 26: New York City April 2: Las Vegas April 10: San Francisco April 16: Edmonton April 24: San Francisco April 30: Chicago May 7: Toronto May 22: San Francisco May 28: Vancouver
So today's clip is from Miami and features Max, the latest tard to give up his decadent rock lifestyle, join our esteemed ranks and stand alongside me and Tyler, in a holy jihad to rid the universe of his deadly enemies. And that means no more Super Big Gulps, or women with tits the size of Ethiopia. Max will serve The Master, or Max will die.
In this charming poolside chat, Max and I go beyond Jupiter, beyond Venus and way past uranus in an attempt to nail down what precisely is meant when instructors refer to your "subcommunications." Check it out:
Immediately after the video was taken, we returned to your regularly scheduled ho slanging and made the memories that will last a lifetime.
Anyway, got some news on the pandurr front, we're experimenting with some new options, including hats. Just got a fresh batch of ZERO-G in, the prints are sharp as fuck and beautiful...
Me Jeffy. Me in Miami. Me go Bootcamp soon here in Miami. Me be in following city in future. Cookie.
March 13: San Francisco March 20: San Francisco March 26: New York City April 2: Las Vegas April 10: San Francisco April 16: Edmonton April 24: San Francisco April 30: Chicago May 7: Toronto May 22: San Francisco May 28: Vancouver
Hi everyone, Jeff here, just got back from Austin where I managed to get the student laid at literally THE LAST MINUTE of bootcamp. 4am at the debrief, I strike up a conversation with the girls at the next table, shove student in. They're with a bunch of gay guys who try to tool him, but the girl is into it. She loves him, but won't go home with him... at least not when the friends are around to slut shame her about it. So I tell him to get the number, we wait forty minutes and I have him text her, "Where are you? I'm coming over."
Lo and behold, she gives the address and he makes it happen. Glorious.
Of course, February for me means MARDI GRAS bootcamp and then MIAMI WINTER SUMMIT, so that's exciting times ahead. Here's my upcoming schedule:
February 12: New Orleans MARDI GRAS 5 Day BC February 18: Miami 5 Day BC February 25: Miami WINTER SUMMIT BC March 6: San Francisco March 13: San Francisco March 20: San Francisco March 26: New York City April 2: Las Vegas April 10: San Francisco April 16: Vancouver April 24: San Francisco April 30: Chicago
Whatup hos, time for another blog. Here's my upcoming schedule for Bootcamps:
January 2: San Francisco January 8: Toronto January 22: Los Angeles January 29: Austin February 6: San Francisco February 12: New Orleans MARDI GRAS 5 Day BC February 18: Miami 5 Day BC February 25: Miami WINTER SUMMIT BC March 6: San Francisco March 13: San Francisco March 20: San Francisco March 26: New York City April 2: Las Vegas April 10: San Francisco April 16: Vancouver April 24: San Francisco April 30: Chicago
Today's video was shot up in Alaska, which is fucking freezing and devoid of women. SO we go back to basics with a short clip listing a variety of scenarios you might encounter when approaching women who are out with their friends, and how to deal with each.
That's it for this week, I'll be back next tuesday!