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well, well, well...
long ago since the last post but i had a nice epiphany tonight.
I went out with a buddy and he is new to this stuff.
So i instructed him to do the first set immediately after stepping into a venue and keep going until some set hooks. So we did.
Now this strategy is used to build momentum and i think highly of it and thats the way i like to do it.
Anyways, in Heidelberg, a small city, are mainly small bars and when you do it like explained above, you basically run through all the sets in one venue pretty fast. Especially when you have no momentum at first.
Then when you have a decent amount of momentum, chances are that you have to find the next bar.
And here the misery began... we went out too early and all the other bars were EMPTY!
SO THE MOMENTUM DIED DOWN, and so does the state and you get an immense wish to go home, call it a night, after 20-30 minutes.
Of course, when we waited for about half an hour and then went to a cool club which slowly filled up, our state was DOWN! LOW! NOT COOL! Sitting there. We did the first set, but it sucked. By that time there was only 1 set.
So we stood there for about 10minutes and the club actually got pretty filled and HOT sets came.
I told my buddy... THIS IS IT, i experienced so often before, now we are wasted. Extreme discomfort, just standing there, doing nothing.
I dont know what it was, but something in me said: "NO! this is not going to happen, that we are out, there are hot dancing sets, and im choding around."
I said to my buddy: "come on, we jump into the cold ocean NOW! LETS GO LETS GO LETS GO!" pull him towards sick looking sexy dancing girls.
NO THOUGHT IN MY MIND! NOTHING! Only a fucked up state.
ANYWAYS, I start clawing one girl in and speaking into her hair, a lot of intent, that shes a hot goddess and i demand her to dance for me. SNAAAAAAP! BOOOOM! Glory times! GOT ON TOP OF THAT MOTHERFUCKIN SMALL CLUB IN ONE SNAP MOMENT. FROM SHITTY STATE into WOOOOOO!
From that moment on i was unstoppable! AWESOME!
Unbelievable, but really, you can choose to snap yourself out of shitty state. YOU REALLY CAN!
Wanted to share that.
I know that only a few poeple probably connect to what i said here, but for me it was a huge realization, that i can actually do it.
Good night
long ago since the last post but i had a nice epiphany tonight.
I went out with a buddy and he is new to this stuff.
So i instructed him to do the first set immediately after stepping into a venue and keep going until some set hooks. So we did.
Now this strategy is used to build momentum and i think highly of it and thats the way i like to do it.
Anyways, in Heidelberg, a small city, are mainly small bars and when you do it like explained above, you basically run through all the sets in one venue pretty fast. Especially when you have no momentum at first.
Then when you have a decent amount of momentum, chances are that you have to find the next bar.
And here the misery began... we went out too early and all the other bars were EMPTY!
SO THE MOMENTUM DIED DOWN, and so does the state and you get an immense wish to go home, call it a night, after 20-30 minutes.
Of course, when we waited for about half an hour and then went to a cool club which slowly filled up, our state was DOWN! LOW! NOT COOL! Sitting there. We did the first set, but it sucked. By that time there was only 1 set.
So we stood there for about 10minutes and the club actually got pretty filled and HOT sets came.
I told my buddy... THIS IS IT, i experienced so often before, now we are wasted. Extreme discomfort, just standing there, doing nothing.
I dont know what it was, but something in me said: "NO! this is not going to happen, that we are out, there are hot dancing sets, and im choding around."
I said to my buddy: "come on, we jump into the cold ocean NOW! LETS GO LETS GO LETS GO!" pull him towards sick looking sexy dancing girls.
NO THOUGHT IN MY MIND! NOTHING! Only a fucked up state.
ANYWAYS, I start clawing one girl in and speaking into her hair, a lot of intent, that shes a hot goddess and i demand her to dance for me. SNAAAAAAP! BOOOOM! Glory times! GOT ON TOP OF THAT MOTHERFUCKIN SMALL CLUB IN ONE SNAP MOMENT. FROM SHITTY STATE into WOOOOOO!
From that moment on i was unstoppable! AWESOME!
Unbelievable, but really, you can choose to snap yourself out of shitty state. YOU REALLY CAN!
Wanted to share that.
I know that only a few poeple probably connect to what i said here, but for me it was a huge realization, that i can actually do it.
Good night
Comments
flux
Respected Member
Join Date: 11/24/2009 | Posts: 556
Taking action to get out of your head and in the 'now' is the best way to hit state.
BigBearMikey
Member
Join Date: 03/26/2010 | Posts: 47
gogl~
Respected Member
Join Date: 03/06/2009 | Posts: 430
Your mind ALWAYS makes the reality worse than it is.
instead of trying to shut it up, it is better and easier to just snap into not thinking (you can force to not think for a few moments) and start moving, not allowing any thought until you open, and from thereon you have to be present anyway (more or less). Then the interaction goes anyway, but doesnt matter beacuse you should be free of outcome anyway and you already had success because you approached.
Thats my new way of thinking when out.
1. attempt to approach = success
2. free of outcome