went out, applied what i had learnt on holiday, got into state, kept approaching, focused on having little outcome dependence (although this is mainly achieved by just getting rejected and not caring)
was with mate whos also good wingman, we pull to birds back to his.
my girl seems kinda frigid, like shes young and naive (even though shes 2 years above me)
I go from being sexual to playing the sweet sensitive guy and she agrees to come back with her mate.
I end up downstairs on the couch with the girl, making out, thinking it might go somewhere, when this big ugly motherfucker of a dog jumps on us. she starts screaming, my mates parents wake up (yeah we r young lol) and me and the girls have to leave. Funny walk home though, im just being unstifled and funny
i get the girls number and she tells me to txt her when i get home, i do the next day but no reply, probs gunna drop her another txt tonight and if nothing happens then fuck it.
been trying to get into a long term mating strategy as tyler calls it, drawing state from the fact that im taking action and being the champ. ive started boxing again and hitting gym hard, will start doing an hour of selfdevelopment, and an hour of screenwriting.
also deciding seriously on how i can put myself in a position where i can work for myself and travel the world, making enough money to do awesome things.
yeah buddy, LTMS.
just a lil checklist
tonight im going out one last time, before i have to work my ass off and focus on other things for 6 weeks before university
i want a girl to chill with in these 6 weeks, so tonight, i will go out and find a cool girl
this means instead of snl, im getting a D2
just gunna go out, have a shitload of fun, go crazy, remind myself how awesome life is, because it is fucking crazy awesome. get freedom from outcome by getting rejected
yeah buddy, will be a good night.
just gunna focus on finding awesome girls i have chemistry with, number closing, telling them i want to see them again after tonight, woop woop woop.
Ok so sixth night i got out and basically learn that "pre-selection" does not fucking matter
I got out with a hb8-9 (mate and friends gf) and all night barely got anything. maybe made out with 1 girl. I was blackout drunk so that couldnt have helped. but for all you who think bragging about your non-existant model gf will get you laid, it does not
seventh night just hammered in about state and outcome dependance. it was fucking awesome.
we get into the club, its pretty live. straight on podium, having loads of fun. Not in state straight away as im not doing anything risky. few risky approaches later, im having fun, loving life, thinking about all the good shit in the future, really not giving a shit about if one random girl rejects me or not.
i dance with a mixed race 8/10, then get with her 9 mate. but they leave (their loss)
5 mins later i have a hb 7 grinding and pole dancing with me. the look on the hb9's face is priceless. hehe.
I see an isreali girl dancing with her friend i go over smooth as fuck. cant remember what i said, but shes into it, instant attraction as im loving life and a fucking role model of everything life is about in that moment.
dance, makeout, im careful not to be too rewarding, so alternate between grabbing her as if she was megan fox and hardcore making out, and slightly seperating myself as if im not interesting.
works, she gets more and more aroused to point shes grinding on my hard dick.
her mate is bored by my mate and so wants to leave. I need to find a way to stop this happening, although in england i dont think theres such a big risk as girls normally only go to one club at a time.
another problem is girls who want you but who dont have permission from their friends (at least in their own mind) and so who pretend not to want you. maybe just steam in full hardcore and take any responsiblity away from girl
anyway im dancing doing my thing on the dancefloor, im just having so much fucking fun, i can literally see girls checking me out, then looking away, as they no im gunna fucking approach.
highlight of night: me and my bro are chilling dancing having fun, and too 9's walk up to us and basically throw themselves at us. makeout, they walk off, we shoulda followed it was probably a test, or them wanting to take some responsibility away from them as they basically started it, but we were too mindblown at what had just happened. like theyre were jacked roid monkeys much better looking than us, but we get approached.
state and no outcome dependence is fucking key.
defo wanna just go out everyday even if its just to do one approach, see if i can pop to bar today for 20 mins, going out tommorow and then maybe to meet with london wing later in week.
be good to go out with other RSDers who are on it as much as me, my mates think im a lunatic
fourth night is much the same as the others, im just rolling around approaching
I got to sit down with mates, sitting next to russian, open.
soon we're making out.
isolate her, trying to finger but shes not on it.
im feeding her all this bullshit about how i really like her, should countered it with negative emotional shit aswell. Id love to get good at the role play emotional stuff julien talks about, but firstly i just want to get good at getting laid
i think the bullshit confuses her, we walk for abit but then she walks of saying she needs to go home (she had done a few times before and i persisted, but this was an actual no)
at trance/dance club. fucking love it.
straight to podium where im doing my thing. pulling girls up. make out with multiple hot girls. should have isolated but havin too much fun.
looking back, i was in state and not giving a fuck, so i was getting girls. the main thing ive learnt in week of going out is the difference between just looking for girls who happen to be up for it and actually choosing the hot girls, is your internal reality. If you feel life is good, and that its going to be good NO MATTER what happens in that moment, then your all good. you will be full of good emotions, and will not care if a girl rejects you (so she wont reject you)
Ok, so combining these too as again i was extremely shitfaced and so memory is blurry
do not remember the club we went to at the start
only just hitting me now how much i must have drunk lol. damn english booze culture
in club, approaching around, but im being needy as im so drunk basically.
my thoughts on drinking now is that it basically numbs your emotion. you cannot feel scared, but it also numbs your WOOO YEAH feeling
im scrapping "confidence" from my vocabulary. from now on you either feel needy, stifled and reactive, or full of positivity, unreliant on external sources, and uneedy to any outcome
still manage to get on a teacher in training from england
same thing, barely remember much. end up slaying some 5 out of 10, pink is pink.
Just done a week in napa
massive amazing reference experience, lot of fun, lot of drinking
first night go to biggest club there, club castle.
I hit up alot of sets, and meet a russian girl. i can clearly see shes into me, but has a boyfriend and doesnt want to do anything. i keep her with me and go approach other chicks (cool girl) then lose her, later she reopens me and we dance together, but she still resists.
maybe shoulda just kept at it, but she was staying with her parents and there were other girls to approach
i then preceeded to get so shitfaced i cant remember what happened
didnt learn too much from this night, just cool to be out approaching
just realized something
going out is key,
but the key is also self development. its been right infront of me the whole time, RSD is centered around it.
but ive been in the mindset of techniques, self amusement as a technique, escalating as a technique, rather than just getting my shit together and being a fucking man, focusing on developing myself.
Im still gunna be going out as much as possible, but self development is gunna become a real 100% focus of mine, just like gym.
going out tonight will update soon
Ok, so friday went to top rave club in london
absolutely amazing, girls were backpackers so easier, music was banging, amazing time.
i got a bit too drunk about halfway through but at the end and start my game was pretty much spot on
i was just in state enjoying myself, got on 3 different birds, australian american and canadian
not much more to say really.
From here though changes gunna be happening. I think i have finally realized "I am enough" and that makeouts are easy, so now i want to focus my game more, rather than just going out on a rampage trying to get as many makeouts as possible.
my game needs to be more focused so i do more solid interactions which result in lays or day 2's.
gunna watch alex's manifesto, come up with few things to work on next time im out.
also, decided in january gunna move to tenerife, las americas, to work in a bar/pr and go out every fucking night for 8 months, then go uni after
however that means gotta save some money till then, so gunna be going out alot less :( probs means it time for some daygame!
Ok, so really wanted to go out last night, but nobody up for it
i go it alone. fucking scary. like to say i stayed sober too, but i did not. that being said didnt drink too much, just enough to get a little buzz.
in the club, its strangely not as bad as i thought on my own. i feel leveled, grounded, mainly because i knew i was taking action, i felt awesome alone in the club, im living life
i see girl i got with before at different club.
long story short, i stay with her. i say, lets go grab some food at your place (she said she only lives 10 mins away)
get to hers, get naked, boom, lose my V!
happy as fuck, though sex is totally overated haha!
may hit her up again, may not, im just happy i got the first notch under the belt!
Went out last night, got absolutely off my tits
not good. i wanted to get really drunk, but combination of that, not having been out in a few weeks, and being around alot of people i know ment that shit did not go well
I dont remember much. just me plowing with no calibration, meh actually thinking back, i was being physical and basically alot of the stuff ive been trying to implement into my game has become natural, which is cool
but cos i was so drunk didnt really get anywhere, glad it happened, this is last straw, time to stop drinking
gunna go work in abit, but what ive decided to do is be more focused in my game, go out 3 times a week, have a technique night, try and get laid night, and just kick back and have fun night
also gunna focus on one rsd instructor at a time and try and mainly implement there game, then next etc
all those looking for wings in london, im now able to go out nearer to you (central london etc) so ill email u guys and we'll go from there!