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First Date Tips


Hey! I'd like to write briefly about first date tips. I want to share with you when and where to have a first date, as well as common concerns with first dates in general. So that is 3 first date tips!


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Where to have a first date? Tip #1

Meet for a drink at a bar. Probably the BEST place for a first date is a bar! Meet the girl for a drink at a bar. And make it a bar that you like, and close to where you live. Getting a drink at a bar is an American past time. It is so socially acceptable, so you should take advantage of this.

And the girl you're interested in dating can be pretty easily persuaded to meet you for a drink at a bar. Because it is such normal behavior. In fact, the girl has to be pretty weird to turn down a drink at a bar. First Date Tip: get a drink at a bar.

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If you're not of legal drinking age to get into a bar, then meet for a nonalcoholic drink somewhere, the obvious choices being coffee or tea. Those are also very normal behaviors and this are high percentage.


When to have a first date? Tip #2

Meet the girl for the first date as soon as possible! Live by this rule: the sooner the better. Your first instinct should be do get a drink with the girl right when you meet her. If that doesn't work, then try texting her the next day. Text game is a whole other topic, so for the sake of this article, I'm assuming we are good at texting.

You want to capitalize on the short window of time that the girl still remembers you and feels emotions towards you. Don't wait too long or she will likely forget about you, or not care about you, and in all likelihood meet another guy in the meantime!

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Common concerns about the first date: Tip #3


Don't be scared of strangers. Many people have various anxieties about first dates. But in my opinion this is based on biological roots. Our brains are actually designed for the world that existed 100,000 years ago, when fearing strangers was beneficial to survival. In modern society, fearing strangers has little or no benefit most of the time. But since our modern brains haven't adapted as fast as society has changed, we tend to fear meeting strangers.

So take that knowledge to know that the girl you're going on a first date with is a friendly normal human just like you.


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That's all for now. The key here is to trust in the "process" enough so that you will actually go on the first date with girls you like. If you have the basics down by following the first date tips here including: meeting for a drink at a bar, make first date as soon as possible, and don't fear strangers, then you will have a more vibrant dating life that is necessary for any normal person!

Post comments if you want to share or talk about these or other first date tips. :)
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Haha thanks! My fav one is the girl with the boobs :)
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Lol thanks!
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Exactly! :)
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Haha thanks! My fav one is the girl with the boobs :)
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Roof one is hot too.
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nice share friend
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Hmmm yea, they're nice!
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I know right!? You can see it in her eyes.
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Cheers man
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Nice post. Question: Assuming the first date goes well, should you try and arrange the next one on the spot, or take it easy and text her again within a couple of days?
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It depends on your schedules. But IMO always try to do it as soon as possible, and then calibrate from there. Keep in mind tht you're always escalating towards sex, especially by trying to get the girl back your place more and more.

Realistically the girl will have to work or is busy so she will probably indicate that she is free again in a few days. Try to be reasonable and normal about setting up te next date, have common sense etc.

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Nice post. Question: Assuming the first date goes well, should you try and arrange the next one on the spot, or take it easy and text her again within a couple of days?
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