Chocked!'s Blog
So I made good on one of my goals. I just have to sustain and turn them up now.... To be specific that goal was to be more physical.
Well last night I was out with a group of girls :) They are cool but I wanted to meet new people. It was early in the evening, 9:30ish so I broke away from our group and started approaching other people and being social. I was would walk up, shake hands, say something silly I noticed about them, and introduce myself.
Time goes by and I see some of the girls I had met earlier but they don't see me yet. I sneak up behind one of the girls with her back to me, grab her, and pull her in. She wasn't the cutest of the group but all her friends noticed immediately and it was on :)
Well this just didn't seem to do it for me yet. I wanted to do better. Then click, I remembered the lesson from Tom on the dance floor at bootcamp. I cannot thank him enough for what he tought me. There's a very cute girl and her cute friend on the dance floor. Immediately I run up and start spinning her but she has a drink in her hand. The drinks are a quarter so I told her to toss it but she's figeting around. So I wander off to another group of cute girls being shy, leaning up against the edge of the floor, and watching.
I do the lame magic trick spin and steal one of their spots. Then I explain that I'm sorry but it had to be done in the name of magic :) Then I have the COMPLETE attention of all three girls so I enguage them all. However, about this same time I see the other girl from before has ditched her drink so I swoup in and pickup where we had left off...
I am spinning her and dancing with a regular partner dance embrace. I can tell she's enjoying the company but feel I can do better. So I do the silly little throw her up, spin around, and set her back down. Oh my god!!! Tom mentioned this would really turn a girl on (and I've done it about a half billion times) but it never really so perfectly illustrated itself. Geeeeeesh, the girl got weak in her knees and damn near fell to the floor. She was so flustered and out of breath it was unbelievable. We continued to dance till the end of the song. Then she stumbled all over her words so badly I couldn't make anything out, kept looking at me, and slowly gravitated away (about 6 feet away).
I honestly didn't know what to do at this point. It felt as though she had no clue how to handle the sudden rush of feeling I gave her. I was unsure if I'd completely scare them off or end up rushing home with her had I continued the course. I ended up just finding another group of girls.
Honestly looking back now I should have just stayed the course. There was nothing to loose :) Another thing.... 99% of the stuff I said myself made NO SENCE. It was complete goblly gook, I just kept talking and the girls just kept listening. It was hillarious. I could have walked up and spoke a different language or just mumbled and I still would have had their complete attention. haha
One additional tid bit------------------ Note on Texting
I sent out mass text to girls in my phone...
"Hey guys htting up the town. Starting at the moon. See you there :) "
Got quite a few responses! Although none of them showed they were all excuses but good ones even got responses from girls that don't normally text back... such as:
sorry I cannot make it...
Ga I really wish I could go...
Not gonna make it...
etc.
OK my first instict was to text back to all of them. Then I realized wait. This is a perfect opportunity. If I don't text back it's as though I'm leaving them wondering to a certain degree.... Yet wouldn't really be outwordly rude, you know I wouldn't be upset myself if somebody didn't reply back to me under such cercomstances. Yet it does leave one with a certain degree of curiocity. Thinking somewhat about what they would have missed out on.... So I just didn't reply to any of these girls :) I think that communicates a lot more, a lot better, than if I had tried to use this as an opening thread to a conversation at an inoportune time.
Well last night I was out with a group of girls :) They are cool but I wanted to meet new people. It was early in the evening, 9:30ish so I broke away from our group and started approaching other people and being social. I was would walk up, shake hands, say something silly I noticed about them, and introduce myself.
Time goes by and I see some of the girls I had met earlier but they don't see me yet. I sneak up behind one of the girls with her back to me, grab her, and pull her in. She wasn't the cutest of the group but all her friends noticed immediately and it was on :)
Well this just didn't seem to do it for me yet. I wanted to do better. Then click, I remembered the lesson from Tom on the dance floor at bootcamp. I cannot thank him enough for what he tought me. There's a very cute girl and her cute friend on the dance floor. Immediately I run up and start spinning her but she has a drink in her hand. The drinks are a quarter so I told her to toss it but she's figeting around. So I wander off to another group of cute girls being shy, leaning up against the edge of the floor, and watching.
I do the lame magic trick spin and steal one of their spots. Then I explain that I'm sorry but it had to be done in the name of magic :) Then I have the COMPLETE attention of all three girls so I enguage them all. However, about this same time I see the other girl from before has ditched her drink so I swoup in and pickup where we had left off...
I am spinning her and dancing with a regular partner dance embrace. I can tell she's enjoying the company but feel I can do better. So I do the silly little throw her up, spin around, and set her back down. Oh my god!!! Tom mentioned this would really turn a girl on (and I've done it about a half billion times) but it never really so perfectly illustrated itself. Geeeeeesh, the girl got weak in her knees and damn near fell to the floor. She was so flustered and out of breath it was unbelievable. We continued to dance till the end of the song. Then she stumbled all over her words so badly I couldn't make anything out, kept looking at me, and slowly gravitated away (about 6 feet away).
I honestly didn't know what to do at this point. It felt as though she had no clue how to handle the sudden rush of feeling I gave her. I was unsure if I'd completely scare them off or end up rushing home with her had I continued the course. I ended up just finding another group of girls.
Honestly looking back now I should have just stayed the course. There was nothing to loose :) Another thing.... 99% of the stuff I said myself made NO SENCE. It was complete goblly gook, I just kept talking and the girls just kept listening. It was hillarious. I could have walked up and spoke a different language or just mumbled and I still would have had their complete attention. haha
One additional tid bit------------------ Note on Texting
I sent out mass text to girls in my phone...
"Hey guys htting up the town. Starting at the moon. See you there :) "
Got quite a few responses! Although none of them showed they were all excuses but good ones even got responses from girls that don't normally text back... such as:
sorry I cannot make it...
Ga I really wish I could go...
Not gonna make it...
etc.
OK my first instict was to text back to all of them. Then I realized wait. This is a perfect opportunity. If I don't text back it's as though I'm leaving them wondering to a certain degree.... Yet wouldn't really be outwordly rude, you know I wouldn't be upset myself if somebody didn't reply back to me under such cercomstances. Yet it does leave one with a certain degree of curiocity. Thinking somewhat about what they would have missed out on.... So I just didn't reply to any of these girls :) I think that communicates a lot more, a lot better, than if I had tried to use this as an opening thread to a conversation at an inoportune time.