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I know pretty much all of you have read this post on the forum: http://rsdnation.com/node/146977
It was amazing and I had to take the best stuff from it and post it here for safe keeping ;-).
Read the orignial thread and enjoy!
"Well, because I know what my life is about. I may go out with a girl, she may like me, she may not like me, but the best I can do is be myself. And whatever happens with her, I know that i still have to get up in the morning and do a, b and c to make my dreams come true. That's why I'm successful, because at the end of the day, it's up to me to make my life happen. "
"you'll get 100% of the women that you were meant to get."
all the times ive had my best interactions with women, i was never chasing them. it was more like we were working together to achieve something awesome.
That was a VERY powerful quote that I've come to realize as well. When we deal with women we like, I think we've ALL been guilty of having this "us against them" mentality where we act as if we're trying to take something from them that they're unwilling to "give up." Nonesense. I too have began to realize that it's more about the two us working together to create a great experience that would be MUTUALLY beneficial.
Yes Yes Yes!!!!! That's it! That's the solution to AA, that's the solution to becoming reactive, that's the solution to basically everything!
You'll NEVER EVER have to worry about your value again. Because it's not a trade, it's NOT a deal you close. You are you, she is she, but only together you're able to form that special magical thing. A thing that none of you could ever create on your own.
It was amazing and I had to take the best stuff from it and post it here for safe keeping ;-).
Read the orignial thread and enjoy!
"Well, because I know what my life is about. I may go out with a girl, she may like me, she may not like me, but the best I can do is be myself. And whatever happens with her, I know that i still have to get up in the morning and do a, b and c to make my dreams come true. That's why I'm successful, because at the end of the day, it's up to me to make my life happen. "
"you'll get 100% of the women that you were meant to get."
all the times ive had my best interactions with women, i was never chasing them. it was more like we were working together to achieve something awesome.
That was a VERY powerful quote that I've come to realize as well. When we deal with women we like, I think we've ALL been guilty of having this "us against them" mentality where we act as if we're trying to take something from them that they're unwilling to "give up." Nonesense. I too have began to realize that it's more about the two us working together to create a great experience that would be MUTUALLY beneficial.
Yes Yes Yes!!!!! That's it! That's the solution to AA, that's the solution to becoming reactive, that's the solution to basically everything!
You'll NEVER EVER have to worry about your value again. Because it's not a trade, it's NOT a deal you close. You are you, she is she, but only together you're able to form that special magical thing. A thing that none of you could ever create on your own.