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Oh, hello there! it’s been a while.
It’s good to be back on the front page of RSDN, nice to see you again as well. :)
I’ve got some serious news for you today, as well as a nice little package of new concepts that will PUMP THE SHIT out of your game.
I’ll get to the AIDS part in a sec, first, the announcement.
As you might’ve noticed, I’ve increased the frequency of posts over at BradBranson.com to twice a week, and there has been a deluge of comments, questions, and feedback, which has been a lot of fun.
But I felt like my RSDN presence was kind of weak, so I talked with Tyler earlier today about also posting a unique article once a week on the RSDN frontpage, and this here post is the inception of that conversation.
My goal is to help you start off EVERY WEEKEND right, bringing you new concepts and techniques to try EVERY THURSDAY!
I’m working on all sorts of fun ideas using videos from the past few month’s freetours, recounting stories from the field, helping you learn through me explaining my own sticking points, and even broadcasting pump up jams at the end of articles.
I also think it’s a unique opportunity for me to get a little edgier, as BradBranson.com has started to “go viral” amongst my civilian friends and family, and therefore I can’t be as risqué anymore. (sad face)
But no one ends up on RSDN, so expect more hardcore shit, including lay reports and LMR busters. Haha.
Alright, on to today’s content, and how I developed AIDS.

Do you ever notice how after you have sex with a gorgeous girl, the next day it seems like every other girl KNOWS IT?
It’s like you are giving off this weird 4th dimensional vibe that they can some what pick up on.
I’ve had multiple clients and assistants tell me that I ALWAYS have the aura going, although it’s brighter sometimes than others.
It’s the extreme self love, reframing everything in your life, fucking awesome vibe you feel when you are living in alignment with your values.
What is your basal level of happiness through out the day? Do you feel good most of the time, or stressed out because you haven’t met your goals?
I’m assuming most people on here have specific goals, but instead of stressing over not achieving them yet, make every action you take TOWARDS achieving that goal something that pumps you up.
Then from there, just FEEL FUCKING AWESOME, and know that others can feel this. It’s the cheesy “self coming through.” Let go and have self trust that others know this. Don’t try to force it, ASSUME it!

Since I’ve gone full Anti-Booze when I’m gaming, I’ve ran into a variety of sticking points.
One of the more interesting ones is this weird tightrope act I feel like I’m walking when I’m with the girl.
This is another way of explaining Tyler’s “Intent” based on his description of being clear in your thoughts, words, and actions.
It’s like I’m standing on this tightrope, constantly vascillating forwards and backwards.
When it’s forwards, I’m a little too try hard, a little too gamey, a little too quick to respond to her questions or laugh at her jokes. This would be “incongruent with my intent.” I’m trying to get a response, or a little too reactive. Not playing my game, but falling into hers.
When I’m leaning back on the tightrope, I’m in the pocket. Playing it cool, icey, with my swagger on, and shit hits like Petrified Wood y’all. That’s the sweet spot. Being the music, and doing whatever the fuck I want, knowing it’s gonna rock.
I think when you drink alcohol, it’s slows you down, you fall into the sweetspot, and cement your state through booze, so these minor fluctuations don’t come into play. But when you are full sober, you can feel this at times.
I think it fucks a lot of guys up because they get in their head over this. But if anything it’s not all that bad because you can learn to “feel“ when you are trying too hard, or a bit gamey, and scale it back keeping things silky.

When most guys think of dominance, they picture some big alpha dude man-handling girls.
To me, dominance is more of maintaining a specific frame of reality, no matter what the external situation.
I remember when Julien, Hunter, and I were in Chicago a while back and I wanted to get some deep dish Chicago style pizza.
J-life freaked a bit, trying to run to Trader Joes for blueberries instead, but we ended up staying for pizza.
We get back and Tyler starts saying how I frame controlled everyone into eating pizza, yet I didn’t even consciously think about it.
But, from an analytical perspective, I was more certain that pizza was going to be bomb, and because I maintained that frame no matter what J-life or Hunter said, one way of interpreting this is as a frame battle.
When you’re interacting with the girl, maintain the frame at all costs! Shit starts going awry, and just HOLD IT!!! If you can force shit hard enough, you WILL prevail, but most guys break too quickly.
The problem is you are pinging off of the girl. You don’t have a lot of experience so you determine how good your “pick up skills” are based on her response, and then try to calibrate or react to her responses.
Be the god damn yacht and cruise through the waves like a boss.

Man, each year that goes by this just gets so much easier.
Probably because you hook up with more and more girls, you see how casual sex can be, and you just start believing (your frame is stronger) that sex isn’t a big deal and you can openly talk about it with strangers, much less the hot girl in front of you.
Think Spectrum of Authenticity style, where you just say it like it is. She starts getting nervous, bring it up:
“You look nervous right now, what’s up?”
You tell her we are leaving, and she asks where:
“We’re going to my place, it’s awesome!”
She says you just want to have sex with her:
“Yah.”
Whenever you get that grasping feeling, like you can feel a weird vibe off of her, just bring it out into the open. Show her you are comfortable enough to deal with it, as well as socially calibrated enough to realize that she’s uncomfortable.
THIS creates the type of trust, connection, and rapport she needs to head back to your house and KNOW you aren’t a weird.
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Alright, so the AIDS cocktail has been explained, let’s give you a few things to try this weekend.
The one I’m having the most fun with is the tightrope, as it’s keeping me right in that healthy pocket where I just come across to her as the BOSS.
Start becoming conscious of when you are trying too hard, gaming too much, and consciously try to get more centered.
Focus in on your eye contact, slow down your breathing, take a little extra time to answer her questions, and soak up her feminine aura.
Mmm…. It feels good when you’re fully present. And she’ll like that feeling too.
YES! Stoked to be back on the front page, I’ll be back next Thursday to check in and see how things went.
And as always, here’s a song for the weekend…
Enjoy!




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I love all the shit you put out big time.
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good stuff men, lov u
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I think this is because you know you dont want anything from her, so therefore you are just naturally giving value from within. Chatting purely for the sake of shooting the shit.
With the dimepiece, there were times when I'd find myself catching myself "wanting" or striving to get her and just pull back and be chill..
Gotta remember a girl is a girl is a girl. They all want similar things. :-)
Also too, I noticed that I was consciously just second guessing myself and over-analyzing the situation "Oh I really want this one to work" getting too attached to the outcome instead of just ENJOYing myself.
Where did these thoughts come from who knows, most likely my mind f'n with me.
You don't say "Why does this fattie like me?" lol. No. You just know.
Same way with the hot ones. The only difference is more often then not they just won't IOI as much. (nerd-speak ftw!)
Pause.
So when I got into game way back when I may have thought that I needed to do something or add something to get these turbos to like me.. I've learned that it's simply a matter of being friendly and cool, then once isolated escalating.
It's more of a matter of getting out of my own way, or just being 'chill' seeing if I think she's cool or not and not the other way around.
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GOLD.
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Taking my first real serious step forward.
Signed for Hotseat.
Looking forward to the weekly updates.
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I loved the Aura part.
Can you write an article to expand on the 'holding the frame'? Sounds kinda unclear to me.
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"J-Life tip number 34..."
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Perhaps the next article should be on being apologetic no matter what your life status... What's Jeffy supposed to do, apologise for being in his mid thirties?
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Nice article, thanks! I like the practical examples to explain the mindset on how to be more authentic by just saying what you think and notice about her. Going to work on that more! Btw, you will probably like "sunset melodies" as well (on youtube) :).
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I've been somewhat sceptical of your style in the past, but seriously mate, this is a truly impressive artice. You guys are teaching concepts that are just not available elsewhere in normal life - even if you seek 'professional' help.
Thanks, and i look forward to your weeklies.
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BUT, if you compare intent with a tightrope and you lean back you will fall from the rope too... so how can this be the sweetspot? thats not fully clear now. maybe you can explain this thing. or do you mean "leaning back from the leaning in position that you had before" = standing centered on the rope?
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and LMAO to this:
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I could seriously feel my stomach drop and my heartbeat stop for 5 seconds.
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I've been somewhat sceptical of your style in the past, but seriously mate, this is a truly impressive artice. You guys are teaching concepts that are just not available elsewhere in normal life - even if you seek 'professional' help.
Thanks, and i look forward to your weeklies.
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BUT, if you compare intent with a tightrope and you lean back you will fall from the rope too... so how can this be the sweetspot? thats not fully clear now. maybe you can explain this thing. or do you mean "leaning back from the leaning in position that you had before" = standing centered on the rope?
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so FUCK YOU LOL
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