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Whatup duddddddddessss....

A late night Thursday edition, coming at you from the Lair!

I thought I'd film this week from the naked lair, as I'm breaking down all the equipment I used during the Evolutions launch, and found it really inspiring to see all the bullshit I had to push through last year to reach my goals.

Guys always have excuses, they always have some reason to not succeed.

But then I look at how I FORCED things to work, using a bullshit basement, trying to make it look as professional as possible, and succeeding at something that could have easily fallen apart multiple times.

The same goes for success with women, both in every pickup you have, as well as your long term success.

So check out this vid if you feel inspired to see your 2013 New Years Goals manifest, and also if you are an Intermediate, because I specifically use him as an example, the goals he should create, and push through as the year goes on.

Check it!



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oY7rceeSQSk

Yeahaahahhaaha...

Getting my move on!

So excited to develop a social circle in the big city, and have a place to call my HOME, which it's been about 5 years since that's happened.

Rock and roll, I've been trying to sneak in a Bjork track for a long time, so here you go!

Have a good weekend, and ENJOY!

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Zach S

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Reminds me of Tony Robbins New Years video... sick vid
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Tyler

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THE LAIR!!!

Great video man enjoyed it!

Have fun at improv -- envious!

Tyler
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Mr.Sociable

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 Great video again Brad! 

I have a question to the community.

I wonder what is the MAIN goal of the other members in 2013? 

Cheers
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Elamanopiskelija

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Nice points here by Mr. Robbins!
Goes in the opposite direction too... the infamous "autumn gloom" is way worse than the actual winter for people (in terms of happiness that is) since it's the transition from one (supposedly better) state to a worse one... then you are already in the "worse" one and isn't all that bad... if you don't take note and apply that yo every aspect of your everyday life you are quite f****d
Zach S wrote:
Reminds me of Tony Robbins New Years video... sick vid
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liked soley because you like bjork.
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bingobango

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i knew it! all you ever really wanted was to find that special girl. LOL.

are you gona let her keep a toothbrush at your new pad? haha
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Hey Brad, this is  not directly linked to your article, but you are the expert on this FOR SURE:

How do you keep up working out while traveling? Asking because gyms usually don't have tickets for short periods of time or small quantity of sessions. I want to travel more in 2013, but this really cracks my mind - don't want to do it on the toll of my lifting progress really....
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Good vid! Like the aperture choice :) Didn't feel like editing eh? hah one run and done -- nice!
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subx wrote:
liked soley because you like bjork.
LOL
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Tyler wrote:
THE LAIR!!!

Great video man enjoyed it!

Have fun at improv -- envious!

Tyler
Level C! Moving up ;)
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bingobango wrote:
i knew it! all you ever really wanted was to find that special girl. LOL.

are you gona let her keep a toothbrush at your new pad? haha
I'll save one toothbrush for all the girls.
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MakeItHappen wrote:
Hey Brad, this is  not directly linked to your article, but you are the expert on this FOR SURE:

How do you keep up working out while traveling? Asking because gyms usually don't have tickets for short periods of time or small quantity of sessions. I want to travel more in 2013, but this really cracks my mind - don't want to do it on the toll of my lifting progress really....
Stay at a hotel with a gym or just get into the gym. Force compliance ;)
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 Brad - 3/4 through the video you talk about the first month being about building the happy funny switch that you can just flip on in the beginning of the night.  How do you work on this? Most of my "standard" nights, I start of feeling quite out of it, and everything becomes being about working up state.
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 One of your best pieces of work yet.  Its refreshing see you work in your parent's basement aka the lair and you are moving on to bigger and better things in Chicago.  I find it very convenient to keep all of my stuff at my Dad's so I can keep my stuff at his place and also I can count on a place to stay.  Some guys have to stay at their perent's house, and some guys choose to stay there.  Not only can we improve on our life, we can improve theirs as well.
That Bjork video is trippy, and I like it.
Thank you Zach S for the Tony Robbins post.
Realistic standards mean realistic goals.  One goal at a time so you don't become ADD.
This will not happen over night.  Improve 1% each day and you will get there.
Good luck to you Brad and everyone on there.  You get what you give!  
Success!
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Sweep wrote:
 Brad - 3/4 through the video you talk about the first month being about building the happy funny switch that you can just flip on in the beginning of the night.  How do you work on this? Most of my "standard" nights, I start of feeling quite out of it, and everything becomes being about working up state.
Whatup dowgg.
Think mainly goin out a lot, even just for like 20 mins. You'll get more used to getting in the flow doing cold approach. Also just not stressing and instead enjoying the actions you're taking- not trying to force state. You can still succeed in all aspects when out of state.
Later
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i live in a small town and the bars are empty on weekdays ..any advice for smalltown game? I do more daygame here and go for longer interactions since there arent as many options, more friendly and chill, etc. working on career more so cant do nightgame in big city more than 3 nights a week which is why...still get 30 min daygame small town a day at least ( tylers advice 20+ a day)
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Zach S wrote:
Reminds me of Tony Robbins New Years video... sick vid
Why the fuck tony says this shit about willpower? what does he mean!!! he says that willpower never lasts, I think its kind of bullshit or maybe I didnt get it! 
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Great video. Except for the point about improving everything. I actually think for me, all aspects of my game rather do seem to improve simultaneously, but not constantly, rather in waves.
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Wow what a trip...I'm moving to Chicago from San Francisco in April and I'm also doing a Whistler trip in March. Trying to make the best of 2013 and get as many new experiences as possible and throw myself out of my element. Always appreciate your vids man happy new year.
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 Halfway through the vid had to stop.

Having REALISTIC process oriented goals. This is so true. Like the whole past year my one goal was A. get laid and B. get a girlfriend. Well there's no gameplan for that, I just kind of float around wishing and wanting. And the times i did have success and the one time i did get laid, it didn't even feel satisfying, like really. That's why I'm on the 1 approach a day challenge. 


LOL! I'm working on everything, i'm getting better at everything! I think this is where having priorities comes in to play. For me school is definitely the most important thing. Hitting the gym up 3-4 times a week. Doing my approaches every day. and Eating as healthy as possible (whats in my fridge). 
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 Nothing beats a pencil and loose-leaf when I want to impress my mind with an idea I'm cracking or goal I'm planning. It's too bad because it's so nice to have the digital copy.
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Brad I i dig it..

the key take a way

 is to have the vision you want for yourself at the end of 2013, and , you dont make a dramatic one day jump from now to there. you small chunk it over time, slowly making 'small chunk' ing the process over time , these 'small chunks' add themselves up for you and you realize who you , and over time, your not like this is completely different etc.

i am still thinking exactly what are my goals and take away from this year to next year, i know that i want to eventually , i know that this year i am going to shave my head,  i am going to really eventually get into sales/ or own my own company, i know that i must really accomplish my goal of getting more like a consistent monthly lay count, i know that i must work on take on the testosterone etc

i thought in my head about , working on 'dominance', one month and then work on "forcing willpower' another month, but i realize that wont work, what will work is something concrete that is tied to that general over-arching general theme. if the theme is 'dominance' what 'action' can you take to make that theme work ?
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good ... hmm so nice 
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