Very Cool.

oops, I did it again^^
thanks to the rsd-staff, but we come to this later...

last week I saw exactly the type of guy you are referring to in this video. he just ran all over the place and try to desperatly hook up with every female human being. this kid seemed pretty lost, as if he didn't has any kind of social intuition or any standards at all. the harder he tried the more he got this off-vibe about him and the girls started to reject him faster. but I respect him in the way of taking action and as a newb I almost did the same thing. I think it's necessary to get to know a lot of women, especially in the beginning. not only to learn technical things of the game, but also to get a sense of which women you actually like. what kind of women do you actually want? what kind of women actually fall for you and fit to you? it's necessary to get to know different stereotypes.

I'm pretty picky nowadays so I don't feel the urge to hustle every girl in a social gathering. I'm more focused now and select more wisley. but I still do some kind of warm-up approaches. sometimes when I'm out and I missed to approach anybody in the first five minutes and do the procastinating bullshit like buying some beer, going to the toilette, check the cell-phone every two minutes^^ and all this stuff. I just recognize the pattern and actively decide to take action. When I'm in the place for an hour already and I start to ask myself: how many people did you approach already? then I know I have to take action. And I do. It doesn't matter how less I'm in the mood or how awkard the first approach might turn out. I get the job done, because I know that it will start a positive upward spiral and gets me in the right place, where magic can happen. I don't actually care about the woman or her reaction, I just care about the action itself and that it will get me in the right headspace. often times, the nights that start pretty bad for example a hostile reaction of the first approached girl, end up as the best nights I've ever had.

I think a lot of the confusion comes from a lack of experience. as far as I can see it, every advice here on rsdn makes total sense and has it's right place. but you need real life experience to back it up. the more you go out, the more the seeds will pop up and make sense. when I got into this game I was one of these guys who study pua-literature like forever, but didn't go out enough. actually, I didn't really had the time back then as I was more concernd about getting my degree and get a proper job. but in such situation you get pretty confused and somehow frustrated. you have all this knowledge but you can't really put the pieces together. so, It's absolutely necessary to take a longer time period and to game within this time bracket as much as possible. my  journey began in the winter of 2012 and I have learnt in this one year more than in the four or five years I've already been in the game culminated. going two to three nights a week in bars and clubs and five to six days a week daygaming. it's just know that all these different theories come alive. nobody is over the process.

I pulled last friday, but I can't tell you which instructor or which advice had the most impact on the pull. It was more like a mixture of all of them. A pull is not a static chessgame, it's an organic thing and there are a lot of subtle things going on up the way to the bedroom. actually, Julien describe it pretty well recently. you don't actively think gamewise in the field, there are just seeds that pop up in your mind automatically. now all of a sudden I recognize how I say things to the girl like: we gotta slow this down, I like you, we are moving to fast here, just to tongue her down five seconds later^^ then leave her alone (takeaway) and come back several times (aka. reapproach your target up to for times aka. detention). use verbal and physical push/pull (aka. physical rapport aka. drug dealer analogy), cut space, pulling her hair, eyefuck her, using silence to create tension, dance with her, then get back to normal and have an ordinary get to know conversation, beiing patient and persistent till the end of the night. Kill all her objections (thanks Julien;- ) and then I just pulled her, brad-like without excuses as she was a little more older and more experienced than a twenty year old fawn. the next night I was in front of the club smoking just standing there. calm, boss-like, gazing over some broads (be the gorilla). got strong eyecontact with a girl, now all of a sudden she and her friends are standing next to me smoking. in the end of the day, there are some different approaches to the game, but a lot of the advice is actually pretty similar. it's just different ways of looking at it, different analogys to nail the point. the fundamentals remain the same.

"Blowing yourself out by talking too much" - this is SOO what i need and i think it could improve my resulte in game and life a thousendfold.

why did no instructor ever mention this before and more importantly, why didn't i come up with this myself??

really good content brad, thanks

Great video. I would love to see a free tour kind of video from brad at some point. I think it would be great!

this is so spot on brad, glad you talked about it!
the map in the background looks boss btw.!

didnt read that wall of text, but thanks for the song. big l is gonna fill my music playlists again :)

 good

 For me the back-swing, happens on it's own. 

What is HARD is to do the extreme shit really. And be consistant with it enough for it to normalize into a habit you know how to use.

I like chillin back and letting it happen...but....she has to know it's on. Or someone else will take her. Plenty of dudes have good enough game to fuck all these horny girls.

Or logisticaly you can lose her too. Happened plenty of times.

 I love this video - it speaks to something interesting to me. When I first was physical I was very precise about everything, now I just know when to claw girls etc, it comes naturally. 

I think my personal next big step is club make outs. I really want to (just because I want to and no other reason) attempt lots of make outs at the club and see what happens. Like really push it beyond my comfort zone. 

Brad, is this a worth endeavour? Or should I focus more on pulling girls out of the club/getting solid number closes (I do the second one fairly often). 

+1!!!

We want Brad Free Tour!!!

Tyler

What happened to your blog brad? It was the shit back in 1997 when you were posting cool travel/gym/pickup/money stuff.

Wow!  Amazing video

wow.. great video