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I’m over in Europe at the moment on another Euro tour, and a bit of nostalgia has kicked in.

Most of my first year as an RSD Executive Coach was spent in Europe, in particular Amsterdam, and I feel it’s fitting to be writing this article from one of my favorite cities.

Today has been a productive day.

Meditation. Eating meat. Reading self-development books. Pushups. Supplements.

Anyway, on to what this article is all about.

My bootcamp ethos.

The teaching process for me is very much a reflection of where the teacher is coming from.

What is his mindset towards both teaching and “the game”?

What thought processes, actions, and paradigms are the teacher coming from, and is he able to pass on those traits, actions, and ultimately MINDSETS to his clients/students?

I had a recent anniversary of sorts.

It’s been 3 years since I took my own RSD bootcamp as a client.

Sweet!

I remember back before taking the bootcamp, and the questions I had going in.

“Oh man, what the fuck, am I really to the point where I am going to spend $2000 to get this handled?”

“Are these people even REAL?”

“I’ve never spent $2000 on anything!”

“And there is no way in hell I am telling anyone about this!!!”

Haha, there was so much allure, so much intrigue in what the bootcamp was.

I feel like the RSD culture has changed, and we’ve tried to make the bootcamp as transparent as possible. Try and give you a better idea of what to expect going in to program.

And as always, it comes with the trusty ole “money back guarantee.”

To add to that transparency, I thought I’d post up a video that was recorded at one of my recent bootcamps.

It illustrates many aspects of the in-field portion of the weekend program.



Let’s dive a little deeper into my teaching process.

If you were to create a university degree out of my program, it would be a course in “How to be High Value.”

Why high value?

Why do you come to a bootcamp?

You want to become more attractive as a man. Build attraction: get the girl.

Let’s boil that down to its most fundamental basic.

Attraction = Value.

Back to the college degree metaphor.

If the major is Be High Value, then the minor would be “and How to Be Unapologetic About It!”

The “theory” portion that I teach covers various ways that we convey value naturally and how to TURN UP your own personality to create a shit ton of value right off the approach.

You see, of course a high value person does not try to impress the girl, but either way… You still have an initial first impression.

The context/frame you start off the conversation with carries through the ENTIRE interaction.

And obviously, you want to convey yourself as the cool, high value, attractive, dominant man you are. (and usually a little touchy-feely ;) )

Something VERY interesting that I’ve noticed as well is that the first five minutes DIRECTLY relate to the last five in the bedroom.

So it doesn’t matter where you are at in your development.

The better you open.

The better you close.

You see, there is this wonderful positive feedback loop that many of you might not know about.

What happens is, as you get better results, you get more confidence, which leads to even BETTER results.

That’s when things start getting GOOD. Abudance baby!

But what if YOU ARE NOT IN THAT FEEDBACK LOOP?!

Well, that’s what bootcamp is all about for me.

Jump starting you into that feedback loop and gaining as many positive reference points in a weekend.

We also deal with how to frame your reference experiences in an EMPOWERING way, as opposed to a DISEMPOWERING one.

What you don’t realize is that you also already have THOUSANDS of reference points in your past that can reinforce the high value mindset right now.

Then there is the whole “Being unapologetic aspect".

Something I have noticed is there is one big difference between my game now and 2 years ago.

Let’s say there is a girl that would have taken me 5-7 hours to get home. Now that same girl might take 30 minutes or an hour or so…

What has changed?

It’s that the girl knows within MINUTES what I am there for.

LOVE. :)

It’s obvious.

Right from the start.

My eye contact, tonality, mindset, state, vibe, aura, pheromones all illustrate my intent.

It just makes things so much easier.

Cut to the chase.

No manipulation.

Just pure unadulterated truth.

Efficiency in its purest form.

Or laziness. Hehe.

Alright enough theory. Other things that make the bootcamp so beneficial include:

-Personalized feedback
-Being pushed outside your comfort zone, no matter what your skill level
-Working on specific “outer game” type stuff like physicality, day2s, group dynamics, day game…

And many other things based on the client. I know you’ve heard it’s a maximum of 3-on-1 to keep it extra personalized, and that is the way I’d like to keep it.

Each bootcamp curriculum is unique and highly tailored to the guys I have on program, so it’s impossible to list everything that it might entail.

And it is constantly evolving and changing. By the time you read this, I’m sure there will already be new paradigms, mindsets, and exercises to get even QUICKER results.

So…

KABLAM!

Enjoy the vid, and hopefully someday I’ll see you out in DA CLUB!

And hopefully it’s not cuz I stole your girl! ;)

-BRADLEY!!!!
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#1
snowdog

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Interesting read.

I noticed there's one thing that all these blogs have in common. They leave you with the message 'just take action and be unapologetic about your intentions' .

TAKE IT !

(Just watched Dexter, lol) 
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Drama

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Bootcamp rocks man (so does Dex). I have improved massively since my first, and the second was a huge motivator to get shit handled. I'm excited to see where I am in 6months - 1year
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#3

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question:

horses have things on their eyes so that they don't see or see partially what is happening. I think this is used in races with horses. It is used so that they don't get scared.
This isn't a pua question.

as a human or man to get to your goal you have to see what you want and discard the rest or ignore not trip on some things.

If you don't do it naturally and i think most of us don't you have to impose some rules to achieve what you want.

Is a thing you can connect with? or is it just me?
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gogl~

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wow, that was a restaurant right? and you scream on top of your lungs. isnt there a chance to get thrown out? ^^

i'd love to see more bc videos.
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Hey Brad, nice video, question for you, will you be coming to Lithuania for RSD Free Tour on January? 
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EnVee

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 Good song .. =)
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wales

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Dont Buy it , Sorry
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Daniel

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wales Wrote:
Dont Buy it , Sorry
well he aint SELLING FOOOL

jk

not really
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Playboy

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Y   "whoooooo!!!"

Would have been cool if the guy would awkwardly sat down, while opening the 3set! :p Love that stuff
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nestea

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good shit my man.
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theraguu!

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Brad is the man, really chill vibe. I took a bootcamp with him over a year ago.. I'm now starting to internalize things that were mentioned on bc. I remember the deer in the headlights feeling, it would be interesting to see what I could learn now in this stage of development. Can't go wrong with Brad.
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gogl~ Wrote:
wow, that was a restaurant right? and you scream on top of your lungs. isnt there a chance to get thrown out? ^^

i'd love to see more bc videos.


haha I just noticed that too...that's hilarious. 
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#13

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Action....the first principle of natural game...

Canello
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#14

twoprime

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awesome stuff Brad, I took a BC with another Executive coach but it seems like taking one with you would be beneficial at some point also. Question about your post: you talked about "What you don’t realize is that you also already have THOUSANDS of reference points in your past that can reinforce the high value mindset right now..." I beleive that and I was wondering if you could briefly explain how we can leverage those said reference points to our advantage? Thanks for the insights!
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snowdog

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VisionsDivine Wrote:



Drama Wrote:

Bootcamp rocks man (so does Dex).


Who is Dex?
Best show on TV right now. I quoted something from the latest episode.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0773262/
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#16

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"like times 5"
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Arikmai

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That is alot of "like" in a span of 2 minutes.
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Kamikazu

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not like. like. not like. how else to show, reward, teach, and give.
This is beautiful.
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You cannot have integrity and approach ten and fifteen sets a night...it isn't realistic...some sets you approach mechanically...just for the caht,just for the warm up,just for the state...you cannot have intent with every girl you approach...because then intent loses its meaning and then you are becoming an intent machine,which downgrade intent to a mechanical process...
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snowdog

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That's an interesting thought, and I think there's truth in there too now I think about it. But maybe being mechanical can be a good thing. If it becomes a routine, like driving a car, it'll be as easy as walking eventually.
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#21
Brad-

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Canello Wrote:
You cannot have integrity and approach ten and fifteen sets a night...it isn't realistic...some sets you approach mechanically...just for the caht,just for the warm up,just for the state...you cannot have intent with every girl you approach...because then intent loses its meaning and then you are becoming an intent machine,which downgrade intent to a mechanical process...
There is a difference between working on your skillset and working to get laid.

Sometimes it's good to take an objective approach for the night and learn a new skill or push through a sticking point.

But yes, there is a level of maybe being inauthentic with doing a bunch of sets on bootcamp.

But I've had nights where I did 15 sets and had serious intent for all of them, eventhough they weren't working out...
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