AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHH!!!!!!

Just got back from Vegas, and it was…

Well, actually it was pretty normal. Other than the fact that I pulled 6 out of the last 8 nights out.

So weird, doesn’t even feel like a big deal.

And I can’t figure why it’s been so easy. The chicks were HOT. Like all 8+

The only commonality that I can find is they were all 10-15 minute pulls, sometimes the first set of the night, sometimes the last…

It’s about my 5 year anniversary in the game, so I’m just chalking it up as a leveling up, and a nice bonus after the hard work I’ve put in since the beginning of 2012.

What I’d like to talk about this week was THE MAIN REASON i've had so much success lately, specifically quitting alcohol and the 3 biggest sticking points that I uncovered after starting to game sober.

So check out the vid, which gives not only the sticking points, but how I over came them.



I’ve explained this in other articles before, so I’m not going to go too in depth here, but suffice it to say, most people use alcohol to change their physiology and mental headspace.

One of the biggest aspects of self development is to master the control over your emotions and mental thoughts, so why would you rely on a poison to do that for you?

Sure, it’s an easy shortcut, but in the long run the results are SO MUCH BETTER once you learn how to do everything without any crutches.

And hence, the old skool momentum builder techniques and small chunking the process mentioned in the video.

From there, I started working on higher risk approaches, which helped me quickly transition through my next sticking point.

I haven’t had this problem EVER until I stopped drinking.

But, all of a sudden, my conversations were BORING, and I’d get stuck on stupid conversational threads.

The technique I used to get out of this problem was to start cutting conversational threads quickly.

As you cut more and more, the conversation starts to build momentum, and as you cut more threads, push up the pressure, start owning the conversation more, you can slowly transition into a more sexworthy/man-to-woman type of interaction.

By you decisively leading the interaction she begins to follow, allowing for an easy transition, just realize that she might unconsciously stick with the old frame of conversation, so you have to be decisive here and push through any resistance in the direction you want.

This technique isn’t just related to the alcohol problem, but ANY TIME you are falling into friend-to-friend communication, start cutting threads and changing the topic of conversation, transitioning into a more intimate sexual tone.

The last big sticking point I had was taking any risk at the end of the interaction.

I think one artifact of this was that when you are drunk, your standards are lower, so once you lock in with that average looking girl, you sink in the claws and persist until the end. But when you are sober, you’re constantly vacillating, trying to determine if this girl is hot enough, if it’s too early in the night and you should go see what other girls are in the venue, if she’s receptive enough to invest time in the pull, and all sort of other questions that make you indecisive on the pull.

So at some point, once you lock in, make that firm decision to push it as far as you can with the girl you’re with. Also, just talk to hotter girls, and this problem won’t be as much of an issue either. Haha


It’s funny how I spent the better part of 18 months trying to figure out what my sticking points were, and the second I cut out the booze, 3 huge problems pop up real quick. Alcohol smoothed out many of these problems, but the side effects, especially the loss of strategic level thinking, were just too larger to ignore.

So I have a mission for you, depending on your level of alcohol consumption.

If you are a drinker… Hurrah! Cheers, let’s grab a drink some time, but NOT IN THE CLUB!

Try to cut back on the spectrum:

Drinking booze>Drinking Beer>Drinking ½ Beer/Water>Drinking Water and Sugar Free Redbulls

You say you drink beer because vodka sodas have less calories????

SORRY! That will be a nice leverage point to quit the beer completely, the goal is to first move down the spectrum of alcohol reliance.

From there, hit up the next mission, which if you aren’t drinking alcohol anyway, you can also apply:

Push to do the hard risk approaches!

Here’s the one I want you to do…

Find a group of 2 or more girls seated down talking to each other.

Pick one girl, go up, put out your hand, and grab her attention by yelling “Ay!”

Grab her hand, and decisively make her stand up.

Then say something direct like “You’re cute/hot/adorable/etc.” and proceed from there.

Then do it again until you are comfortable with it and it hooks well.

Comment below with your results. :)

Have a good weekend and here’s to me being awesome.