Did I say that I’ve been fucking rocking out lately?
Seems to be a recurring theme…
Yet the truth. Damn.
After a solid 2 years involved with the RSD crew I’ve finely honed my skillset and there are certain lines that I seem to use over and over again.
Now, don’t get afraid and be all “OMGEEE, he’s giving me routines and lines!”
It’s not like that. But the thing to look at is WHERE they are coming from. How my actions and what I say project my inner head space.
I want to go through each phase of a given pickup, and point out some key phrases that I almost use in every interaction, and how it can highlight some of the internal head spaces that you should be cultivating.
Starting from the approach.
My faves would have to be the old classic “You’re cute.” Or the forced situational openers I talk about in the article on how to open.
Although lately I’ve really like the true nonsense openers, where I’ll just go up to a girl and be like “Plaid shirt! You’re wearing a plaid shirt! Hi, my name is Brad.”
Now what does this say about me trying to impress the girl? I am literally saying the most obvious, basic thing in the world. I just DON’T CARE. And she feels this.
What does it say about me if I don’t care? I am coming from the higher value frame. High value=attraction. Cool.
The BIGGEST thing to remember, over and over I reiterate it, is USE BREAKING RAPPORT TONALITY!
Seriously guys. It is so important. It is THE MOST IMPORTANT THING for conveying your value right away.
I have seen guys with REAL shitty inner game, but if their tonality is spot on, they can still get it done. Like major success, so start paying attention to your tonality.
After the opener, I’ve noticed another thing that I will do fairly regularly.
I am pretty much traveling all the time, always on the road, and it makes a good conversation starter.
Now remember, you don’t want to fall into interview mode, so STATEMENTS NOT QUESTIONS.
I’ll usually use the city or nationality. Let’s say I am in Sweden.
ME: Hey, I’m Brad. Who are you?
ME: Cool, you know what… You look German.
HER: No, actually I’m Dutch.
Now this gives me one of those raisins to branch off of and the conversation flows. It works out really well for me because pretty much anywhere the girl is from I have already been there, so I have a lot to talk about on these types of topics.
But what it really comes down to is that travel is my favorite thing to do, and my favorite thing to talk about, so it’s a really easy way for me to get talking about something I am interested in.
And you see how by using statements, it is again coming from the high value frame.
Another one that I use a lot is with the whole age thing.
Super old school. You almost get asked your age in every single interaction. If I am kind of at a loss for words for whatever reason, I’ll throw out.
ME: Hold on a second. Let me guess how old you are… You look about ___
Whatever, it gives me an opportunity to get a new thread going and also an opportunity to take a step back and fully, unapologetically check her body out.
Then I’ll guess.
What happens everytime? She asks me then… What’s my response?
HER: And how old are you?
Again, super old school, but it turns a 2 sentence interaction into a 5 minute long piece which is slowly giving her more and more reference points of the type of guy I am until the set hooks hard.
The big thing to realize when you are talking is not that what you say is getting her to like you more and more, it is the fact that you are just being consistent.
More specifically consistently cool. Or consistently conveying high value traits.
You know how attraction for men is like a light switch, and women it is like a volume knob.
They just need to spend enough time with you, gather enough cumulative reference points of you speaking with good tonality, good body language, not reacting, going in your head… enough that she sees you are consistent in your actions, and she can trust you to leave together.
Other ones I like:
I almost always fall into the sarcastic frame of being shy. I’ll be physically manhandling the girl but at the same time be like,
“Yeah, I am just a shy boy from the Midwest, please don’t take advantage of me.”
-as I physically man handle the girl, and she is like
“You most definitely are NOT shy!”
It disengages her logical mind and keeps things playful. And I think it is funny as hell because it is so obvious that I am not shy.
Self amusement boyzzz.
Another one I have pretty much trademarked:
“You don’t even want to know what I would do to you.”
I use this little bad boy every time I really want to amp up the sexual energy, especially in a verbal direction.
Almost every time she will ask “What would you do to me?” and it gives you the green light to get super explicit. Although as most of you have seen from some of my youTube videos, some times it catches you off guard and in that example I go all lame.
Also another one that I’ll use pretty consistently is the “Hey what are you up to later?”
It is just a great little line for figuring out the logistics for her for the night. Does she need to get up early, where is she staying, who did she come here with?
Lastly, when going for the pull a lot of times I’m trying to see where the girl’s buying temperature is at, see how ready she is to leave with me. So if I am getting ready to leave, I will usually say something like:
“Oh my god, this is probably the last and only time I will ever see you, that is so sad?”
With obvious sarcasm, and at the same time I am staring her fucking down hardcore, full BEDROOM eyes. This is a good gauge to see what they are down for.
Sometimes I’ll get a “Why are you leaving, I want to stay with you.” That’s obviously a good response.
Other times I’ll get a “Well take my number! Let’s do something sometimes!”
Now remember, this can look a little weak, like verbally it looks a little chode, but you have to realize how ALPHA everything else I am doing is.
The amount of alpha/high value/leader/unapologetic tendencies I project in a given interaction allow me to go in almost under the radar, more for self amusement than anything else.
The “CHODE TO EXPLODE” technique.
I’ll come in like the normal nice dude, and when that shit hooks I’ll fucking pull her hair and bite her neck. Then say I am shy, and frazzle her brain.
So they go hand in hand I guess…