How to Build a Sex Life Out of Your Wildest Dreams

Posted February 9th, 2009 at 5:18 PM

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My game has had to turn into more of a 'smaller city social circle' game than ONS big city pull game. Glad to see that's just the nature of the beast in smaller cities.

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Posted February 9th, 2009 at 5:32 PM

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Great handling of situations. Great post. Cool.................

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Posted February 9th, 2009 at 5:53 PM

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I love you, Brad. Seriously. This is stuff is fresh and money. Thank you, I'll tell you how it goes.

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Posted February 9th, 2009 at 6:01 PM

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This is gold.

I'm going to use it immediatly.

Thanks!

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Posted February 9th, 2009 at 6:18 PM

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Dude I'd like more on stuff like this. Cause I have to game in a small town, witjh like 2 or 3 small bars..... More on this will be appreciated by a lot, I'm sure. In fact this one article just changed my whole perception.

Cheers dude!

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Posted February 9th, 2009 at 7:15 PM

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Great post man. This is one of the better posts I've seen on this forum. It's the more "normal" guy's approach to sexual abundance and definitely aimed at the non newbie. Thanks for this, I am in a settled location with a steady job and I felt the traditional approaches were just shitting where I ate. I'll try to cultivate this method more closely and take it slow but steady. Nice point about the parties at your place. I'll go for that. Awesome.

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Posted February 9th, 2009 at 7:27 PM

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Great post Brad. The after-party rules!

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Posted February 9th, 2009 at 7:37 PM

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O-G as fuck. Props!

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Posted February 9th, 2009 at 7:50 PM

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Brad, can you write an article about building a SNL type game?

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Posted February 9th, 2009 at 7:57 PM

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Rawl wrote:

Brad, can you write an article about building a SNL type game?

Don't worry... It's already prepped up, probably my next release... :)

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Posted February 9th, 2009 at 9:11 PM

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this post is just fuckin fantastic, i swear to god i somehow got into this mindset that i need to fuck them that night and forget about getting the #. Fuckin blindspot. I will try slower game.

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Posted February 9th, 2009 at 9:43 PM

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I'm living a very similar situation. The city I live is a small one compared to the big cities, and everytime I go out, you usually find the same girls you found past weekend. Also, most of the girls are local girls (not tourists). It's not like you don't have variety of girls, like an small town, but after a month or so, you may meet up again with a girl you previously gamed. So that what you're saying makes more sense to me in my particular situation. My experience is that much of the stuff you learn here for one night stands in big cities, works great in cases like ours (you still do cold approaches, same night makeouts, etc), but I think I must combine it, with social circle dynamics, which applies more when you live in smaller cities and you are not travelling a lot.
Brad... Is that your case also, that many of the girls you meet at your city, still live with their parents (so usually they have to be early 1-2 am back at home) ? What's yout approach in that cases?

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Posted February 9th, 2009 at 9:58 PM

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Lol. Wtf? Nice music video; good touch adding the goat. Enjoyed the article a lot as well.

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Posted February 9th, 2009 at 10:19 PM

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Hell yeah! Time to expand my social circle..

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 12:20 AM

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ReallityFactory, you need to get a car or find a wing with one... figuring transportation out is the easy part.

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 1:21 AM

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I've been doing this also as well with a ONS stand approach, great article!

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 1:55 AM

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You're absolutely right! I live in a small town, no wonder why every time I go out I see the same girls over and over again!!!
Magic!

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 2:06 AM

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namrobmal wrote:

Dude I'd like more on stuff like this. Cause I have to game in a small town, witjh like 2 or 3 small bars..... More on this will be appreciated by a lot, I'm sure. In fact this one article just changed my whole perception.

Cheers dude!

Same here, and seconded. MOAR PLZ!!!!

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 2:34 AM

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Good post. Quantity also breeds quality. I actually come from a place of abundance now. Girls realize I really dont give a fuck b/c either way I will be laying pipe that night whether it be that lucky girl or another one. I also love the way you turned your world into a funnel where fun and the girlies flow right in. A great model indeed!

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 3:03 AM

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Inspiring.
Got me excited.

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 3:15 AM

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curious, what was the population of your home city

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 4:13 AM

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This is what me and Kevin have been doing over the past few months. I'm so glad you put it in front of me. I fucking LOVED this post. Simple and strong.

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 5:38 AM

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BlackandBlue! wrote:

curious, what was the population of your home city

Thanks for the props guys... I like the input.

My home city was Milwaukee, WI. Probably about 700,000 in the city. Although, a much smaller group hit up the social/bar scene since there is a lot of blue collar/poverty in the area as well, and not a lot of travel from the surrounding suburbs...

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 6:22 AM

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Great post.

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 1:54 PM

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And I gave her and her friend plenty

Nice one man, Loving this if they like you, then it's all good right, If you blow the set each time you go out and they see you it's like you have the plague and they run away uh oh.

Best to keep it light and social and maybe max 10 mins interaction then boom next time they see you it's not as bad.

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 3:33 PM

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Good post

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 5:29 PM

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It's a good article.

On the other, flip side of things, what's BAD is if you try for SNL's every night, are SUPER aggressive, aaaand you live in a small city. Lawl. Then you see girls you have been epicly blown out by when you go out every night.

I like this though, because before I had thought that you need to be in a big city to be a hardcore pimp. So not true.

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 7:06 PM

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absolute MONEY on this post! Just settled into my new place, im gonna try that out immediately!

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 7:57 PM

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i'm moving to the bar district of my city in 2 months because that's exactly what i want to establish. brilliant guideline! that was exactly what was on my mind the last weeks. now i can add your experience. thanks!

new rsdn with these articles is so money!

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Posted February 10th, 2009 at 8:37 PM

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Just watched the instructional video. So basically you drop some GBH, sacrifice a goat by setting it aflame, and grab your own junk. Sweet! I'm already a third of the way to pimpdom. Seriously though, good stuff.

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Posted February 11th, 2009 at 12:28 AM

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lot's of value for me. thank you. i'm from a smaller city, a lot smaller than 700k, but still the same shit applies. invite out the girls, escalate, after party. great article. video needs some work though :)

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Posted February 11th, 2009 at 1:39 AM

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Just the post I was looking for. I remember talking to you about this on bootcamp. Much more relevant to my lifestyle than the 'burn every set to the ground' mentality.

Great stuff

Kamikaze!

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Posted February 11th, 2009 at 9:26 AM

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Really resonated with me. Thanks

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Posted February 11th, 2009 at 11:50 AM

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Awesome post Brad. Very abstract Vid too. Like it.

seals

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Posted February 11th, 2009 at 9:54 PM

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Wow, I know you didn't mention it but I'm sure this works wonders in college game too. It's all about the Snowball Effect

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Posted February 11th, 2009 at 10:59 PM

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Very cool, this is where I want to be at a year from now. MASSIVE social circle where I just throw parties with friends and have chicks show up ;)

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Posted February 12th, 2009 at 8:10 AM

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Good post. I'm experiencing the same thing in a relative small town. You get to meet the same people over and over again so you can game in a slow way. Not always rewarding, but in the long term you see the benefits. 'So this is your younger sister?'

Same thing in college game by the way. Over a longer period of time you get to know one other anyway. Good point dnasty. My experience in the big city is that's more one night stand based. The chance of running in to eachother again are slimmer, so it's better to do fast game there.

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Posted February 12th, 2009 at 9:09 AM

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haha dude, your video is confusing! By halfway i couldnt stop laughing then... there is a fucken goat... what the fuck. oh, of course, a goat.

tight writings mate.

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Posted February 12th, 2009 at 1:38 PM

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Word. Super useful info as I will be heading back to a small town shortly.

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Posted February 12th, 2009 at 6:42 PM

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slayer wrote:

Good post. Quantity also breeds quality. I actually come from a place of abundance now. Girls realize I really dont give a fuck b/c either way I will be laying pipe that night whether it be that lucky girl or another one. I also love the way you turned your world into a funnel where fun and the girlies flow right in. A great model indeed!

LOL. I can picture you saying that right now. Cackling, interupting whoever your talking to, fiendish grin, "The thing is..."

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Posted February 16th, 2009 at 9:01 PM

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Great insights.

There is too much focus on ONS (kind of ironic for me to say thia given what happened on our bootcamp back in December)! :-)

Great ideas on building a social circle.

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Posted July 16th, 2009 at 5:40 AM

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Papa wrote:

Lol. Wtf? Nice music video; good touch adding the goat. Enjoyed the article a lot as well.

Nice video?
I actually thot it was a prank
where i would scroll down afterwards and read,
"as if you watched that shit... chode"
i got halfway till i was like, this is definitely a joke

Papa,
forming a social circle,
ppl keep asking me if i'm an event promoter (not in a bad way lol)
should i say yes? and just see what happens

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Posted December 25th, 2009 at 11:45 PM

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Nice video lol. I always associated the community with one night stands when I first started...really not like that at all. Love it mate!

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Posted September 14th, 2010 at 5:14 AM

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IF any person want to change sex to wait at least one year before undergoing asex change . Sex changes are outlawed completely before the age of 18, and for those aged 18 to 20 parental consent must be obtained.

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Posted February 5th, 2011 at 11:39 PM

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Me and my boys in town have started doin this as well, and I HAD to re read this article.

This is great stuff, and something I needed to look over to reassure myself that I'm headin down the right path. In these situations, its not a sprint, but rather a marathon...and being patient is key. Be patient, but also keep moving it forward. These girls arent going anywhere soon.

I have about 6-7 solid girls that I know I can close soon enough, and create a nice little abudance situation. Yet every time I'm out, I can always find new girls. The options are huge.

Thanks brad.

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Posted September 30th, 2011 at 1:48 PM

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