Well it is officially my 2 year anniversary as a Real Social Dynamics Executive Coach.

It’s been a wild ride.

Teaching in over 26 countries, over 200 students, and getting with girls all over the world…

Life is good.

Oh!

Have you been to www.bradbranson.com yet?

I have been writing DAILY articles on the site for a few months now. Whether it be me writing about exercises and new theories that I teach on bootcamp, or various travel tips, or just the latest lay report, there’s a crazy level of information on there.

I have about 500 unique visitors per day lately, and it’s growing quick.

Think about how much you could benefit from being fully immersed into the DAILY life of an RSD instructor.

I literally have gone out over 1000 days in the last three years, and between the pimping I’ve been doing, and the number of bootcamps I’ve taught, I have pickup concepts and theories oozing out of every orifice of my body.

So come along for the ride, and let’s live the life in tandem.

www.Bradbranson.com

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I’ll be posting up a few of the past articles on here so you get a taste.

But the easier thing to do is check it out NOW, and be bombarded by thoughts and discussions from my delusionally awesome brain.

Here’s one from November 8th, 2010:

How Changing Your Beliefs Changes Your Emotions

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I’m on an inner game kick men. Let’s dig in.

In Awaken the Giant Within, Tony Robbins explains how there are three types of realities that create your belief structures.

1. Opinions

2. Beliefs

3. Convictions

Opinions are rather tenuous. This is due to the fact that you don’t have many reference experiences reinforcing them. If some experience or event makes you second-guess a given opinion, it can easily be changed.

A belief is much stronger and harder to change. You usually have many more reference experiences reinforcing a belief, and if you have strong emotions tied to an experience that holds up the belief, it becomes more resolute.

Convictions are even more powerful. These are the types of belief structures that cause someone to become a missionary, or a suicide bomber. The person holds a belief so strongly that it becomes a blanket reality where every action they take is filtered through this conviction.

Emotions and Beliefs

We are going to talk about beliefs here, and how emotions come into play.

Well, this is my interpretation, but emotions are visceral indicators that your body gives you when something in your environment tests a belief.



Let’s say you just broke up with your girlfriend. You feel pain. What is that pain associated with?

Many times, your identity is heavily tied into the relationship. You view yourself as a COUPLE, and you factor every action you take through the filter of how it relates to BOTH you and your relationship.

Also, it might be due to the possessiveness you feel towards the girl and how that gives your life meaning.

Whatever the cause, let’s try to figure out how we can overcome the strong emotional feelings you get after a break up, and how you can change sadness into MOTIVATION.

You need to first become conscious of the specific reasons for why there is an emotional pain, and realize what belief structures you have in place that create the emotional response.

Sometimes that ugly beast scarcity bubbles up and you feel that you won’t be able to find another girl like the one you lost, or maybe it’s just the emotional connection you had with her, and don’t think you’ll be able to find that with anyone else.

Well, that is most likely because you only have that one experience with her, and the emotions are always strong in a relationship, which intensifies the experience even more.

The more reference points you have, and the more emotions tied to the experience, the stronger the belief.

How many reference points do you have to the opposite? That there IS another girl out there that can give you those feelings?

Most likely none!

So how do we change this belief?



We must attribute more pain to you staying in that relationship, even if it is out of your control to stay in it anymore, than the pain you feel outside of the relationship.

Think of the scenarios that would happen if you were to stay in that relationship: the stifling you would have from not growing, not working on yourself.

Think about all the girls you met along your path to meeting that previous girl, and how that helped you grow into the man that was able to attract that girl.

Think about how much more you will be able to grow as you get back into putting your personality on the line every weekend. The introspection that goes along with pickup and self-actualization as a whole.

Try to meditate and create a visceral experience in your body as you start getting those successes again.

How great does it feel to pull a gorgeous girl at the end of the night?

Man, I’ve had some amazing experiences the last few weeks with girls, and I wish I could go back in time and tell my old self a year and a half ago, as I was getting out of a break up, that I would be having the crazy success I’ve been having lately.

Living the life I’m living, how none of it would have happened if I would have stayed with that girl.

I’m relishing in the moment, and reinforcing new beliefs now.

YOU have control over your beliefs and your emotions if you want to.

Start taking control and stop living life in reaction.

And as Tony says “Live with passion.” Haha…

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Cheers,
Brad