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How to Talk to Girls and Never Run Out of Things to Say

I have a deep-seated belief that when you approach a woman, WHAT YOU SAY has no bearing whatsoever in building attraction.

During boot camp we go through a lengthy discussion on why words don’t matter, and try to explain on as logical a level as possible why the words you use don’t mean SHIT!

So let’s make the list...
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Posted July 31st, 2009 at 4:47 PM
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Good article. I get great responses when I'm really passionate about what I'm talking about...
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Posted July 31st, 2009 at 4:48 PM
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That shit's brilliant! Nice article, Brad 
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Posted July 31st, 2009 at 4:58 PM
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You should also throw in there that making observations about things in the environment with your own unique description and interpretation are also a great way to draw a girl into your reality and get her reacting to you.  I'm sure that's something in the next article though.  Great read.
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Posted July 31st, 2009 at 5:20 PM
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Good excercise for # 3 & 4 is to pick intentionally boring topics and talk about them in a super enthusiastic way. Like talk about geometry or something but be SUPER into it.

"Dude, dodecahedrons are the fucking SHIT! I fucking LOVE dodecahedrons, yo!! Yo Dude. DUDE, do you love dodecahedrons as much as I do?? Cuz I LOVE me some motherfuking dodecahedrons!"

Get really worked up over it and actually LOVE dodecahedrons or whatever at that moment. Even though you're talking about boring ass geometry, chicks will be into it because you're excited about what you're talking about. Also cuz it's kinda retarded :)
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Posted July 31st, 2009 at 5:52 PM
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this is a really REALLY good article.

unpredictable conversation. she never knows what you might say and it excites her
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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 12:19 AM
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....and pump up the KINO!!!!!
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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 1:07 AM
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brad love you. nice article. vomit on them bitches
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The one reacting the most is the lower value person, and by you vomiting random words, you get her to react.

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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 1:22 AM
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Im working on this area of my game i like have nervousness repsonse like scratching my ear and  keep on changing positions.. this article helped me or may i say gave me more energy to work on that area of my GAme MOVE like a SEXgod to seduce is what i call it:D Thanks for the article:D
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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 2:02 AM
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KEEP THIS KOMMING! awsome action inspiration!
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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 3:05 AM
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nice mate

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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 7:32 AM
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i think actually its a belief where you run out things to say.
instead replace this negatif belief with i always know exactly what i need to say/ i have always fantastic conversations with women/ i am funny around woman etc etc..

its focking a belief!  i change the belief with eft, i talk to a nice strange woman 1 hour! normally i run out things to say after 3 minutes!
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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 12:37 PM
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what you say doesnt matter. BOOm. understood. greeeaaat article sir!

thanks
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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 1:13 PM
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I was talkin to a girl last night about how I burn macaroni and cheese when I cook it, lmao. Great stuff.
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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 1:59 PM
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Awesome post.  That just cemented that concept in my head a little bit more.  Its fun to see what ridiculous conversations you can get away with and still have the girl interested.  As long as you have passion, she will be interested. 

Thanks Brad-
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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 2:39 PM
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My feet are two different sizes. Cementing concepts that I am learning on my bootcamp as we speak.. rest times.  
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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 5:15 PM
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this is the shytttttt, bookmarked, is one of my fav articles
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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 6:05 PM
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Yesterday i had a 20 minute conversation with a brunette cutie at JC Penny.... about Nordstrom having too many mirrors... you CAN really say anything as long as you Freaking believe it!
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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 6:55 PM
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So: Don't become a pickup-NERD. Have other interests and activities as well.
This is what I am experiencing right now. When all you do is reading and thinking pickup and female sexuality, you miss out on what is going on. But there's gotta be the time to restructure your mind. Well, I need more balance.
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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 8:10 PM
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but why is there a picture of jesus though?
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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 8:37 PM
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Tons of value here Brad - Thanks so much for offering this... Let me know if you ever need a place to crash here in hollywood..

-Nick 
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Posted August 1st, 2009 at 9:16 PM
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I loved this....really good stuff.
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Posted August 2nd, 2009 at 4:15 AM
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.thanks for the great info..
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Posted August 2nd, 2009 at 6:24 AM
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I fell off that wagon...bro, you're a lifesaver.
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Posted August 2nd, 2009 at 9:36 AM
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This is great because it's exactly what I'm doing right now. Just talking about random stuff that pops into my head.

Last night I was describing what it was like to drive the car to the club. A few minutes into this I find out the girl doesn't even speak finnish. She was smiling all the time though :)
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Posted August 2nd, 2009 at 1:18 PM
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yea one time i had this girl, who literally stopped talking, and i though i got blown out so i walked away, later that night she comes over so fucking dominant, sits on my lap and sort of cuddles with me just to get a picture taken, all i need to do was grab her face and make out with her and she would pulled me to her car or something and fucked ME, not me fucking her. but with all me genius i go back over and talk to her which pisses her the fuck off and then im really blown out
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Posted August 3rd, 2009 at 8:03 AM
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GREAT FUCKEN POST. You can litteraly talk about what ever you like reguardless of what logistics say.  What you feel she feels.  I can talk about the in n out burger i ate and how good it was and that can lead to an "OMG i love in n out dont you love their fries..." ETC any thing can lead to anything as long as your expressing yourself and really having an authentic conversation.  The big  thing on your post is you said girls dont think logically and their convo interest is sooo broad you could possibly talk about how you hate when you sharpen pencils and they brake and you goto stand there sharpening them forever (haha). GREAT POST BRO this really confirmed a lot of stuff for me!
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Posted August 3rd, 2009 at 12:53 PM
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vomit words :)
lower the bar...? lets get rid of the dam bar ;) haha
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Posted August 3rd, 2009 at 7:16 PM
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Rockavon wrote:
Yes what you say doesn't matter, but having stuff to say DOES matter.



Well said that man
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Posted August 4th, 2009 at 2:05 AM
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Agreed
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Posted August 4th, 2009 at 12:53 PM
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  This gum is nasty,I've got 29 more to go before I can buy a new pack,

What?...Don't interrupt me when I'm talking to myself. My friends and I where just talking about how
You can't go t'o a bar nowadays without some sex predator hiting on you I'm just here to play pool
and go home a better player........
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Posted August 4th, 2009 at 1:18 PM
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Rockavon wrote:
Brad,

I hope you will excuse me for not worshipping your post with a 2 sentence reply of glorious acceptance but I do have something to say here. You may remember a post I posted on RSD needing to talk more about having more to say way back. I was vastly understood by most in that thread.

What RSD needs to do is come up with more drills and idea's on how to free flow or rap conversation out of this free spirited vibe that you are talking about and that RSD talks about. Knowing you can say whatever does not automatically make you full of spunk and full of topics and words. We are talking to strangers. Authenticity is great but small talk that is not boring is sometimes an art. It's not about what to say, it's about finding a core nitch in how to teach everyone universal drills and tactics to be able to rap spontaneously with strangers.

So for example a drill like:

When you go into a store pick out the first thing you see and make an observation about it and then tie it in to how you feel about things like that and maybe spin a role play off of it.

You guys need to get creative and come up with new teaching material man and stop being lazy. You want to be the best in this business? Time to step it up a notch. The word association drill where you pick out a random word and spin off of it. Different generic and universal personality techniques. Yes what you say doesn't matter, but having stuff to say DOES matter.



Yeah...  Umm...  Wait for the next article beyatches...
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Posted August 4th, 2009 at 7:26 PM
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King article. Love it.

But Brad .. sometimes I've gotten girls to basically fuck me only through text messaging.
So words gotta have some meaning to it? :p
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Posted August 5th, 2009 at 2:32 PM
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yeah, it is all about pirates and vikings.
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Posted August 6th, 2009 at 3:19 AM
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awesome stuff brad! the way you wrote it was very simple and clear.
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Posted August 6th, 2009 at 11:17 AM
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 Is this "vomit technique" also applicable to getting to know people in a more chill/warm college setting during the day or just for going out and cold approaching?
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Posted August 8th, 2009 at 9:38 PM
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Great article espc loved the part about unreactivity explained clearely and concisely. Can't wait for part 2!
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Posted August 10th, 2009 at 8:53 PM
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Why do we want to talk to strangers again? I've just completely lost the plot nowadays
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Posted August 11th, 2009 at 5:31 PM
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Thanks for the article.
Also, I love your quick makeout video in Youtube. Perfect example of what natural game and "emotional non-dependance on the girl" are.
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Posted August 14th, 2009 at 5:41 AM
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Spacemonkey wrote:
u said on mastermind not to talk about philosophy. I know what u mean by that now. .

err just wondering what's so bad about talking philosophy with women? i do it all the time. <__<
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Posted September 3rd, 2009 at 10:51 AM
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It is glorious, awesome topic to talk about, how people interact. Got my own brazilian cockblocker girl now:)
Love that country, cheers for the article.
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Posted December 26th, 2009 at 4:18 PM
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What rockavon said really resonated with me.  I stil struggle with getting stuck in my head and running out of things to talk about and I definitely believe I do have things to talk about.  The girls I've had success with were always the ones who were better than me at being spontaneous.  I have lots to say, but I need to be triggered I guess.  I haven't been really good at vomiting without something to run with and I can't expect every girl to be really outgoing lead the conversation.  That's not enough. 

Practice is one thing that does help of course.  I do find I can perform better when I've been talking a lot with lots of different people on a given night.  I don't know where it comes from, but its been said its there in all of us and I have seen this for sure.  I have tried to read up on what Rockavon was saying as far as drills to help get better at being creative and improvising.  This stuff I've read hasn't been as applicable to pick up as I imagined.  I would like to see an RSD spin on this stuff as well. 

Cheers, I loved the article.
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Posted June 3rd, 2010 at 12:30 AM
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great article
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