Super helpful Brad.

I like how it relates to both face to face interactions and text interactions.

Its almost odd to say, but it is hard to 'chode down' somewhat when your autopilot starts running at such a high value setting constantly. Especially when its been ingrained and internalised so hard. Its almost scary if thats the right word, to chode down. It used to be scary and crazy to go the other way and go in all beastmode and intense. as you say, its that fine balance

Also liking the recent concepts of late of almost going full circle back to just being a straight up cool, normal dude without filtersand just owning who your are.

Great job. Thanks.

Key to text game: independence from outcome. Do whatever. Whenever. However you want. Just be sure to be non-reactive. There's no reason your not enough.

6th!

Boo Ya

When you explained the difference in value, it actually cliqued very well with me
thanks

solid advice.
I think that was a great hint that Todd pointed out in his last video. You gauge your response dependent on her emotional level. How does she perceive you. Does she still perceive you as high value?
You can see and feel it in they way she is responding. I tend to draw-out my texting and it's pretty successful that way, but it isn't a technique. It's just my personality. Generally I'm lazy regarding this topic and I'm also busy most of the times. So, I don't like phoning or texting, not even with my friends. For me texting is just a tool to set a meet-up. When I can't get a meet-up with the girl that day, I don't see any point in texting back and forth. Especially when we didn't hit the bedroom yet. When you let her wait longer on your response, she start to build more anticipation. She tend to get unsure of herself. Is this guy really into me? Why he isn't responding? Remember the times when you text a girl and she doesn't respond right away and you start to freak out? That's the way how she feels when you're doing this.

Assuming value and beeing enough is an awesome mindset that every guy should internalize, but you still have to convey this value to a girl. And this happens more subtle, in the way how you carry yourself and in the way you treat her. So, I tend to text a girl once a day. Sometimes I respond after five minutes. There is no really an one size fits all solution to this. You just have to use your common sense and your intuition. This comes with experience. There are guys who like to use phone and texting for building sexual tension. I think this can be very powerful too, when you know what you are doing. Take Julien for example how he is texting with his girls. I think it's pretty impressive. I tend to make it more simple, less is more for me. But that's just a personal trait.

I jump on this topic here because I've met the girl that I've approached on the street two weeks ago. The girl that I was hitting on during heavy snowfalls. She was really, really hot. Perfect body, long hair, blue eyes going to an artschool, you get the picture. Actually the type of girl I'm only dating once in a while at my current stage. I've noticed how she was a little different when we texted before the date. Every time she felt validated her texting became sloppy. So, I responded in shorter messages, used bad spelling and got sloppy with the use of capital and small initial letters. In english you write almost everything with small letters, but in other countries you start many words with capital letters. When you write only in short letters it comes off as cocky and almost uninterested. Like you just don't care, the mindset that you should have anyways. But let's get real, every time you text back and forth with a girl you are in some way or the other emotional invested.

I fucked it up with the girl, I've tried to kiss her on the date twice. She refused and I've texted her that she was too young for me anyways. It was just a coffee date, maybe I should have take it more slowly and should have try to make a transition for a second date. Maybe it was reactive because she was so hot. But I don't know, I don't like this keep-it-cool-and-let-us-have-three-dates-to-end-up-nowhere-with-it-attitude. I think when it's on, it's on. I like fast escalation. 

So, big lesson when dealing with hot girls. DON'T VALIDATE HER!, that's what Tyler says^^

PS: FUCK pitty phone numbers, get your initial interaction solid.

This was not very helpful, would love to see more on text game.

By not making excuses like "I'm always traveling." 

Brad- Good video, I have a 9 that I talk to somewhat regularly (she's in another country now) and the first time I messaged her she replied right away. I did the whole 'wait a while and message back' thing but I actually forgot to message her. When I eventually replied to her she just never responded. Not only did I seem too high value, but I realized that she was now in question if I was interested and didn't want to come off needy to me. I had to wait until Valentines day and sent her a message with a music video in it and told her it was in case she didn't get a Valentine. Now we're good, but it was a long recovery time. 

QFT hahahah

Wish if i saw ur video earlier

Just ruined the last number i got from day game, girl was hot and she was my type loves the same venues i go to at night and partying, texted her few times then i stopped responding for a day and a half thinking it would be cool to show abundance, but she stopped responding, i was demonstrating too high value to the point where she got disinterested

Too much high value= bad

No need to play games like responding ages later to make urself look cool, some girls can sense ur bullshit

I don't call to girls, I text only to ask them for a meeting. and sometimes if they start text me none sance I don't replay. even they start to ask  questions like , how old are you ?  where do you come from ?  , then I don't replay, if i want to meet her, the same girl, I  starting text her by excuseing my self  that I wasn't replaying her because i don't do conversation through out the sms, and then I continu deliver my interest which is proposing her , if a girl text me to ask me because she want to meet me, I am also replaying, if she asks for a cup of coffee or wanna  hung out or for any meeting,  I replay properly . weather I can, or i can not.

it is safe, it is pease, it's effective, text game is bull shit. trust me I was there ;)

how do you know that  it's because of you stop texting she stoped? did she told you. ? 

I used to get irritated when girls would bitch about my text response time.  Now i appreciate their bitch because it helpe me filter them out.  I like the idea that the time it takes you to respond to their text resembles how important they are to you.  
Time and effort is worth investing if you really like the girl.  I used to hate texting with a passion, especially when she would text me all day but never talk on the phone.  
I am very interested on how you work on your public speaking.  I heard that recording yourself and then listening to it helps.  I think I sound so retarted when I listen to a recording of myself, and I'm sure I am not alone.
Gotta get to it.  Screw it let's do it!

Good video... and thanks for the shout.

guys, tip a bout texting:  be misterious at the begininng and tell her u won't judge her for being a sex freak, after which she will let it out and start saying shit like she wants to fuck u (if she of cause is a freak)