Blanco62525's Blog

 
I was in the library today studying for an exam, and a cute girl sat down a few desks from me. At first I didn't think anything of it, but about an hour in I realized that I should go talk to her. I put it off for about another hour before I finally just couldn't study anymore, I was too busy talking shit to myself because I hadn't already made my way over there.

I went over as boldly/calmly as possible asked if she still had a lot of studying to do? And it was too late she'd just finished up, I realized this before she even said anything. But I continued to ask her if she wanted to grab a coffee anyways and she seemed to be regretful that she couldn't (Her ride was waiting for her outside). I went back to my seat and packed my stuff up to go get a cup of coffee and we ended up walking out of the library at the same time. Had a little bit of a conversation as we walked down the stairs and it was going well, but I didn't push for a number or anything, and proceeded to walk into a locked door as we were exiting the building. She was telling the truth about her ride, which I was kind of shocked about.

I don't have the best game in the world because I've never really put myself out there. I'm 21 years old and I've never had a relationship. I'm over it and putting my best foot forward. This story may seem like nothing to some of you people, but it was a big step for me. I figure as long as I keep talking to girls and working on being a better person, I'll get it down.

- Blanco
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Laaavish

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Join Date: 10/30/2007 | Posts: 306

gotta start somewhere right. keep pushing that comfort level
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hawkfan

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Join Date: 09/19/2011 | Posts: 8

 Hey man I was in the exact same position at age 21, no relationships, infrequent run ins with women. Now, after four years of consistent effort, many girls and even more funny moments (aka rejections) everything clicked. Its an amazing ride getting your feet under you and will boos Like Laaavish said, its all about pushing your own boundries. Make a fool of yourself and just laugh. Play it like a video game and just restart and play again till you can beat the video game with ease. Things will pick up for you quick if you take some risks, dont be scared to show youre interested and read some on here. Dont get too deep into the advanced, get good at the basics.
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