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THE FOLLOWING TEXT IS SOMETHING I WROTE ON ANOTHER FORUM.  IT WAS AN IDEA I HAD AND I JUST WANTED TO SHARE IT HERE TO GET SOME FEEDBACK AND SHARE SOME INSIGHT.

You cannot control what reaction a woman has towards you approaching her. Stop thinking what you say has an impact off the rip, and stop trying to control her emotions and her decision toward your approach.

Literally, once you do your part and approach, you pass the ball in her court. That is where you let HER decide. Stop trying to control her reactions toward your approach because you can't and if you try then you just look like an insecure, controlling jackass.

How simple is that!?

All you need to concern yourself with is YOUR part to make it happen:

1. Approach/introduce yourself to girl
2. State your intent
3. Close

Everything else is up to her to decide. Your words don't mean anything. Stop putting pressur eon what you say or how you approach and just worry about those three things because she will take the rest from there because if your clear in your intentions the BALL WILL BE IN HER COURT and not yours. All you need to do is concern yourself with those three things. Don't worry about what to say or how to say it and stop worrying about where or how to approach because her decision is HER decision.

Stp trying to control EVERYTHING. Meeting women is easy once you realize how simple it is and you stop trying to control everything. You cannot control her decision so stop trying to control it! Just approach and state your intent and the rest is in her court!

Inexperienced guys want to control everything because they think it has an impact, but in reality the reason they are rejected is largely to do with THE GIRL and her issues, not yours. Her "issues" are largely issues of not being prepared for your approach. If she was prepared then it wouldn't be that awkward to her nor would she hesitate to react in a way she feels comfortable with. Guys often get rejected not because of their looks but also because of the woman's issues with social conditioning and her being prepared to react. In other words, if you approach a girl and she feels uncomfortable and rejects you then who's problem was that really? Yours or hers? Hers... because the ball was in her court after you approached and thus it was her turn to bounce the ball back. If she has an issue with you bouncing th eball in her direction then THAT IS HER PROBLEM and HER issues.
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