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Barry White
 
Challenge finished (last FR nothing interesting.. only a kiss close and an almost bathroom pull avoided by the bartender :D lol)

stats:
4 pull = 2 fcloses + 2 LMR

& lessons for the future and for the next 30dc which starts today.

1. going out 7d/7 it is not a good idea. mainly because some days are waste of time and money and some days is good to be in shape to sarge. --> this months I'll only go out thursday/friday and saturday. and saturday and sunday afternoon for day game.

2. some venues are waste of time and money. this month I'll sarge in venues who lead to lays.
in my case
- PUBS/ANIMATED BARS/CLUBS
- SALSA/LATIN BARS
- single sets on DAY GAME: mainly coffeshops and parks


avoid going nowhere conversations in quiet bars or going out during the week... too much "hahaha but no"-sets
thursday , friday and satuday game has to be agressive and risky. no bullshit.


3. filter shy/insecure girls early... go for fun/extroverted/openminded girl. MY GAME SHOULD NATURALLY FILTER COOL GIRLS.

4. in the field ONLY BE FOCUSED ON

- follow the game plan (approaching, don't spend too much and intelligent logistics)
- having fun / enjoying the interactions
- show intent and burn the interaction to the ground
- voice, smile, eye contact, posture and be zen

5. build a social circle. Not to pickup girl inside de social circle. but to know people for going out and have fun.
days to build ecosystem: SUN,MON,TUE,WED. quiet bars, after works and salsa bars (during the week) are good venues to num close in a friendly way.
SUNDAY & TUESDAY -> only networking. go out early, go home early.
then BE PROACTIVE with the social cercle.
- invite people to go out
- invite people home
- restaurants 1/week. SOCIALLY.


6. GAME NEAR HOME.

7. more discipline at work

8. DISCIPLINE ON SPORT / SLEEP AND EAT.

9. CLEAN ROOM. BE PREPARED FOR PULLING.

10. PRESENCE!!! -> GO OUT READY TO PICK UP A 10. NOT LOOKING LIKE A HOMELESS PERSON HOPING TO PICK UP A FATTY.
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#1
sub5tance

sub5tance

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Join Date: 02/05/2009 | Posts: 95

Haha just HAD to respond to this one - I simply don't agree with it. Insofar as I have met plenty of tall guys (6'2 or taller) who have TERRIBLE body language and vibe about them. i.e. really unconfident and unassertive, un-coordinated and awkward. There are also LOADS of examples of short, cool Alpha Males (who are not dicators). Think Tom Cruise (5'7). Think Rod Stewart (5'8?).  I don't think it makes much difference, honestly. If it is true that taller guys have a better self image/confidence (which I don't think is true) ... then the same could be said for good looking or buff smaller guys. Or guys with good personality. Or guys who just love themselves anyway.

Admittedly I am only about 5'7 - 5'8 myself LOL

Just my opinion, though ...
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#2

Full_intent~

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Join Date: 03/28/2009 | Posts: 1261

Are you seriously thinking this?

Damnit it just hurts my head..
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Kahlua

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Join Date: 05/05/2011 | Posts: 914

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