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 so.. over the last week i went out 4 times. made out with 4 girls(3 in one night, 1 in another, and none in the two that's left) didn't take any numbers and didn't have sex in a few months.
but i'm ok.. me not having sex is something that i can accept(i'll get laid when my game gets better/when i date older women - which i haven't done in a while) and still there is something that really pisses me off(mostly with people i used to be in touch wih when i was less socialy accepted than today) and it is the fact that although i tried to be physical and social in my sets, girls still reacted to me as if i was a stalker or the wierd kid i used to be back at the days.. and the funny part of this story is that some of them actually started dancing with me and hugging me and laughing with me as long as they didn't know who i am - because of the lights in their faces and the night... - but the minute they saw my face their reaction has become bitchie at once. now, i'm not an ugly guy and some girls will even say i'm hot so it's not my appearance that turns them off, my social behavior and my approaches works with girls who aren't from that social group and i know that when they get to know the real me they will understand i'm cool and all but how do i get a whole group change their prespective over me? and it's a big question cause even when you start a conversation with a random girl in order for her to feel good around you she needs the get your deal without feeling intmidated and it needs to be quick so how do i do that? now, some of you will might say stuff about eye contact and being direct but you must understand that i'm talking about girls that will shut you down in seconds. so i'll be glad to hear from anyone who can help me with my problem. i'm not looking for a magical solution or a magical "move" i'm looking for an indicator that will might help me understand what am i doing wrong with those bitchie girls i used to know in high-school(for me, it's a matter of ego and not attraction).

now, looking at my first night out(a party in the city far from all of those girls i used to know in high scool) by being intouched with my desire for having fun, dancing, singing and approaching ever girl i see just because it's funny i managed to make out with 3 diffirent girls(one of them had a boyfriend and that's the only reason i didn't fucked her in the bushes) and to have the night of my life. those are the kind of nights i want to have when i'm going out and i want to achieve those without a single drop of alcohol in my throat.

so i got a few conclusions from this week and i'de like to share them with you guys..
1. always heard the instructors in rsd talking about the beast mode - experienced it only few times in my life but when it came this week it was amazing. i coul'd do what ever i wanted to do and it was cool and i'm talking crazy shit so do whatever you got to do in order to get into that mode.
2. in the first night i didn't let any heart me or take me of my balance and the results were amazing(for me) in opposite to the thierd night and the results are talking for themselves.
3. if someone can answer my question in the comments it would be great(i'll try it and write about it next week).

sorry for my english this week i'm having a writer's block ;) have a great week
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Join Date: 05/27/2013 | Posts: 1

Let me ask you a question... Would you prefer eat a bite of each steak which each have a different flavour... or would you rather eat a hole steak with all the flavour and juicy texture? your problem is that you are satisfied with only taking girls out... but you never seal the deal... you masturebate at home and then you lose the erge to get laid... well you dont lose it by 100% but you lose enough percentage to not want it badly enough to get it... my point is that you should get to the point that all you wanna do is get laid, dont masturebate for a month, dont date stupid ass girls and get the hunger for a woman's body up against yours.(best feeling ever u and I both know...) my other point is that you should focus on one girl, and develop feelings for her and love her and cherish her and all of the pluses that comes with a relationship will come as well but they wont matter to you as much because you have that one special girl you love and cherish.
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Join Date: 04/27/2013 | Posts: 12

 ok david just listen to me this time, because i won't repeat it again. i'm not looking for a girlfriend so stop picking on me with that bullshit. i would have never show you that blog if i knew that is your reaction. i have a plan and a goal, i want to get as good as i can with girls(because i enjoy doing it and because i want to) and i don't want to spend my time over girls who make me feel like i'm locked up in a bad relationship. sex is nothing but bonus and it wouldn't worth nothing if i didn't get it by myself.. should i remind you the fact that each and every one of the girls i fucked came from cold approach while the only girls you fucked came from your social group? so.. the day you fuck a girl on the night you knew her.. the satisfaction you'll feel.. talk to me later 
dumbass! sex is not my prime goal 
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Join Date: 12/11/2012 | Posts: 6


why the fuck are you on a forum about game telling someone trying to learn game to choose one girl when the truth of the matter is that there is a QUASIABSURD abundance of beautiful, magical women in the world?


barbur, good shit--keep at it. don't focus on the girl's reaction, keep the focus on yourself.
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