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Okay let try to evaluate yesterday...
This is what happend when you evict negativity from your life and all the RSD stuff kick in.

It started with my bombshell drivers instructor. I played it cool and focused on being an
attentive and polite student. I want my licence dammit! :)

Anyway she seems to like me since I'm funny attentive and polite.

Later that day I called up the girl I was going to meet for the concert that day.
It was more of a city party lasting from wenedsday too sunday with concerts blended in,
with one concert in particular that was the main attraction that day.

She had earlier been kind of ambivalent about if she could go and she told me to call her later since
she hadn't money on her phone. A legit thing since I know that the excuses she gave for this was real.
She then told me she was available to be called before 11 and after 4.
I reasoned that calling before would create a situation with her having several hour with
unpredictable information streaming in messing up whatever info I got earlier so I called some while after 4.
That and the fact that calling so early in the morning for a meetup, seems kinda desperate.

So I called and she told me that she would be with some of her friends some cafe at 7 and she wondered
if I knew it. I said no not really. She then tried to explain to me where it was.
I knew the surrounding area and told her I probably knew the one she meant.
She didn't give up and tried to make sure I knew where it was. :)
I told her that my buddy who I was to meet at 6 probably knew where it was.
She then tried to name all the surrounding shops so I was sure to find it.
I told her that "Gee you have the whole area mapped out, havn't you?"
She giggled and told me that she was only trying to help me!

Later I went down to the town with the party.
I was half an hour late and called my buddy that it I found was still home sleeping.
I thought I was late. I told him to meet me at the place and that we would meet the girl
that he also knows. He has a girlfriend so he is almost safe as he was a big player before.

I walk around and enjoy the party having cake and stuff, chatting up the cake selling ladies and such.
When the time arrives I walk over to the place maybe 10 min late, I actually found it before
so I was sure that I didn't have to sweat finding the location, but could show up exactly when it pleased me.

She and my buddy had already arrived and was chatting.
I sat next to her and she seemed delighted that I had arrived, however I had to do a little match of
who gets the girls attention with my buddy since she was a bit into talking to him when I arrived.
That was solved with fooling around and escalating touch with her until it got to a level he couldn't
follow unless he wanted serious trouble with his girlfriend.

Anyway her sister soon arrived and my buddy got engaged in going for her attention instead.
He brought her over to some jumping contest by some gym marketing campaign.
That left me and her alone! Perfect! :)

We bought icecream and talked about light stuff. When we had ice cream I looked at her eyes
then her lips and bit my own lip slighly. She liked that and she made some similar gesture back.
Now of course her sister and my buddy had to come back and ruin further progress in that area.
However her sister wants me too, so she pointed out that we had icecream together in a half
teasing, half bitter tone.

I continued light touching and she did some light touching back.
I then touched her hair and commeted on a flower she had in it, didn't she use it at so and so occation,
she looked down very coyly and replied that yes she did.
She then replied that it matched her bra.

After a little while some of her friends that I have never met arrived and we where introduced.
I talked a little with some of them and in the process she stood up and went to bathroom or something.
When she came back she wasn't able to sit next to me because people had moved around.
I didn't care and kept and kept chatting with this guy about work stuff.
I then started joking with her sister, who really enjoyed the attention.

After a little while she left with her friends for food. But more likely to discuss their impression of me.
I just had that feeling. Her sister and my buddy stayed.
We kept talking and some other people we knew came and went.
She eventually came back and asked me if I could give her, her purse.
I did the thing with grabbing the purse almost giving it to her, before I changed
my mind and said you know this is a nice purse, I think I'll keep it.
We all laughed and I gave it too her.

She then told me she was to go somewhere with her friends. I said okay thinking she would be back.
She didn't come back... What I realized from watching the people who was left with me was that
they was watching me to see how I reacted to her departure.
Funny stuff!
So I did a totally chill, couldn't give a shit if she wasn't there.
I joked around, and stuff and when the concert started I enjoyed it in full.
Her sister was obviously watching me to see how I reacted, but my buddy acted weird too so I couldn't
rule him out either. And then her mother showed up too. XD
Oh boy...
Now I have met her mother before so it wasn't that weird or anything.
But I quickly got the impression that this was some massive test.

So I took a page out of Sun Tzu and started to feed my subverted buddy false info.
When he told me we should find the girl in question, I did a bona fide attempt to find her from a vantage point
and then proclaimed, who cares where she is. She is a big girl! Now lets watch the concert and have some fun.
I then just lost myself in the music and had a good time.

Then my buddy had to leave for no apparent reason... Hmmm....
And they put me in a very weird situation where only her mother was available to speak to since all kinds of
people I had never met occupied the sister.
I just chitchatted and threw in some, I wonder where my buddy went.
I then told her I was going back to the cafe and she and the sister followed.

She was still nowhere to be found, and I talked calmly to the sister who was trying to change
the convo to be about the "lost" sister and me no giving a damn.
Soon she claimed to have found out that her location was at some bar a block away.
I was in no hurry to go there, but I decided to brace myself for the worst possible scenario
and told the sister that I was unsure that I would join them at the bar. I talked about
being sleepy, and not wanting to miss a bus.

She conviced me to come over to the bar, but I told her that if I had to pay too much in the door I would not
enter since I was concidering leaving soon anyway.
In the middle of this this "uncle" person appeared that seem to have some close relationship with the mother.
This underscored the test hypotesis. I remembered that some other super chode buddy of mine had told me how she had attracted a lot of questionable boyfriends in the past and had, had her hearth broken and stuff like that.
In fact that buddy gave me her attraction blueprint unknowingly by talking about the poor girl with all the bad

Anyway I befriended the uncle character over a beer we was soon on our way to "find" her.
We saw her trough some security fence and she told us that we had to come in.
I told her the already established truth that I relly couldn't because of the bus you see... XD
She was standing on the other side of that fence puppy eyed and lovely, breaking everyones hearth
but mine and lo and behold I got an offer by my buddy who hadn't had anything to drink to drive me home.

So we entered and went trough a bit of back and forth with where to sit.
It seemed like her friends was disenchanted with me and her for some reason.
I didn't give a damn and just enjoyed myself, while she weighted the pros and cons of
being openly intimate with her. After a some while I walked by her and she held out her hand, I grabbed
it and she put my arm around her neck. I obliged and sat down besides her.
However it didn't last long before she had to go somewhere. So I just chilled there with her friends.
I tried to chat them up, but they was now a bit more difficult to be around than earlier.
Almost standoffish. I suspect that one of the guys who was with one of her girlfriends had hopes
of getting with her. As both he and she was next to me and not really talking to me. All the others at the table
was embroiled in some other convo. I excused myself and went to find my buddy.

On my way trough a door she appears and walks towards me very seductively.
So I think what the hell. I pick her up while she giggles and scquems and moves her behind me
like she was some object in my path I had to move and then walks on. Got a nice feel of that soft
fine ass of her. =D

I find my buddy and he tells me it is time to leave for that ride. I walk up to her and give her a kiss on the cheek
and walk out with her watching me longingly.

I think I might risk getting myself a girlfriend now.
Oh well we have to see what happens later.
The night was perfect no doubt

Acctually I don't give a damn if I get her or not.
That is up to her really. If she want's her friends chode best friend I can't stop her.
However I highly doubt if she can think about anything else than me after that night.
RSD rocks!

Thanks Alex and Crew for comming to Norway and introducing me to this life.
Thanks to Tyler for making RSD in the first place.

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