So these last days I've been running wild.
There is a lot of reasons for this, but at bottom is my new negativity reset.
Now it is of course no be all end all.
But it really have made a difference.
Now in addition to this I've explored more neutral ways of getting myself to take action.
Neutral you say? Yes cause if you need to go to a positive or negative
frequency to get shit done, you will burn yourself out on anger or idealism.
The fullfillment of getting shit done gets you so positive anyway.
So don't worry about your state.
I got the idea from the done manifesto.http://www.brepettis.com/blog/2009/3/3/the-cult-of-done-manifesto.html
The general gist of it is.
You have not knowing, taking action (knowing is implied in action), done and more.
This is very simple and that is why it works, you don't have to be a scientist to get it.
You do and when you are done you do some more so that you can get that done etc.
You have a goal and just start moving.
So yesterday I was out and it was great.
I went to this english.spanish language exchange, we had great conversations
and then went to a careokebar. I was just in the mix, being social and having fun.
One great moment for me was when I was talking to this guy and was on the topic of escalating with women. Then this girl came along that I've talked to earlier in the night.
She wanted to know what the topic was.
The guy who I was talking to where like oh shit...
I took in stride and set a frame.
We are having an intellectual conversation. SHe was very intrigued by this and I introduced it
quickly as the science of the mating dance. And it is as I was talking about desmond morris work. Then I used her handy precence as a tool to demonstrate what I was talking about.
Taking it one step furter than I normal would.
At the end off the night she came up to me and gave me her card. xD
And there two "cool" Spanish guys where hovering around having spent all night trying to find a way to get her, and here she just walked right up to me instead with contact info.
Now I had some good interactions with some of the other girls from the exchange too.
I've realized that the important thing for me is to not choose any one girl.
Let them wonder by themself who is my favorite.
A lot of them tried to put themself in situations to get me talking to them.
Some succeeded and some did not.
Then some spanish guys started to occupy me. I was like sure you want to talk?
Then lets talk. And I had pretty long interesting conversations with them.
The thing about having to "occupy" me is that you have to agree with the topic of my choice.
Like I will talk about whatever floats my boat and if you want to leave, well fine...
You can kinda see the desperation in their eyes when you pick a topic that is pretty
incompatible with their type, and they know that they have to stay with you or else
they are not doing their job as a "wingman". But occupying me doesn't work if the girls actually wants to talk with me. Cause then the girls only grow more desperate and try to inject themself whenever possible. It is kinda wild right now, compared to what I'm used to.
But it is very good for my self-image I guess. xD
Btw this is a social setting so everyone is kinda assumed to be able to talk to anyone else.
It isn't like a bar full of strangers.