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This as controversial and it is true

Society requires leaders to function, being a Man means leading your family and before you can lead your family you have to lead your girl or rather future wife, mother of your kids. Behind every strong woman there is a strong man. I have adapted simple obedience laws to relationship management. Warning this may not be aligned to your current rule book and thus may cause offence to the prudish.
Where there is no vision, the people perish.
~Proverbs 29:18What Is Girlfriend/Target Leadership Training for Obedience Purposes?
I, like most of us believe that girlfriend/target training for obedience is taboo and an essential ingredient in any healthy relationship. But what exactly is girlfriend obedience training, and why is it so important for you and your girlfriend/target?

Obedience is NOT ownership – It is your expectance of future behavior. This happens naturally and in an uncontrolled manner during the foundation stages of a relationship. What I draw attention to is how many successful leaders cultivate obedience by aligning rules books and setting the laws that command the interaction.
Obedience training can be achieved through the many various techniques such as response training, positive reinforcement, marker training, collar and leash, reward training etc.). Regardless of which training technique you choose to employ this is what proper girlfriend/target obedience training should accomplish:

1. Build or strengthen a close, healthy and appropriate relationship between you and your girlfriend.
2. Opens up a clear line of communication between you and your girl. This includes you knowing what to expect of your girl in all circumstances, and your girlfriend/target clearly understanding and respecting what is expected of her. 3. Girlfriend Training for Obedience lays down a set of rules or boundaries which educates your girl to become a responsible member of society. Including how to relate to other girlfriends or targets, basic manners and how to behave in any situation.
4. Establishes the groundwork which assists in preventing the development of unacceptable problem behavior - such as fighting, shouting, unproductive jealously etc
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Example is not the main thing in influencing others, it is the only thing.
~Albert SchweitzerThe Benefits
Leading is the only thing she or society will actually respond to in a real way and thus will strengthen your grip on your life.

Successful training makes life simple to your girlfriend/target and eliminates confusion. They will know there place in your world and understand right from wrong. People seem to really appreciate and thrive on this black and white view of the world. Giving them a box to play in. This sets a frame work for the relationship similar to a employment contract. (example:this is what I expect from you and in return I will)
Fun and rewarding for both you and your girlfriend - for me, this is what it's all about!
You'll have a happy, relaxed and confident partner who you can take anywhere and will be a pleasure to be around. Greater freedom can also be extended to your girlfriend/target, as you both will have a deep and trustworthy connection once you are both trained.
You gain trust and mutual respect with your girlfriend as she understands what is expected of her and knows that you will always be fair and consistent with this.
When your girlfriend/target is trained in obedience she will be fine around family, friends and not act in an undesired manner.’ bringing a girl home to meet your mother’
Training fulfills some crucial needs in your relationship including exercise, mental stimulation, spending time with you and providing your girlfriend role in the relationship equal to your own.
Greatly reduces the risk of being locked in a dominance struggle with your girlfriend/target. You'll be her strong and always fair leader, who she'll respect and look to for guidance.

The Danger in Not Giving
• It is a common trait for untrained girlfriend to challenge your leadership or authority. But when you are proficient in obedience training you'll have the tools to deal with it.

If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.
~John Quincy Adams

General Rules and Tools• Praise and reward your girlfriend/target when she does what you ask of her, give an appropriate correction when she doesn't do what she has been taught to do. The key is to find the right balance for your girlfriend/target. Your basic push pull should not end at the pickup.
Don't expect your girlfriend/target to just know this stuff straight away. Repetition of the command and the action is crucial. Believe in what you are doing and stick to it.
Always be consistent (this includes everybody who rolls with you and your girlfriend), make it easy for your girlfriend/target. Give them a simple decision to make and make it clear to them whose choice is acceptable and which choice is unacceptable - provide instant feedback.
Never correct or punish your girlfriend/target for not doing something she has not been properly taught to do - be realistic and fair.
Create a system of punishment in stages if she decides to break the rules and enforce this system without hesitation as you both need to know where you stand,
Take it slow, master one easy command to start with then move on and build upon it. Continue to mentally challenge and stimulate your girlfriend/target throughout the training process. This can be incorporated into your routines as stories to be indirect however once you are congruent with your rules simply present them direct. Such as ‘if you start acting all weird calling me ten times a day that is breaking the rules (insert the future punishment as a warning here) I don’t accept that kind of behavior and (insert punishment system here)
This is not meant to be playful as with other tools, this is a solid base for her to set foundations and understanding the rules of your world is explicit to that aim.
You're the best person to perform these tasks. Your girlfriend has to live with you, your family and friends which are now her pack and you must be the person she looks to for leadership and who she respects most. Her Pack Leader. She is not the Pack Leader, You are.
The led must not be compelled; they must be able to choose their own leader.
~Albert Einstein• Test or proof the obedience commands in different situations, environment and with added distractions. You can either avoid the tricky situation or have tools to deal with them. If you require you girl to act in a certain way do not assume she knows how to act you must indicate to her and test in field, reward good behavior and give feedback.
Incorporate obedience training into your daily routine - your girlfriend/target could perform a task before you give her something she wants or needs this could be as simple as dinner or a toothpaste cap to Sex, love or affection.
Never try to correct your girlfriend/target for past transgressions, if you don't catch them in the act of doing wrong, timing your correction is all important. A late correction only confuses and doesn't make anchor in the present. They will backward rationalize the correction to make sense in a comfortable way to them. Not to the rules which you set.
Find out what motivates your girlfriend/target, this will be an important tool in your training sessions. The Pandora stuff can help with that from Vin DiCarlo or ask her.
Work with the natural drives and instincts of your girlfriend - this will explained further within the articles below.
Men are required to be leaders, Leaders’ are required to lead.
~Me
‘Leadership should be born out of the understanding of the needs of those who would be affected by it.’
~Marian Anderson
‘The very essence of leadership is its purpose. And the purpose of leadership is to accomplish a task. That is what leadership does–and what it does is more important than what it is or how it works.’
~Colonel Dandridge M. Malone
Where there is no vision, the people perish.
~Proverbs 29:18
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Join Date: 12/21/2011 | Posts: 179

good stuff. is there a part 2?
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