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So after work, me and a co-worker went to a local bar to have some beers along with a long time friend. Good times, we talk about different shit and then me, and how I am trying to become this ultimate pick-up artist. Changing up my lifestyle as far as nearly everything goes, going out every week, being more social, being unapologetic for my desires in women, etc. It's a slow process but the benefits are very rewarding....or so I hear and I believe that. But anyway, we up there chilling and there's hot chicks really and if they are, they are with some dude. So one of my friends Jared goes and starts macking on the waitress. He getting in good with her, but I notice his body language is kind of needy like. He's leaning in too much. I mean I am far from being where I want to be at with women, so I'm no expert...however I just noticed this when I saw their interaction. Then she starts gaming me, saying I look like her ex. I was like girl please, I'm not your ex and I'm much cooler than him. She shows me a pic of him and I say wow, what'd you ever see in him?! She makes up so stuff. She is talking to me from a distance and goes on to say that I am scared of her. I laugh and pull out on of Jeffy's old lines. "Girl do you know who the fuck I am?! I'm Shawn and I ain't scared of shit" so then I tell her, authoritively, come sit over here(motioning next to me) and she does it. On the inside I'm laughing because I kind of couldn't believe I did that. When she sat down, I asked her if she was scared. She said no, and then I say look me in the eye. So we have a stare down, and she can't hold it. She gets up and I say I win. As the night goes on I notice all the other guys gaming her and I laugh. She works there, and unless they got solid game...they don't stand a chance. She's there to make guys come out to the bar...dressed up with a mini skirt and black tights and all. So I look over at them and just smile. And then they go outside. I think eventually I may want something with one of the chicks working there, BUT since I plan on being a regular like every Monday or Tuesday, I can take my sweet old time, gaming them. Building massive comfort by telling stories and building rapport. And of course building attraction by touching them and breaking rapport. Big Ben will be my second home. I need to start shooting the shit with other people there too. Build that solid social proof so when I get a date with a chick, i'll suggest there and everybody will be coming up like hey Shawn, Shawn is the shit, and stuff like that. It all starts with me though. And it all starts with me getting over the approach anxiety. The fear of the approach must DIE. FOREVER!
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#1
tycho!

tycho!

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Join Date: 06/07/2008 | Posts: 463

 hired help man. I've gone out with way too many waitresses. And redheads, actually.

There is this thick wall. Like, it's easy to get 80% attraction, because they want tips, but then there's this REALLY FUCKING THICK WALL just past that. It's ridiculously hard to get through, like you gotta tell her what to do and stuff. Good luck though
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The Awaker

The Awaker

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Join Date: 03/21/2011 | Posts: 77

I see I see. Yeah, I'm not going to expect anything then. I'm just going to use those waitress girls as practice for socializing. Thanks man.
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