This weekend I was invited to the beach by a male friend of mine who brought along two mutual female friends. We had some fun and what's not, dry humping in the water and just doing random shit. With the things that were going on I had to ask "don't you have boyfriends", to which they replied "yes". I'm wondering why they would do such things since one is even engaged to be married at the end of the year. Another point, as we were leaving they asked me to buy them a drink ( referring to what Americans would call soda ) , which I didn't do since I was beating around the bush. They eventually bought drinks themselves and we walked to our friend's house ( he had left earlier) where they asked me again to buy a drink. This time I replied with, I don't have any money. The reason I refuse to buy them drinks is because it seems to me that they're about using men and I personally refuse to be used. If a male friend or a girl who I consider just a friend( as in I don't want sex etc ) had asked I would've bought the damn drink. Was my behavior appropriate?. I also felt weird walking next to them since they are attractive and I was getting stared down. Some men also started making passes at them as we walked up and again I felt weird, I didn't curse the guys are anything (although I felt like reacting aggressively I decided against it).
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