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I just read an article of a PU Coach about how after traveling for an year and doing hundreds of cold approaches, all her had to show for it was 2 long term friends. Everyone else were just acquaintances. The way to stability and emotionally satisfying relationships is through creating a social circle and meeting people through that. Meeting people who have similar interests as you. I'm in a college, which is a great way to meet people. I was fortunate to have gotten int oa social circle last year, and now all my long term friends are from there... I don't keep in touch with them as much as I should, but they really are my familty away from home. The people I can count on, the people who know me.

For a while, I kept thinking that I should cold approach and make better friends. But that was just an escape because I don't like confrontation. I should talk to this girl right now and I should re-connect with all the friends I've made in the past year, despite that they're not perfect. Don't get with the losers, but re-connect with everyone. Real friends are precious, they're like my support network. I met NONE of them thru cold approach. Cold approach is only good for exercising social muscles. My goal in this is to network and bright the right people together so it improves my life and theirs. So I can experience the love and connection and truly understand them.

It's not about validation or sex, it's about connecting with the person in front of me. I'm not going to play the superficial game. My goal for this semester to make as many long-term, meaningful relationships as I can, and to have a girlfriend that I love.

- The One
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