Haven't been out much since last week's report. Some crazy stuff has happened in-between. But nothing to get over it like a Friday night in the Bay with Alphawolf.
Lessons from last week: when I go in, must look for calibration after the hook.
Was picked up by two finance guys at 6 pm and headed over to a 'Google happy hour'. Was just joking around with them, it looked like an older crowd, nothing I really wanted. They got beers, and I got Sprite & H20!
One of the guys, who is actually good went to see his new wife, and the other one asks me if I've read The Game. He's having a bad night or a nube, not sure. But he's cool, so decide to take him along.
To show him, open up some older woman: Bla bla bla. huggs. High fives! Then she pokes my hand like it's an iphone screen, she got the phone in one hand and the high fives motion mixed up! Hilarious. Group hugs. And now I have the opener of wonder for the evening. "High Fives?!!!" Waaait, I think I forgot the password". haha. the high fives number pad routine.
See a curvy older woman across the room sitting like a zen monk. Go over, open strong "How's the meditation" or something. Her: Did I steal your place Me: yeah, I hate you. Let's meditate. I actually really wanted to meditate for like 30 secs at this point, so make her shut up while I zone out. lol. She won't tell me about her. Me: what's awesome about you. Her: well, what's not awesome? Me: "Really?" and turn away shaking my head. This chick doesn't know that she does need to qualify herself to me. haha. I get a few texts and calls and she pretends to text next to me or something. Call her a text Nazzi, use the high fives number pad on her. Then I feel the energy flagging, so ask her for her age. She's like wtf. I calmly look into her eyes, and tell her, "listen, I think you're cute and don't want to get the "I’m too old for you thing. Do you want to go out sometime?" and give her the disapproving side smile. She's like "actually yes, would love to. I say, OK, what ya up to Monday? she's like "it's open" so I grab her number and bounce out of that part of the bar.
Chat with nube and get him into a set.
Then a cute chick shows up in my line of vision! Im in like Slim. Turns out she isn't drinking as well, and is a real person. Hit it off really well. Tuesday slot: taken!
Alphawolf texts me, and we bounce to another place. The three of us. All is gone well, I'm feeling the wave! Having nube around may have helped me, not sure :)
The real night:
Nube and I start to talk game etc. Alphawolf correctly ask us to talk about something else as we eat.
Start hitting up sets left and right. Hot chicks everywhere. I have no hesitation on the approach. Guys don't exist to me. Here are some highlights in semi-chronological order:
I go in a bit rough into one set with the wolf. He ejects and I stay in. When we meet afterwards, he says I made it weird, like I let the energy drop too much. Then I realize a central tennet of my game. Throw weird shit out there and just sit there like it's normal. It's only weird if I react. I don't, so they must love me... or something. ;\
In a bar, wolf wants to get some wine, There is an older (early thirties blondie) chick next to him who I think is super curvy in the right places. Go in say hi. She tries to pawn me off to an ugly chick next to her. I call her on it. The wolf leaves (he was between them) and I pivot to his place with my back to the bar. They are stools facing the bar and me. I’m locked in. The wolf comes back. I feel like sitting on blond chick's lap… and do so without warning. She's giggling and giving the weirded-out face. I don't react the wolf is seeing the awkwardness again. I don't care. and call myself out on it. something like "Dude I guess I now have a lap warmer dog" In other words I calibrated it. She love me, and we vibe on professional stuff. She is super smart, and offers to help out my best friend, who is stuck in Africa sans visa learning the ropes of the insurance industry. When we leave the wolf says: dude, you know you could have pulled her" I hadn't even thought of it... and wanted her for the contact and like her as a person. Plus, the night is young. Onwards!
Next club, see the tallest and hottest chick close to the door with a guy a bit shorter than me (I’m 6'5"), but probably a hundred pounds heavier. Very pumped. I go in strong. She says I don't speak English well in a German accent. I retort "Na denn, wo kommst du her?" and give her the grin. She's like "warte, bist du deutscher" I'm like wadda you think? Turns out the guy doesn't do anything when I speak in German. He can't follow. We chat normal stuff for 2 mins. And I number close. Date Thursday.
Get solid meetings set up with other 8s and 9s for the rest of the week, and doubble book Wednesday and Thursday for good measure.
The wolf starts to dorp off an edge, and asks me to push him. I'm walking infront of 6 ripped guys and 6 party girls taking apicsure slowly and making gangster signs Just don't care. They say we don't want you in the pic. I pirouette and blurt "I'm sexy, and you know it" LMFAO style.
So to get the wolf back in state, I get him to go into what looks like an impossible set: I think 6 guys lined up, 4 on one side, 2 on the other, with a blonde chick in white leaning on the wall in the center of what formed a "V". I would have just gone in and grabbed her out. She was arm in arm with one of the guys, but not too engaged. Easy Peasy. The wolf goes in, and stays in. I glide to the outside of the V, and observe. There are now 6 guys looking on as the wolf just sits there asking the chick some stupid shit. But since they aren't doing it, he looks so awesome! Into the lion's denn. Turns out they are all pupps. Not sure how it ended, but he stayed in there at least 5 mins. awesome! Told me later he wouldn't have done it unless pushed. Here's to the push!
Best set was at another bar, the wolf tell me some instructions, which I thought pertained to a two set right behind him... so don't know what he's talking about when he goes around the bar to another set of girls. Asks the bar tender for water, and opens with something. I saunter over there. He has them both engaged, and I don't want to blow him out, so just chill back wtih the circle of chodes that are forming, waiting to see if he needs me. Go to the bathroom, and come back. I think wtf, I'm bored, so go in on the other side. There are like 8 guys standing in a semicircle 5' from the four of us facing the bar. Well, the chicks seated facing the bar, and me and the wolf on either side facing into the chicks. They are actually super hot - 9s. One guy way more buffed out than me and the same height, sporting a duchabag haircut says he needs to get into the bar to get a drink where the wolf is. So the wolf sidles in between the two girls, and keeps talking. Duche goes to the bar, and doesn't order anything, just sits there bummed. He now has the better position to game the wolf's girl, but the wolf never skipped a beat with his chick so there is no opening. Duche eclipsed. He then goes over to ask me about gaming with him. another night maybe, but I'm with wolf tonight, so give him the weird eyes. Girls love it when you do this to other people. While all this has been happening on the periphery, we've been keeping on conversations wtih these chicks, who I find out are from Brazil. They start talking Portuguese and cracking up, and we make the weird face to each other, like they are weird They then explain something about an animal with claws, which we take as them putting their claws on us. The wolf has named one of them 'polly want something else than a cracker'. good stuff. We each number close one. Turns out I came in just in time to make the contact switch smooth for him. clean. done. Date Wednesday or something.
Driving back to drop me off at my place, the wold sport s two set... so we screech to a hald a few hundred feet down the screet, and I run to get them. He says I have to be chill and ask them the way... to your place! He comes slowly behind, I just hope he didn't dich me. I use his opener. Chicks are cute. nothing special. They hook, of course, and we chat lightly about directions and them looking likebandits or somehting. I don't feel like I went in there hard enought with that opener though. only give them huggs, but it doesn't feel like the claw. So can't pull them. Oh well. good times.
Get back to my place. It's 3 am. I have been sleeping with a chick down the hallway from me, and she's out for the weekend. ding ding ding ding!
Her room-mate, who is barely over 5 feet, has d-cups or somehting, has been super friendly for a while. I think, why not? they are roomies, they can share something else! :)
So I grab fresh protection and knock on her door. She opens after a minute. I say we need to cuddle. Only cuddle. She's like no... wait yes, ok. After 10 seconds in her bed, I'm hot, so get her to take off my pants and shirt. We cuddle and kiss, and she tells me about promising her roomie that she wouldn't jump me. I just frame control. Five minutes later, as she's bouncing up and down, happy as can be, she's like " I can't believe I promised my roomie. I'm like "It's ok, it's just cuddling" as I fondle her nipples and make her ghasp. She retorts: "hey, do you know the difference between Silicone and Saline?"
Lessons: 1) Older chicks talk too much
2) We are Rockstars
3) Next time out, do more takeaways after the hard hooks
4) and stop talking sometimes to let them work to fill the void created after I make any (not so) profound statement