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Join Date: 09/21/2012 | Posts: 201

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Animus

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Join Date: 09/21/2012 | Posts: 201

ROOTCAMP!!
It was kinda hard to retrieve lessons just from hanging out with you guys. It's not like the hotseat where the intructor breaks everything down and tells you what to focus on. Luckily I have been into NIM for some time so learned this:
-Chill, Slow down
-Approach less, be humanistic, view girls as human beings
-Be emotional not systematic
-Don't think. Trust your instincts and that what you ahve read/heard about NIM will come out naturally (this ties with not being systematic)
-Stop taking pickup so seriously, go do other stuff (Going out should be a way to blow off steam and have fun)
-Waste time. You are NOT going into the club to be productive by approaching and trying to "self improve/get better at pickup"
-Be a bit more animated (move around a bit when talking to girls)
-When going up to a girl, view it as a 10 hour interaction, not a 10 second one where you try to be impressive
-Have fun with your buddies, Don't care about girls or getting laid.
-Being centered=monopolising your emotions. Having a baseline chilled vibe and not being affected by your surroundings (drama, tests,...)
-I saw a big difference between my interactions and your...the girls are gaming you, looking for you ("where's Alex, where's Alex"), initiating physicality
-Precations when travelling: Let the really drunk guys give the most sober guys his wallet, passport, phone.
-Create the party (remember how all the people looked at us in the club while we were having so much fun)
-It's all good. No worries
-There's no reason why I am not enough. There's no big difference between you and me (besides my massive dick). Everyone is naturally attractive and has the potention to have superhuman social skills.
-Fastest way to set is patience and taking it slow. (Learned this one from the pull in Finland)
-Document your adventures. Not in a nerdy way like field reports...but in a much more fun way: Photos, videos.
-Be less intense with arousal. I noticed that sometimes I would rush arousal (I love you, I hate you) and end up being too intense. Rather chill and "boring" than make the girl defensive and lose a "set"
Damn, it took me a while to "relive" the awesomeness of the trip.
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