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 Game is your ability to connect and be social and to relate to other human beings.  It is your ability to unappologetically be your best self and share it with others. It is your ability to unearth and communicate and share the best, most dynamic exciting, fun, lighthearted, open, relaxed, carefree, part of yourself to the world and to yourself, AND invite others to do the same.  Inspirational results not manipulation results. So "game" isnt actually being able to GET good reactons, but to communicate the best in ourselves, the joy in ourselves and invite others to do the same. With good "game" you are making the world a better place. Your social self is an altruistic thing.
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Join Date: 09/21/2012 | Posts: 201

 Game is about what you can give out into the world, the genuine joy of the moment on of being with each other that you can produce and help others bring out in themselves.
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 Game is about what you can give out into the world, the genuine joy of the moment on of being with each other that you can produce and help others bring out in themselves.
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 Being social is about making yourself available.  IT is about feeling that you belong, and that there is a shared feeling of connectedness, not seperateness. The more you try to become impresive, james bond cool pickup man of absolute value, the more you seperate yourself from othersm the more you close yourself off, the more lonely you feel, and the colder you are. Being aloof, dis interested is merely protection and defensiveness, not giving the opportunity to be vulnerable, not giving an inch where others can fault you. So even if you get girls you'll be too stuck up your own ass to really connect and enjoy her.

New paradigm is not of being important and "acting confident and high value" but relazinf down in the mud, enjoying the feeling of belonging to the same demofraphic. Having genuine friendship being warm open and light hearted. Not trying to "win the frame battle of status, and unreactivity, coming from a confrontational view lacking empathy, but rather a social view of sharing in a common enjoyment, affection, empathy , connection and friendship.
its about togetherness rather than out doing the other in terms of value.
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 Just kinda feeling that you belong with everyone. You share the same tribe. and its awesome. 
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 Not a feeling of other. but of us.   US.
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Like Life is a shared party.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=ZpAQnU_yBHU#!  Like the vibe at the beginning of this video.
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