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Masculine polarity is a really deep concept, so I'll break it down as thoroughly as i can.

Women can draw their emotions off the environment and feel good. But for a man, drawing his emotions off feminine energy is unsustainable, and he will always feel unfulfilled and empty when going that route.

As a man, the only thing that's going to bring you fulfillment is your own initiative.

It's called being on your path. You need to become your own sole source of validation, and find joy in taking action. In life, that means finding your purpose and living by your values on a daily basis. When it comes to pimpin, it means having a criteria for success completely independent of the girl's responses.

Anytime you're reaching for an outcome, you are out of sync with your power as a man. You are drawing your emotions off the environment, instead of finding fulfillment in your own actions.

Go for what you want, but let go of the outcome. Find joy in the fact that you're acting on your intent.

From a practical standpoint, when you're in a nightclub, build momentum off your intent. Disregard the outcome, and enjoy the process of simply socializing and meeting new people. As you continue approaching off the intent to socialize, your emotions will elevate, not from reactions, but from your initiative. That's how you draw state from within, and implement masculine polarity into your game.  Trent3Reznor
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fsally

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This a really fucking good blog post. Good stuff man. Keep up with the good work.

Faisal.
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rob10304

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 Got it in a nutshell!

Nice post man, keep it up.

Rpb
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gembel

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nice post bro
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this is an awesome article..thanks
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plain and simple cool bro
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Nizz

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 Great post!

One question for ya, though..

David Deida argues that both men and women have masculine and feminine polarities. He also says that if you have a lot of masculine polarity and a little feminine polarity, you will attract women with the opposite (a lot of feminine polarity and little masculine). My question is... Why are people then talking about balancing one's polarities? Is the best division 50/50? And what would this mean - everybody would be attracted by everybody? 

I think i might have gotten all this polarity-stuff wrong. Which books should i read to gain a better understanding of it?
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Hart63

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He's a bit preachy, though, and his dad is nasty when he gets angry.
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