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 Make Yourself Strong. Do it relentlessly. Thats the focus. To make yourself strong. Makeyourself more connected to life more adapted, more at home, by adopting views of connectedness, positivity, doing what inspires you, be inspired, learn to enjoy other people, build friendships. Anythig that brings you closer to appreciation of life, and other people and feeling genuine warmth for life and other people everyday youre alive is getting further along the path. Trying to buikd yourself up and be more pimp and more pimp and more ability and be impressive makes yo very alone, insecure, cold, and weird. So fuck being cool. Be warm, and fun. Genuinely. Its easy to get caught up in being cool especially if you go to the club a lot. haha . Its really convincing too that thats what gets you girls and gets you friends because youre high status. But that shit doesnt work in real life. You make no connections being a "pimp" all the time. 

Dont get caught up in it.

Know its bullshit when girls front that. 

Refuse to play into it because you know thats just not the proper way to live your life.

And be warm, friendly, open, and genuinely appreciate the person youre talking to.
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Join Date: 09/21/2012 | Posts: 201

 No man is an island. Let people in.
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Animus

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Join Date: 09/21/2012 | Posts: 201

 As you walk the journey, youre going to continually see whre youre weak. So youre going to have to find ways to solve that. And maybe it wont take you where you expected and it wont gel with your ideas of "how it should be"
But that "how it should be" is a paradigm of your old, mal adjusted identity , habits and ways of thinking.

ie ou have no friends, or sshitty social life, but you wanna be the tough man and not admit that youre lonely and enjoy hanging out with people. your " how it should be" is that of someone who is independent, doesnt need others to be fulfilled, and can "do his own thing" and dont NEED to feel belonging. But fuck that. Its not true, and it makes you lonely, anti social, and because of your idealism and stubborness to see the truth isnt what you hoped it would be, you remain alone, aloof, and with no connections and the humily to just enjoy being with people and take comfort in it because you want "core confidence"  

So you dont NEED other people to give you a certain status or confidence but you NEED other people to feel belonging, connectedness and the ability to give and be open. To express these part of yourself. Otherwise you grow bitter, and closed off, not being able to relate. 
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Join Date: 11/06/2012 | Posts: 2

friendly, open, and genuinely appreciate the person youre talking to.




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