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Much like my other outer game thread, I'm on a bit of a crusade. I think RSD is a fucking amazing thing and a great part of my life, but let's be frank. It often gets diluted with esoteric inner game hyperbole... and for alot of the newbies/recovering chodes/AFCs... before they can "figure out their true identity" or whatever it is, they need to GET OUT IN THE FIELD AND START MEETING GIRLS. And run SOLID game. So I'm hoping that me, and a few others can begin infusing some solid outer game techniques and thoughts for RSD to counter-balance the excellent, if sometimes saturated inner game of this site we all love. Anyway... let's start. Btw... this is just my opinion on these things... feel free to disagree.

1) "THERE ARE CERTAIN TIMES WHICH I SHOULD NOT ASK FOR THE NUMBER"
Always, always, ALWAYS ask for the number. It requires balls, gives you another chance with the girl, and makes you develop an almost "SPIDEY-SENSE" when you DO want to get a certain girl. I remember when I was younger (in like high school and all that), I used to be scared to ask for a girl's number, and wouldn't know the right time, nor context in which I should ask for a girl's number. By implementing the mentality that you will always, always ask for the number, you will develop the skills to not have to worry about this. Lastly on this point... I don't mean you should/need to ask for a girl's number if you haven't even gotten her NAME, or have only spoken for like 30 seconds... I'm just saying if you're into attraction phase or farther... GET THAT GIRLS FUCKING NUMBER.

2) "I LOOK LIKE A FAGGOT IF I'M NOT IN SET WITHIN THE FIRST 5-10 MINS. (ESPECIALLY IF I'M SOLO) - I.E. MY SOCIAL VALUE GETS COMPROMISED"

Look man. Alot of newbies/chodes/AFCs get the idea that when MM or RSD say that if you are "choding around" the venue (i.e., not in set, sitting at the bar), that you're "diminishing your social value" and all that shit. Now it IS true that it makes it POSSIBLY a little harder to open CERTAIN sets if they see you by yourself, but ultimately that's bullshit/nonsense. Listen close. YOU ARE THE SOCIAL VALUE. YOU ALWAYS HAVE VALUE. YOU NEVER LOSE OR GAIN IT ULTIMATELY. Why? Because you are ultimately UNIQUE and INTERESTING no matter what. And girls can see that, given the right circumstances. Oh and BY THE WAY. Whether you know it or not 'cause you're not calibrated to recognize the signs... GIRLS ARE CHECKING YOU OUT. Now I've never met you in person, and maybe you are what is considered classically "ugly", but that means fucking NOTHING. Nothing. Women are attracted to BEHAVIORAL/SOCIAL cues much more than PHYSICAL ones. Remember that... so chicks ARE checking you out... and if you are comfortable in yourself, and just know you COULD get these bitches... you're fine. They'll get wet. So what does that mean? If you feel the need to come into the venue and chill for a minute, get a drink, watch the 4th quarter of your team on the flat screen... wait for your crew, whatever that's FINE. Just don't get in your head, and make sure that you have a good 3-5 sets by the end of the night. It's a sprint, not a marathon... you can start the race in 4th and end in 1st.

3) "IT'S OKAY TO BE IN A NEWLY OPENED SET FOR 30 SECONDS OR LESS, AND THEN EJECT"
Do you want to get good at this game or what man? A HEALTHY, FLAMING, UNDYING "PLOWING MENTALITY" is one of the KEYS to success in this game. You *need* to recognize that. Sometimes a chick would LOVE you if she gave you a chance, she just doesn't know it yet... so the way to do it is keep conveying ways of your personality... which is means KEEP PLOWING. From a practical standpoint that means... You should not be in a set for less than 30-60 seconds. I can't stand when I tell a guy to open a set and he comes back after like 10 seconds like... "Man she wasn't feeling me, or she blew me off"... that's nonsense. Keep plowing... doing a jig. Tell a joke. It will exercise your brain and hopefully get you a second shot. It is NOT okay to open a set for just one ore two words.

4) "IT IS BAD TO OPEN/BE OPENED BY A DUDE"
This is of course, idiocy... if you are talking to a dude, (at least a stranger one) at least you are putting yourself through the experience of talking to a new person... not to mention, many of the topics and "small talk" nature of your conversation will overlap... now don't chode around and talk to some guy you're smoking a cigarette with for an extended period of time, but in general... it IS cool to open dudes, meet them (possible wingman)... and it can be fun.

5) "IF YOU ARE CHODING, DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES, DRINK"
Now this is going to be very controversial, but let me be frank man... I am more concerned with YOU guys getting girls and OPENING SETS than if you are drinking, or getting your "deep identity level" change. AS LONG AS YOU ARE OPENING SETS, MEETING PEOPLE, AND ENJOYING YOURSELF... YOU, AT LEAST FOR NOW, ARE ALLOWED TO DRINK TO YOUR HEART'S CONTENT. Just be sure to learn the game, understand that it is VERY likely that your state will flunctuate ALOT more; and you may DRINK your way out of some (has happened) BUT... it DOES help you get the BALLS to OPEN A SET... which to me, TRUMPS ALL PUA/INNER GAME THEORY. That's why we're here. So man, if you're out tonight and you're fucked, and you're like... man a drink would help. TAKE THAT SHIT. Just be sure to OPEN A SET immediately after, or during it. That's all you need.

Hope this helps, and I'm sure that last one should get some interesting responses lol. Peace and love
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