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I haven't seen him in years. 6 years, to be exact. The last time we met we were in Ottawa with our parents, and I just returned back to see him after graduating from college in the summer of 2004.

Back then we got along, although now memories are starting to come back about our childhood and whatnot.

My first impression when I saw him was happiness. What a long time! I then noticed his clothes and his overall appearance and I knew that I had to help him get out of his shell. I made it a mission to be an inspiration for him about how to live life, etc.

The first day went great - we settled down and the next day we went to the mall to get him a makeover. In between I demo'd some sets and he was really impressed. This is basic chit chat and we got some high school girl's FB contacts, etc. He was blown away. At night we went out and I demo'd night game. Honestly I was really tired having been out 12 hours already prior and not having rested. I gamed regularly without too much zest and he was really happy. I basically got a few girls to pose with him and give him numbers (that later flaked, but it wasn't solid rapport game to begin with).

Today after 5 days, I can say that I love my bro, but there are certain things about him that I can't stand. I've come to the realization that I can accept him for who he is, and that we will inherently have some difference in personality and what not.

This is also a test for me when I hangout with chodes. By chodes, I don't mean Jeffy's pickup chodes that don't know how to talk to girls. I mean chodes as in guys who haven't really challenged themselves in life and are somewhat behind the social learning curve. I don't care if a guy can't talk to girls. I know this problem can be solved in time. But what about the other issues regarding life? I will list here some of the things I have found out about my brother (or rediscovered, in many cases). And I associated feelings for him. Unfortunately and perhaps it is embarassing almost for me to say, in some of these cases I couldn't control my emotions! I just remember feeling annoyed and angry and then dissapointed.

We'll call my bro J for simplicity. J greeted me and had a whole plan for me. He's a litte cheesy. He imitates Ali G in his fake gangster vocals and also his movemetns are a littlie choppy. He hunches his back a lot and stares at the floor. His thoughts patterns are very negative, always blaming himself for everything. We uncovered this in the first day and I taught him a few things I learned about him. He's very cheap, and pays with coins all the time and tips very little. Normally I don't have a problem with this, but after writing him a 600 USD check he's still complaining to me that the leather jacket I bought for him at Zara for 105 is too expensive. He obsesses over money. I figured out that he did this because he never made his own and always spent dad's allowance. He told me his stories after I digged a little deeper - he tried looking for a job but failed. How hard did you try?, I asked. "not very hard", he said. He told me about his life and how he was depressed. Why I said? I understood his situation but not his thought patterns. To me, I always saw the world as a place I can conquer. I someone says I'm fucked up, I tell them they're the ones that are fucked up. Then I'll sometimes re-evaluate and in certain cases admit I'm an asshole. But most of the time, I sincerely do believe that they are the ones that are messed up.

My bro thinks differently. He lives in a huge house with a nice old Chines landlord. His roommates are Chinese students or guys in the 30s, 40s who don't speak English. He says rent is cheap and its saving lots of money. He spent the last year in Vancouver not really doing anything except eat, sleep, play games and watch anime. He has a belly the size of a bull frog, with my frame, which means it looks really werid. He smells bad and isn't careful with Hygene. I taught him a few things and he listned at first, but by day 4-5 he's already shifting back to his old habits. I just shake my head and try not to get angry. He's always lost. Forgets things, and I'm come to notice that he isn't very smart. This is a bad thing to say, but he's a little slow, mentally. I don't mean retarded, but, he makes lots of mistakes. He forgets where he parks all the time, forgets to bring keys, incorrectly plans Jan as 30 days intead of 31 days, obssesses over coupones online that he has to use, and incorrectly asssesses a lot of situations.

These things don't bother me as much. What bothers me the most is his limiting beliefs. He doesn't think its possible to date a girl righta way, he thinks making friends is hard in vancouver, he thinks things will be easier in taiwan, etc. He always doubts himself when its someone elses fault. This guy was being a dick at the retail store and I called his manager, and my bro just keeps apologizing. I said no, he shouldnt be apologizing, The guy was being a dick for asking him to change clothes again when he could easily scan them with them on so that the makeover look can stay on my little bro.

On the positive side, bro does take care of me and plans very carefully for me, when he can. He cooks and makes sure I'm fed and have all the things I need (toiletrees, food, water, towels, etc) He's one of those risk averse people, meaning he sees all the worst things that can happen in any given situation, so I supposed he's good in certain emergency situations or as a lawyer. He's shy and timid and comes across as a young boy, (even though he's 25). In certain situations girls and people give him a huge break because they think that's he's just a shy dude. I think Canadians are way more forgiving and nicer than Americans btw.

I was super angry with him day 2-3 and now, after day 5 I have slowly started to accept that, should he decide to change his life, it will take sometime. I wish him the best and I will do my best to impart with him what I can.

Nonetheless, I wanted to write this post as catharsis. I love my little bro, and sometimes I'm angry at him too. I like my alone time and although I always wished I had a cool bro like myself who became best friends with me, at least I have a brother.

Thoughts, similar experiences, suggestions for the last 2-3 days welcome!

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Today I experienced strong vibe. A good, really good vibe. I went to a club in gym clothes and girls stood next to us waiting for us to open them. Saw old friends from salsa and old friends in general.

I haven't felt this way in a while. Good vibe creates a good energy and you no longer need to do cold approaches like a robot. Other people gravitate towards you.

How to generate this vibe:
1. Be around other cool guys
2. Have good conversation
3. All 2-3 of you should have strong body language, and genuinely like each other
4. You're just happy to see everyone and alpha at the same time. The perfect combination of WARM + ALPHA 
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I am letting some of my old numbers go. I know my text game isn't' the greatest, but I thought it would be fun to post it here. Some of my girls are ridiculously cute and I have just recently started actually getting replies from 9s and 10 non Asian girls, thanks to DJ Fuji's training and personal developments from myself.

Here goes. Enjoy.

HB Mixed Asian girl at SF I met, number closed in 2 minutes had to run after that
Me: R. Big Dick
HB: Thank u
Me: Lol
HB: are you from boston
Me: went to school there never changed my number
Me: Find me on FB
[mistake, non compliance]
Me:Is it weird I dont like Asian girls (neg)
HB: NO bc i dont like asian guys
.... a few texts
HB: why did you put that u had a big dick!?! lol
Me: Dont remember heh. I dont lie though
HB: hehe, at least you get straight to the point
HB: Hint: Women dont think like men so comments like that are kind of douchebaggy (shit test)
Me: I am an asshole. Ur right though good sex is mental size has nothing to do with it
HB: LOL...
A few days later
Me: Asian girl what's going on
No response
Last text: Im breaking up with you

Lesson: Lost buying temperature.

HB Blonde. Beautiful girl. Tall, blond, blue eyes, kind of a dork. Really white skin. For me, a 9/10
Me: Hey B, find me under FB, promise you wont be a stalker
She adds me, I needed some more info didn't really know anything about her because I had preselection that night I nclosed her
Me: I knew you were a little out there. Acting prim and proper
HB: Sneaky!
ME: its ok, dorkiness is good
Read text game after 1 week, texted her during the day
Me:hey dork hows ur day going. Just realized I broke my rule w u! next invite will be my last dont ask
HB: Wait rule
Me: was that proper grammer? lol maybe ill tell you next time
hb: haha i meant to say "what rule" daytime tv is boring, except in the morning with regis and kelly

We banter on and off. This is where I lose her

Me: Horses. Thats what i think of when i see ur contact on my phone. weird. anyway we may hitup X tonight you should come hang
HB: im moving this weekend prob wont be able to my whole fam is here. Why horses!?
Me: family first. hah horse girl. dont take this the wrong way ok. maybe its the way ur face looks in that one photo some might find it ugly i find it intriguing
hb: mmm ok
Me: Horse girl x, making fun of her is so easy.
No replies ofr the next 3-4 texts.
Today: I'm breaking up with you...
Me: Im going to try and fuck another cute slightly weird but adorable blond girl the returns per effort is just not worth it. Serious note I did genuinely like u. Bye.

No reply, I dont care it was fucking funny.
Lesson: don't neg too hard and try to game. Try for a meetup and act nonchalant. Text messages can be misinterpreted. Meet in person asap.

Emo girl, hot chick HB9 I think I closed her months ago. Back and forth on facebook see her at the mall sometimes. Deleted her number she texts me this week:
HB: Hey you
Me: Hello Kitty
HB: whats up with u tonight
Me: open mic at red rock at 7 come and get some tea
no response
Me later on: Iwont be free till 1030 if ur looking to connect w me that way. Uve probably never been with an Asian guy before have you
HB: oh pleeeese you'll never get this. Never been with an asian and dont plan on it haha
Me: U say that as if I care and as if im doing u a favor. When it happens the pleasures gonna be all yours kitty.

Funny, I think that last text was a little serious but I was doing some business planning and didnt care. Could have turned it more comical, like, "yeah I've let a few cats run away" or something like that.

Ok. Hope you enjoyed those. Until next time have fun and always remember. You have the right to say, "Next!"


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I have been making pretty good progress in my game recently, due to overcoming from limiting beliefs about looks and what not. Also, thanks for seeing this guy Achilles who runs programs in the south bay. I realized that he's not that different from me and that if I wanted to, I could do this too. Some memorable lessons this week:

1. Brought an Asian girl as a wing to meet GK, ex Charisma arts alum. Bad idea. Asian girls can be fun but this one was boring as hell. By the end of the night she thought I was too good for her and did not stay over. I kind of only wanted to fuck but I wasn't interested in her at all. Lesson: bring a fun girl next time.

2. Having a female wing opens sets easily, ONLY if you disqualify quickly and somehow communicate she's just a friend. The hotter the female wing, the more likely you can create attraction via pre-selection

3. SF club scene is high risk, high reward. The music is so loud but, everyone is friendly. Try to go all out and learn some lessons and don't worry about the embarrassment of bad sets. No one notices.

4. Ran into a HB10 by herself who was actually, a really cool girl. Was by herself (she ditched her friends). I open her and she's super friendly. Turns out he has a BF (which HB10 doesn't?). But, they are swingers. Shit. I disqualify quickly and introduce her to my girlfriends. I end up dancing with her and this girl's body is just insane. Not an ounce of fat anywhere, tall, skinny, model-esque. Dark brown hair, blue eyes. The funny thing is she's actually pretty cool, when I talked to her she was kind of a dork. Just goes to show, sometimes you need to judge based on BEHAVIOR not appearance. 
I fuck up on the dancefloor by whispering, "it's too bad". She says, "what is?". I said, "Our bodies fit together quite well". She looks surprised and then backs off. "I'm SO sorry, but I can't do this. It was really great to meet you ok". She actually stays and makes sure I'm ok which was nice. I just laughed like, "yeah, you caught me I am trying to fuck you". I should have played it off cool, she was down with our group and I could have given her a ride back. Even as a friend an HB10 is always useful. My fault, lesson learned.

I text her the next day: I'm deleting your number. Just wanted to say it was great to talk to a cute girl whos not retareded in some sort of way.
She replies:  probably a good idea. thanks. take care.

Any possible responses? I think its probably more classy to just move on. Maybe I'll see her again in the future.

5. Female wings are only as good as their personalities. Some female wings are BORING even though they may be hot, it becomes difficult to navigate a set. One wing talks too much and she takes over a set. The other one is too shy. Etc. Be careful how u use them. Also, logistics. If you bring a female wing you HAVE to bring her home right? So you can't pull to another location which becomes a problem as you game gets better and you try for same night lays.

6. Not jerking of will motivate you to go out, but, if you go out and you're actually good and getting some results, you come home with blue balls. So although this is a quality problem, you will run into this area of game - I'm good enough to get numbers and kiss closes but not to fuck right away problem.

7. Approach club like a fun thing. Like a playground and you're the kid. Try to make some mistakes in order to learn, but also make a small effort to remember not to make the SAME mistakes because they can cost you (i.e. trying to fuck every hot girl instead of befriending them).
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I was going to spend a quiet night with one of my girl friends. She dresses up and informs me she wants to go out. I said alright and get dressed up as she uses my computer.

We end up going to downtown PA and I realized immediately that having just 1 female with you increase your value significantly and lowers the game's difficulty immensely. Girls will look at you as you walk by (my girl friend is pretty cute but I don't find her sexually attractive) and sets fly open. I didn't want to use her as a clutch too much. Here were my sets

Set 1: Girl opens us. We banter a bit about the mechanical bull
Set 2: I open a girl about her purse. She's friendly. Visiting from out of town. Her friend happens to be a smoking blond and I knew this. I say hi to her and the game is on. Mostly banter, a little neg. As soon as my girl came in We'll call her WInggirl Claire I hug and almost immediately IOIs from the blond. Hair brush, touching her back, moving closer. It was a done deal. It so happens they both work at stanford and seem to have a girl crush on each other so after I nclose and talk a bit I eject. I open a girl with "hey. I'm not hitting on you but I love your dress.". She smiles really brightly and I walk away because it was near the entrance where a lot of foot traffic takes place. I'll see her again. I check on my boys and he hang for a bit. I tell Claire to take T and introduce him to a smoking Asian girl. T makes some excuses and after trying to convince him a few times I said "ok, I'll do it". Winggirl make the intro and she turns around the it was ON.

Set 3: Hi. Normal banter. I don't run game on Asian girls usually they find me automatically attractive. I qualify and basically find out she's new in town and offer to introduce her and she's totally in. Texts me right away.
Easy close from there.

One of the problems with wing girls is that they get bored and they can easily come in and steal the set and the girls start talking. It happens so that this girl is extremely nice and friendly and gets along with everyone and girls like her too so I was blocked out for a bit. I hug her and say I'm looking for my friends.

Claire follows me soon after.

Set 5: I open a set but a guy interrupts apparently that's his girl. No big deal I nod and move on. I wanted to open a set by myself and not use my girl. I re-open the girl I complimented at the door. I walk over slowly and just say hi. She's immediately into me. Her friends are pulling her away and she gives her this "look" like "are you ok with this guy?". She says, "yeah I'm fine I'll catch you later". That's when you know its on. Unfortunately 2 minutes into my convo a bunch of her guy friends and girl friends pull her away. I try to n-close and she says, "I'll be here!". As if baiting me to game her more. I counter and say, "actually I'm on my way out". She says, "I'm here all the time, I'll see you next time!". Not sure what I could have done but I think she did not want her guy friends to give her shit later and therefore hesitated.

We re-engage the hot blond because my wing girl likes her and we chat a bit. I make sure we all time bridge to another date and then the 2 guys come in. At this point I call it a a night and leave the guys to be. I made a mistake here I'd like to apologize here. I kissed the two girls and I just said bye casually to the guys. I SHOULD have said proper goodbyes because they are my friends and are reflections of me. I apologize for this. I should have said goodbye properly, with value. This hurts you as well as it hurts me because we are friends. I guess I was a little pissed at the missed opportunity earlier to have my girl introduce you and the lack of action that takes place all the time when we are out.

Later, with Claire I said, "I feel like I am always carrying those guys on my shoulders".
She says something interesting, "If they are your friends, that shouldn't be a problem, right?"
I realized that she was right - I am good friends with T and that SHOULD NOT come after Game. Friends are permanent girls come and go.

Set 6: We hit nolas and this is the funny part. Cougars try to hit on me and it was hilarious. I end up in a pretty deep conversation with 2 very good looking albeit married women. One of them is single and owns her own business, we discuss my current project and it was just a riveting conversation. I doubt that her husband will find it amusing for her to see me again and I'm not into that type of game. 

Set 6: I open another girl at the bar and it was good but she got dragged away by friends. I could have stayed but I felt like it was too much work and she wasn't that hot.

Set 7: On the street I see two girls and one of them looks 16. "How old ARE you?". I ask her. They look shocked "What!?" I recover and say that she looks young and innocent and we end up having a walking conversation with them for like, 5 minutes. Unfortunately Claire winged the wrong girl and I end up with the ok looking one. I didn't want her number and as we left she looked at me expectantly while I bid her goodbye. It was hilarious. Her friend (the young looking one) was a super cutie. Anyway. Next time.


1. Overall, a fun night. Your whole game changes when you have some perceived value from girls. I understand this now and will work on making more girlfriends who I'm not just sexually attracted to.

2. I was watching Keys to the VIP before this. It helped a lot actually. If you observe guys like Cajun and Naturals they always come in with a calm sense of confidence. They walk slowly. But they keep the momentum and energy going. I think tonight I just was very calm in my approaches. They were a lot more natural. One of the things I CONSCIOUSLY did was a lot of EYE contact. You can feel that your'e connecting more with people as you look them in the eyes. This makes a big difference actually. I was NOT doing this before.

Good eye contact ensures a strong connection.

3. If there's one thing that bothered me its that T is a good, smart guy but he just doesn't believe he can do it. I've tried to coach and push him and he gets AA every single time. Unfortunately there's only so much I can do and tonight, I wasn't able to help him. I've been out with him probably over 20 times now and this always happens. I'm not sure how to help him. I like T and I really enjoy hanging with him. I would say that game-wise, he either gets a) extreme AA or b) he pushes himself to open, but when he opens he conveys too much energy and its not smooth. It is a bit clunky. If I were to break down the technicals (in case he's reading this) I would say the un-smoothness comes from:
a) too much AA and therefore pushing yourself too hard to open. Energy level is very high and the calibration to the mood and topic of the group is usually very off.
b) his voice tonality always goes upward in inflexion stead of upward
c) facial features usually convey a nice I am getting to meet you, but borders on "I am trying to get value from you", there's too much smiling and holding the smile for too long. Which is why I think some sets go wrong in the first 30 seconds. Sometimes he sticks on for longer, but usually in the 5-10 minute range he loses the girl because he's persona is still that of a value taker. I don't mean to be rude. What I am trying to say is, deep down, if you believe that the girl IS INDEED better than you, eventually, no matter your game technicals, this stuff still come to the surface. I hope this makes sense....
d) Questions the girl too much instead of making statements. You're uncomfortable with pauses. It is ok to pause, The social pressure should be able to not affect you as a PUA. It is OK to walk away from the girl. It is ok to have takeaway body language. It is ok to touch her (in a smooth, confident way).

4. Game is a reflection of our inner states. If you believe that everyone at the bar is your friend, you tend to have this mentality where they are your cheerleaders. As such you view allies instead of enemies and even the bad reactions become less invasive and permanent. I find this type of vibe, some might call it GGG (good guy game) very relaxing and natural for me. I am a gentleman and as such I should be able to convey this value AND pick up chicks. We always talk about negging and stuff but in reality, do you think Brad Pitt needs to neg? Bill Gates? Some high successful, rich guy who is NOT famous? No. He simply knows that to be true. As such he can be friendly and agreeable and still get the girl.

I'm not talking about being a and nice and letting people walk over you. I am talking about being polite and friendly because you want to be, and still be alpha. Warm alpha. I hope this makes sense. Game doesn't have to be all assholes and AMOGGING. You just have to be congruent with who you truly are.
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Had face surgery (last resurfacing for old acne scars). Resting at home. Can't go out because my face looks like a zombie. Looks good though. Will look good.

One of the girls I met at a party called me up and she was super cool. Said we should get together in a week. Nice to have girls care about you :)
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Last night I went to a country themed bar called the saddle rack. It was overall a good time and I promised DJ Fuji 10 sets. I was determined to meet this goal. 5 of them had to be HB10s.

As I walked into the bar I sensed that there was a lot of space and dancing in this particular location. To the front there was a stage and it was a live band. A huge dance floor encompassed the center. There were bars to the left right and far and of the bar. The folks there were either really young in their early 20s or really old in some cases in early 50s and 60s. Everyone a country theme, there were cowboy hats, and Indian feathers on the guys and gals. A normal Asian guy would feel intimidated but I put those thoughts in the far recesses of my mind and dedicated myself to having a good time.

Here are the sites according to what I remember:

Set one: I end up opening a group on the dance floor because they were learning to do line dancing. Some of the older women were nice there was one in particular, that took me under her wing and taught me step by step how to do line that. She was cute but in her late 40s to 50s. Nonetheless I enjoyed dancing with her later on as well in the circle on the main dance floor. From that I was warmed up and it got me moving to the music a state with higher which is good because everybody was in the super high state at this place.

Set two: I open some mediocre looking girls at the bar with high and then leaning back. Usually this works for me, but tonight it does is give me a strange look as if I had no shot at all. This was new to me. I decided not to let anyone else affect my general state of mind and move on.

Set three: girl makes contact with me but she's with two of her other friends. I caught one of her friends and request that she introduced me to her friend. She does so with some complaints and started talking to the front. The conversation was not great but try to be cheeky and fun and she would reply but not with a lot of words eventually less than five minutes or so her friend told her away and they started engaging in their own conversation. I was locked out from his language perspective and I decided to leave.

Set four: I end up complaining if you HB9s and 10s by saying, "I'm not hitting on you, I love the necklace/dress/outfit you're wearing." This seems to go over well with 4-5 HB9s except one which just looked at me and put her hand up. Wow. That never happened before.

Set 4 still: I am next to the bullpen mechanical bull and 3 blonde girls all just relatively well, we can see what's going on. They seemed a bit into themselves and I turned around and I said hi. One of the girls looked at me and made a half-assed look like she half acknowledged me that half ignored me at the same time. I just kind of "drifted" my gaze elsewhere. Mistake. I realized next time that if you want to get blown out, at least make sure she blew you out completely.

Set 5: at this point I was trying to get over AA, and I decide to go for it. I sit down blodly with two girls and say hi. My stages was strong and I asked them if it's girl’s night out. One of the girls was down to talk but the the other girl seems ignore me. I find out that she is from France and does not speak a lot of English. I then talked to her in French with a few broken sentences and she seems to light up. Her friend is cute but she tested me she asked me where my friends are.... I said there walking around if I see them I will introduce you. I banter with them for 5 more minutes and then asked the girl to dance. She's actually terrible on the dance floor. Everything got some social proof. I walk back and her friends are there. None of them are really cute so I eject. That was good social proof and good practice.

Set 6: Extremely cute girl HB9/10 standing by herself. I had to approach. At this point I felt different in my walking, like for a few seconds there I knew what it felt like to be a seducer "mindset". The walk, put my hand on her back and comment, "you're VERY well. Put. Together"
HB10: Thank you!
Me: "How many guys hit on you tonight?"
She looks amused but no laughter yet
HB10: A few...
Me: "Cool. And....How many girls?"
At this point she breaks out laughing and you know its on.
So her friends comes in and I try to neg her by giving divided attention to her friends and her. She excuses herself and I see her with 2 guys the bar. Her friend happens to be a grenade. Shit. I find out later one of the guys is her BF. He's Asian. Props bro :)

Set 7: One of the HB9s I complimented opens me, and I find out she knows me! Shit. I met her at a beach once. We have great conversation and then one of her friends is getting married (Jenna). She pushes me to dance with her and I take Jenna on the dancefloor. Nice to have a bachelorette slow dancing with you. Social proof! This venue is so big though I'm not sure if people noticed. None the less the bride to be was very thankful and she was cute (37 surprisingly). I find HB9 later and as I am trying to time bridge she looks at me and said, "i live with my BF, remember?". I do! Shit. I apologize and wish her the best.

Set 8: 2 small short Asian girl and Mexican girl. I open ok and the conversation is not bad, but I made bad move to lock in and she looked at me like, "why did this guy move between me and my friend". Just then another drunk guys comes without warning and says "can I but you guys a drink?" at which point he spills his own and the girls laugh. He leaves with his tail between his legs. Unfortunately I wasn't able to hook girls again and as they went to get a drink they moved a little away from me and I was locked out. Not enough intent, perhaps.

Set9: Another group of girls in a bachelorette party - they were friendly and one of the girls kept eyeing me but I could not control the group. They dragged her away after a few sentences we exchanged and that was that.

Set 10: 2 very cute girls sitting down. I open. They respond well. We chat. At this point my other friend is here but he is shy. I excuse myself and drag him into the set. Unfortunately the girls excuses themselves as their friend is here. Bad timing, and bad use of a wing.

Set 11: Cow girl just got off the mechanical bull. I high five her. It semi-on but one of the girls I was talking to before (friendly walk she's not cute) says she likes her, and she starts hitting on her! Ha. At least I set them up.

Set 12: Girl from salsa class. I chat with her a bit and there's kino and she's leaning in. But then I realized she's going to be coaching us on the upcoming performance and decide not to shit where I eat.

Set 13: There were 2 very cute brunettes engaged in deep conversation that no one opened. Another beautiful blond in a white dress HB10 I did not open. Honestly I had a bad reaction from a HB10 from a compliment and that fear scared me. Shit. I really wanted to talk to them, but saw no openings to do so. 

That's it. Overall, learned a lot. I think the venue itself is TOUGH because 1. I'm an Asian guy in a country club and 2. My style doesn't fit this country theme, and 3. LOTS of social circles in play and 4. I was alone half the time. Actually I'm pretty proud of myself from Set 5 onwards to Set 8 I was solo sarging and I could gone home, but I decided to soldier on.

Overall, a good night. I never opened this many sets without getting a number, but it doesn't matter. They would have flaked anyway and I learned a lot.
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 My homework assignments:

Approach 10 sets a night every time you go out (Go out at least twice a week)
One day a week, do a solo sarge. Say hi to everyone.
Approach 50% HB7,8+ and above to practice talking to 9s and 10s (Have to get past this fear)
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