Good spot to film!

Four X rule like the beer??? Not midstrength like at the footy though aye!

 This is spot on Alex. It also comes down to vibing. For some weeks I went out with my only goal to vibe with people. There's no agenda to vibing, the only thing that matters is that you and her spend time together in authenticity. What I've found was that social interactions work exactly that way: It's not about reaching some goal with the two of you talking together, it's simply surfing together on the ocean and finally hitting the same waves. This is where trust and comfort happens.

Great stuff as always man, I love how you've got your own framework for social skills, and how it all ties in together beautifully.

This is right on, I love the way that you smash some of the illusions and expectations that can be created by the pickup culture, such as expecting the interaction to go smoothly from the go everytime, or as you mentioned in a previous video, the expectation to get one-night stands. Once a person becomes more aware of the reality of the situation, they can manage their expectations and adjust their behaviours accordingly. In my personal experience, this has led to much better results, and makes the whole process much more relaxed and natural than if you were some guy who sees Tyler's and Julien's infield footage showing only the highlights and then expecting to get bathroom lays etc.

I'm seriously looking forward to your hotseat bro, I'm really confident that you're going to create an amazing product.

Same things apply when you're on the phone to centrelink aye! 

When is your infield 2011?

Yeah I feel like the more cold approach I do, the more sometimes I hope for a bad reaction because then it challenges me to learn how to overcome it play with the energy stay in set and get better at the whole process. then when a chick you approach falls in your lap and  reacts nice and all on ya its super cake to close it quick!

I liked this video - the part where you talked about how "the one" that we have all had that broke our hearts and shaped all our future interactions with women stood out for me as it's my main major issue.

It's true, she was indeed a 7/8 (!) guess you learned that from talking to many guys..!

I think a whole video dedicated to that topic would be worthy of doing.

Thanks

Gift~

Hey Alex, awesome video :)
 
I've been having problems with the issue you talked about wehre I go into sets and a lot of times I'll leave them and go back to my friends and say I didn'nt want to esclate or I'll even bring my friends into set like super early on, or even take the girl/s over to my friends... All because of the same reason... I am in a situation right now where I am making my self accustom to going out as much as I can each week, minimum twice, and like leave early in the day as early as I can and stay in downtown Toronto at a club till 3 or 4 in the morning and just try to go go go best I can... I want to practice and this whole thing about going up to sets where I don't immediately have arousal just by the way a girl looks and practicing things like esclation, even nunber close, or bounce from venue, I get soooooo fucken werided out... I feel this, like something is off... its not right... Once it was so bad where a girl sitting between 2 of her female friends was eyeballing me at a club, and i turned to my wing and told him that, then opened the girl to the left, and turned my head left and right to talk to the girls on either side of her while ignoring her, i did that instincitively, and this girl held out her hand and said "whats you're name", and as soon as i grabbed her hand to shake, she got up from the chair and came right into my arms and was like falling into me the way I sensed it... But her ass was a little too fat in the wrong way for me, even though she was cute lol, i got a little bit aroused, but again, i werided myself the fuck out, and before leaving the club i was going for the facebook close when my wing came up to us and screamed, wtffffff youd dont even have facebook!! (to me), and i dont remember exactly but I think he told her to give me the number, and i got it... lol but like, i feel that total sense of  something missing when i am going into these practice sets vs some sets where i was more focused and really wanted the girl, i felt that it was RIGHT even though the set wasn't going in the best way one would hope... And eventually I hope to get really good so I want to do ALOTTTTTT of sets... 

Sorry for writing so fucken much, I just ramble and ramble because I am a chode, but my question is: Is it okay to go up to these practice sets, and esclate, and give them those good expectations, and thennnnnnn once the practice has reached it's limit, just dissappoint them and walk away??? lol eventually I will go up more and more to the girls i really really want and tell them what I really really really really really really want, but until i get a little bit better then my current state of affairs, do you think this is healthy for me to do??? because i am sure the girls would get werided out too like WHY did he just fuck off, after all that? what's wrong with him? or catch on that I am really not intersted and just practicing and get werided out and in turn weird me out even more lol... should I do it anyway and not let myself get werided out at least, i mean will that be healthy??? loll 

Thanks :)

Awesome Alex. I cannot wait. It is sad not seeing Tim around much any more if at all. Usually, it would be expected, you lose a star like Tim, you have huge shoes to fill. And I believe you did that man. Good stuff. I always look for to your video blogs and look forward to more stuff. Thank you!

The four time rules, means "running the train" as Ozzie would call it 4 times? You leave the set and come back maximum of 4 times? But then, how long should you try to be in set every time? If the girl is really shielding up for me for 2 minutes and it feels weird, should I persist until maybe she says "can u leave"? What is the rule for how long u should stay everytime u enter/re enter the set?

Ofc u gotta use ur own judgement, but would be cool with some tip.

another weekend up in the club applying your mindsets and I notice all the girls whose numbers I got are going out of their way to set up dates with ME this week instead of me trying to hit them up with mixed results.  Just got laid on a monday from one of those girls - love it man can;t wait for Alex hotseat

For the 4 times rule, does that mean I can reopen up to 4 times? A lot of the times the girls will eject but I never reopen because I don't want to harrass them.

Some interesting thoughts. Will watch again.
However my situation is that the cold approaches I did where instant blow outs. It was only 3 because I really have to invest a lot of time to see approach-worthy girls in the first place and so far approached less than 50% I would have liked to talk to.
At the same time and in contrast to cold approach my experience is that constantly quite a few girls and women who see me first are clearly interested (nervous behavior, saying hello to me...).
I guess that indicates my cold approaches may be very bad if there is such a difference ;)

Is there a PU for Dummies book? ;)

 really cool one