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Alexander Hotseat is doing Europe! Three massive cities left! Then some colossal cities over in the USA! 

Free Workshops the Thursday beforehand in each city!

(For the free workshop time and place check out www.facebook.com/alexanderrsd for details, then all you have to do is show up)

AND OF COURSE IM DOING BOOTCAMPS IN ALL OF THESE CITIES AS WELL! Get your game on... live infield with me instructing, demonstrating and calling you out on your shit when your not stepping the fuck up.


Eurotrip 11.

HotSeat; January 19, 2013: Copenhagen, Denmark
HotSeat; January 26, 2013: Oslo, Norway
HotSeat; February 2, 2013: London, United Kingdom

AMERICA (FUCK YEAH)

HotSeat; February 16, 2013: Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
HotSeat; February 23, 2013: Phoenix, Arizona, USA
HotSeat; March 2, 2013: Miami, Florida, USA

I will be in Miami during the model season Bootcamp with the crew! How exciting! If you really want me as the bootcamp coach that weekend be sure to specifically request me!

HotSeat; March 9, 2013: Denver, Colorado, USA
HotSeat; March 16, 2013: Los Angeles, California, USA
HotSeat; March 23, 2013: Chicago, Illinois, USA
HotSeat; March 30, 2013: New York, New York, USA

Go to a Hotseat email support@realsocialdynamics.com

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So one things that students often hold as a limiting belief against my type of game is that “I’m not Alex. He’s in such a good mood all the time, only he can make that kind of game work. Durr Durr, ba-chom, ba-chewy-chomp, ba-chewy-chomp.”

Well where do you think my good mood comes from? You think I pull it out of my ass on a minute by minute basis? Well actually that’s exactly what I do. I continually generate my own consistent mood by following a couple of rules and protocols.

But the mood doesn’t generate itself, you have to take to initiative for it to manifest!



I talk about relaxation and arousal and how that can help you. One of the pivotal things that makes all game work is generating a nice mood all the time.

It doesn’t have to be some intense IN THE ZONE, FUCK YOU WORLD, DESTROY THE BAR, GOD MODE TYPE THING… no, it’s a chill outgoing charming vibe as a baseline and from there you can express yourself in anyway you like.

As I spoke about in the video I have to go through a DISTINCT process to get into in the right mood or state, and then once I’m in the relaxed state I just stay there.

Rarely something will shake me up and pull my good mood out from under my feet… but I stop, take a deep breath and honor the process again. Moments later in my good baseline mood and I’m good to go all over again.

This is a unique paradigm of thought from the idea of Anthony Robbins ‘state’. I think ‘Anthony Robbins state’ is awesome for work, sport and academics. But in the field be need to be smooth, charming and more empathetic in our interactions with the world.

So, monopolize your emotions, ‘draw state from within’ or as you know now, relax, arouse and get into that great mood that makes all of the game work for you!

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Now onto daygame! In short don’t go direct as I explain in the video.

During our week in Germany we had some fucked up experiences. People were downright scary. Offensive customer service to us and other customers at places we went to. Some super strange girls and mass brawls at the Neuraum a club in Munch.

The most fucked up thing was when we called the police on a taxi driver who drive with his eyes closed 35 minutes out of town… as you can see in the video.

But then we went to this AWESOME club called ‘call me drella’ where people were cool, girls were really gorgeous and there were strange clown people dancing around! Horrah!



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_RbAKrQwww

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And lastly, a little bit of an insight into what actually happens when I hang out with the elite society of players.

LETS HEAR FROM CHINABOY!



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Follow me on facebook to get more cool stuff! www.facebook.com/alexanderrsd

Alexander~ Executive Coach
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#1

G Bizz

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YOLO!
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Tank you brother for this!! I am grateful!! :P

PickupHero :)P
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 Alex! Can you explain little more about this holiday event? Rellyy wanna join e send the video!

cheers
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ChinaBoy~

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From "Fuck you Bulgaria" to "Fuck you Germany"

YOLO
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Kool Kane

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LOL, that's actually one of the places I'm doing daygame!! hahaha, hilarious.
I know that a lot of the munich lair guys doing daygame there as well. I'm not hanging out with them, but they are easy to spot.
sorry, I've missed the free-tour, but I was really busy at work the last month. I just missed the date. I didn't go to this drella club yet, maybe I should give it a shot....
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Alex, you got a lil belly! hahahaha

I loved the 'self generate the vibe' video, content was pure gold there! But the Chinaboy vid... he seems a little lost, but that was funny to watch too.
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 Durr Durr, ba-chom, ba-chewy-chomp, ba-chewy-chomp.

This made me roar with laughter...
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Great Video,
I understand your style more and more. You create nice additional dimension to Tyler and Julien high energy style. One principal is that good state comes from relaxation, even if we talking about high energy.
I like to practice relaxation in different settings so I can use it better in the game. Also don't be to chill- it must be relaxed arousal not state of coma:). Still first relaxation then energy!
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 "Cunts just gave me socks for Christmas? No big deal. I own the house...fuck yeah..." LOLOL
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 I have learned no day game in my bootcamp.... It wasn't with Alex though.
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Reversal

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Just FYI, the last few seconds of the video reveals ChinaBoys Identity.
Also, I believe  blurring images can sometimes be undone if somebody was willing to take the time. They can also reveal chinaboys identity that way.
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 Dude, first freetour vid is real good.  Your simplifying things well, and it's much easier to follow than older vids.  Can tell the hotseat/freetour shit is helping develop your public speaking and content creation. 

Good shit.

Get in the gym fool tho!  LOL.
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honeybadger wrote:
 I have learned no day game in my bootcamp.... It wasn't with Alex though.
Oh shit!   Honeybadger doesn't GIVE A FUCK.
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Daygame direct works !!  Soft side direct  like you look nice !! 

Not the over validating direct stuff  you dont know the girl yet

But i agree with your mindset  and natural instincts method !!
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haha yeah... the being in this shape is far and away the best for getting girls... i dont know why? I'm gymming 5 times a week again to get musclular... but its not as good for picking up girls!

Alex~
Brad- wrote:
 Dude, first freetour vid is real good.  Your simplifying things well, and it's much easier to follow than older vids.  Can tell the hotseat/freetour shit is helping develop your public speaking and content creation. 

Good shit.

Get in the gym fool tho!  LOL.
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ChinaBoy~ wrote:
From "Fuck you Bulgaria" to "Fuck you Germany"

YOLO


most of all, Fuck you France!...

yolo
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Hello from bulgaria AZIS  <3  ALEX. Loved that article mate :)
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 Mate,

You've got the same watch as me, hilarious. Time brother! 
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The Germs are always testing your frame kinda hard...this time you didn´t get sucked in, in my eyes you exceled by staying witty and outgoing...well done.
Protect your inner child !!!

Thanks for coming to Munich and sharing your time with us !

best
Andreas
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 I love this shit. Thanks Alex.
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 youre kinda weird sometimes man haha. awesome stuff brah
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Haha why is that? The Germany video?
Animus wrote:
 youre kinda weird sometimes man haha. awesome stuff brah
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Any topic suggestions?
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 I love this shit. Thanks Alex.
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Any topic suggestions?
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 I love this shit. Thanks Alex.
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Infield  challenge !!  direct vs indirect  10 approaches   incl blowouts  ;)




Alexander~ wrote:
Any topic suggestions?
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 I love this shit. Thanks Alex.

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1. Dealing with success with woman and in life?

2. Handling sexual tension with a chode's longtime girlfriend. 

3. Impulsive behaviors


Thanks man! You are a beast.
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Any topic suggestions?
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 I love this shit. Thanks Alex.

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hey Alex as for the daygame video..

when i chat up the girls in daytime more indirectly so to speak like asking some random question and then another random question and just talking shit i often get that "why is he talking to me?" face/vibe and it goes downhill. 

how do you do it?

i suppose that you engage the girls in the conversation with you and that's how you subcommunicate you find her attractive without saying out loud at first that you like her.

i found that the perfect balance between direct and indirect is curiosity/being tempted. this is how my best approaches went. when i chat up a girl cause she got me curious about her. but at the same time even though i was the one approaching, by being curious i was still on the fence one. it lmost looked like i was giving her a chance to talk to me and try her best shot to attract me
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 Hey Alex, when I do the chill approach and get the number and set up a day 2 the girls always seem to be busy or aren't too keen. Regardless of how long I interact with them for, setting up for a day 2 is harder when I'm laidback because they always give some kind of excuse.
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 I used to do super "bordering gangsta" direct approaches in daytime.

Started opening sets with questions like Alex suggested. +Chit-chatting (creating initiative as Alex video calls it)

Interesting results. I mean, I'm not super logical when I do this. Just jumping topics.

But what a question does is that it doesn't scare some girls away right away.

I had some interesting revelations ... like how a chick would just give me NO SIGNALS, the game was super BORING, but she would comply with the hugging, and it kind of increases my "entitlement" (no need to be a "intense gangsta-tryhard") as I talk about pretty mundane stuff (if you take into account the "words")... low-key... then mix it up with expressions of anger/excitement... It is so cool.

Another chick I'd move around the club (opened super relaxed/boring, but with "I'm enough" + just keep chit-chat), like leading her around... While in the past when I tried to be all gangsta, they'd never comply with my leading attempts.

Uhm... yeah. I like how it is easy to go into this "relaxed" state as compared to trying to pump yourself up with momentum/gangsta shit... Like relaxed is your baseline, not "state". Will try these mindset for a month-two. There is definitely something in these teachings. 

Yeah, long story short, cool stuff!
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1st video is fukin golden 
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mrkashewz wrote:
 Hey Alex, when I do the chill approach and get the number and set up a day 2 the girls always seem to be busy or aren't too keen. Regardless of how long I interact with them for, setting up for a day 2 is harder when I'm laidback because they always give some kind of excuse.
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 Alexander the super duper cold approach dude!

Great article as per norm, and thanks for your full length program.

Helped so much, just the self trust it can give you, and the understanding of how things work etc. Wow

Chinaboy must have benifited so much from chillin with you guys

All the best 
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 Fatty 
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Can you make  more infield videos with your natural instict method ??
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hotseat bro ;)
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Just the way you talk, your metaphors, the stuff you find funny and the way you express yourself in general haha. Im always wondering "where the fuck does he come up with this stuff. Its so random" But i guess thats juat creativity in expression.  
Alexander~ wrote:
Haha why is that? The Germany video?
Animus wrote:
 youre kinda weird sometimes man haha. awesome stuff brah

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Thanks to Alex's tips, I'm now able to have fun almost all night long (something I had problems with in the past). However, I seem to be unable to combine having fun with having physical interactions with girls. Even after succesfully opening physically, I can't extend my fun and carelessness into results.

Is this simply a case of being too attached to outcome?
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hope you do some more video about indirect day game,
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 Indirect vs direct daygame. Julien: Night game=daygame" vs Alex'style daygame.

Both works. Go out try both and make your own opinion about it. RSD is consultation. Stop looking at what RSD says as rules but rather as GUIDELINES.

Dude: "But indirect is for pussies I am a pickup beast, she'll friendzone me"
Me: "Nope, it's all good. You are enough."

The thing I love about indirect is it's based on self trust, not trying to be impressive/stand out.

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LOL @ "Mom I am scared, it's Germany" tag
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Topic suggestions:
What girls mean when they say "i don't know you yet" and how to get over that hurdle.

How to get girls to forget their friend, and stick with you throughout the night.

When to go from fun to serious to emotionally connect with her.

How to text girls after you meet them so that they don't flake or stop responding.

What you should be "talking about" on the date to get closer to her.

How to isolate the girl comfortably and go in for the kiss and more.
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Alex mate, you are not leaving us now are you? sad

I could barely contain my excitement seeing videos of Natural Tim and his enthusiasm.

That was truly the reason why I came to find rsd and sign up here.

Quite disappointing to find him having gone onto other things (though I am happy for him).

Not sure I could handle the heart break of losing another crazy Aussie pimp that pulls SMOKE SHOWs!



If you're leaving, you'll definitely need to interview me before parting, and I call dibs on a blur effect like ChinaB-boy had.
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Generating state from within, giving emotions to the club. just brialliant stuff
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Who's bigger alex or chinaboy? Chinaboy is definately stronger, Ive seen him deadlifting 4 chinaboys.
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 Hey alex your videos are realy realy great,  personaly very helpful for me, my sleep pattern are disrupted after watching your 2 hour video what i realy like about you videos you actualy create the point and knowing why it's working or not working which is awesome, I'm more more getting down in your stuf ! :)
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Haha I saw your Jeffy shirt and thought you were gonna say you weren't Alex cause you're now Jeff!

LOL I DO think you wake up in state btw, but I also agree that you're taking responsibility for it and doing a lot of good things/ maintaining empowering perspectives that can be learned!

Tyler
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haha yeah, best shirt ever right. Accentuates my man boobs! Which i actually find helps me to get laid more. Screw the six pack.

Anyway... since turning 27 i've feel a shift in hormones to be less energetic and 'waking up in state' and gernally more on my mind and more stressed or soemting but i can snap out of it like im talking about here. I always used to wonder why your so freaken stressed out and now i understand better.

I've made a shift from psychotic child to Oceans 11. My favorite movie. Oceans 11 game for the win.

Alexander~
Tyler wrote:
Haha I saw your Jeffy shirt and thought you were gonna say you weren't Alex cause you're now Jeff!

LOL I DO think you wake up in state btw, but I also agree that you're taking responsibility for it and doing a lot of good things/ maintaining empowering perspectives that can be learned!

Tyler
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George the Legend from CPH for the win at 25:17! ;0)
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Self-generated vibe can be challenging when you're tired or not feeling well. Those times when you have to push through are going to make the difference.
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yeah absolutely there is simply nothing you can do so you just stay in and recharge! other times its like... your so exhausted it funny and you just embrace the mess of your own emotions and and that can work very well as well!

ace01 wrote:
Self-generated vibe can be challenging when you're tired or not feeling well. Those times when you have to push through are going to make the difference.

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