Alexander~ RSD

Alex~
 
 CHECK OUT MY UPCOMING AUSTRALIAN AND EUROPEAN EVENTS!

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Perth Bootcamp: June 22nd
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HELSINKI Hotseat/Bootcamp/Freetour: July 6th
Stockholm Hotseat/Bootcamp/Freetour: July 13th

Then I’m on holidays for a couple of weeks with the dreamteam in an undisclosed location on some islands! Woo can’t wait!

Then of course Las Vegas! World Summit Funtimes awaits!

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This week I returned to my HOMELAND Brisbane where I got right into the topic of indications of interest… check it out.



The indication of interest is an integral part of the Natural Instict Method. Understanding the lack of importance of the indication of interest and letting go of external reactions and validation are core concepts that help you to internalize that ‘there is no reason why you’re not enough.’



Check out www.facebook.com/alexanderRSD where ill be releasing the application for the professional grade holiday real soon.

The 201X video isn’t far away now either!

Cheers mates!

Alex~
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ryanvilla

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second!
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Kahlua

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Great video!
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J Dilla R.I.P.

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Very Nice mate
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stanleygelber

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Awesoem video, loved to watch it.
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Awesome content Alex.
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Good video. Good morning.
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lightgman

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Thanks man this was EXTREMEMLY helpful. Could you touch upon why other instructors don't mention not taking IOIs or IODs "to heart".  Has it been forgotten about? Or is this your personal way of gaming?
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Stark wrote:
 Who's the girl on the thumbnail image? Finish miss teen or someone? Shes damn hot. 

Did you smash that Mr. Alexander? 

LOL are you serious?
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 11th or 10th!!!!
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So many times I left sets when I did not think she was interested in me (did not re approach either). If I could go back in time... I would do everything to avoid arguments but may be it can be a good thing.
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Im not sure that its wise to completely ignore indicators of disinterest. A lot of times the girl just won't like you no matter what you do or how many times you tell yourself "I'm enough". I understand some girls play hard to get and act out the hot girl bar persona in the night-club but I would rather just interact with a girl who seems genuinley interested in me and we can build a connection with the least amount of bullshit possible. Sometimes no really means NO and theres no need to interpret it as  anything else. You keep pushing and you're just wasting your time with a girl who ins't into you, she may even use you for a free drink and just use you for validation.
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Sheng

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 I may be misunderstanding, but I think you guys should chill with the Somali pirates reference. I'm pretty sure not all Somalians are pirates - FYI.

Aside from that, good vid.
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guavalights wrote:
Thanks man this was EXTREMEMLY helpful. Could you touch upon why other instructors don't mention not taking IOIs or IODs "to heart".  Has it been forgotten about? Or is this your personal way of gaming?
I would like an answer to this too. Why throw concepts away that have worked before? They give you a model of understanding game and social interactions. I think a simple model is helpful as a start, for newbies. It can be important to remember that no model is totally correct though, and that concepts tend to overlap each other. It seems as if the only things that matter nowadays are confidence and a strong frame.
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All about Point of view and preceptions.
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I hate to say it, Alex, but I actually faked an Australian accent once when I was out (for fun)...and it went quite well ;)
Things like that which makes girls doubt your accent, i guess. Soorry dude!

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I've been trying to learn game for a while now and lately just being a retard has been doing pretty good thanks alex
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inthezoneallthetime

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JohnnyCanada wrote:
Im not sure that its wise to completely ignore indicators of disinterest. A lot of times the girl just won't like you no matter what you do or how many times you tell yourself "I'm enough". I understand some girls play hard to get and act out the hot girl bar persona in the night-club but I would rather just interact with a girl who seems genuinley interested in me and we can build a connection with the least amount of bullshit possible. Sometimes no really means NO and theres no need to interpret it as  anything else. You keep pushing and you're just wasting your time with a girl who ins't into you, she may even use you for a free drink and just use you for validation.




Every girl is different, I've always been a gambler though and going with the odds I've definitely got more girls from ignoring disinterest and being delusional than just thinking " oh I guess she doesn't like me..." and giving up. Your for sure going to get both but if your actually going out and approaching regularly and being congruent and confident I'm sure you will find its better to assume attraction than allow her to dictate how your going to act. If I only continued interactions where the girl was initially interested in me I would not have slept with near as many as I have, and probably not four of five of the hottest. Push your balls to the limit I promise It will be worth it.
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Wow!
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