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Alexander~
 
Hello there players! I had a little week off after getting sick from PWNING Las Vegas too much. It was an awesome time with Ryan from RSD and new crews from London! Also a little romantic… as you’ll see in the free tour video.

Best valentines date ever… take your girl to your free tour! And that’s the blonde in the front row there! AN ALSKLING! The other girl was an RSD fan.

You’ll notice I’m also a little dressed up! Well that’s because the latest news is that I’m hitting the weights hard, inducing vomit inducing H.I.I.T. and adding some style in anticipation fora glorious summer... after a long hard winter of awesome Hotseat and Free Tour work!

I AM DOING FREE TOURS IN CITIES ALL OVER THE UNITED STATES AND CANADA ON THE THURSDAYS BEFORE THE HOTSEAT! Yep, free events for you to come and see, ask questions and hear the stories that we don’t publish online.



And of course the Alexander Hotseats are coming to the massive USA cities as well! Check them out!

HotSeat; March 2, 2013: Miami, Florida, USA

AND I WILL BE AVAILABLE TO TEACH BOOTCAMPS AT THE MIAMI MODEL SEASON **ALUMNI ONLY** BOOTCAMP BETWEEN THE DATES OF TUESDAY FEBRUARY 26TH
AND TUESDAY FEBRUARY 2ND. AGAIN, EMAIL SUPPORT@REALSOCIALDYNAMICS.COM FOR INFORMATION.

HotSeat; March 16, 2013: Los Angeles, California, USA
HotSeat; March 23, 2013: Chicago, Illinois, USA
HotSeat; March 30, 2013: New York, New York, USA

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One thing that a lot of guys have asked me about recently is SCREENING. I always talk about ‘I am enough’ and assuming that attraction will inevitably happen if you create enough time to spend with the girl. So the obvious question is how do you decide WHO you spend your time with.

What do you say to screen to decide which girls you want to spend time with? Because time spent together is strength of arousal, attraction, and compliance. Though a better term than compliance is that ‘the girl is comfortable’ hanging out with you in isolation after the club, when you are the one who walks her out of the club, or on a date later on in the week.



To summarize, screening must be done pretty early in the set especially to weigh up the boyfriend situation.

Other ways to screen are how the girl reacts to different ‘edgy’ expressions, without trying to game the girl with those expressions.

It actually looks just like the ‘chode questions’ that nice guys ask, BUT your also telling her the chode facts about yourself and what your doing all the while filling in the screening matrix to find out what the girl is doing with her group that night.

Ultimately there is never an ABSOLUTE way to know that you’ve made the right screen. You make you best judgment call based on the information available to you.

The good thing is about screening, even if you don’t find a girl who’s out to have a crazy after-party and potentially a one night stand, you still spend the night with a gorgeous girl and build a very solid interaction with the girl and her group which will have her feeling good about seeing you another night in the club, or socially during the week.

And then sometime, you might go and screen the club and there might be no-one single, or in any kind of position to party THAT ARE ALSO attractive… and when that happens its time to get drunk with your friends and not even worry about girls. Or go to a different venue.

Screen hard, otherwise all your value will get caught up in interactions that you should be able to figure out – have no future.

Alexander~
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#1

Katalyst

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first. haha. i love this shit. 
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ChinaBoy~

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Like it.

Recently have been leaving the club with wrong girls a lot...had too much fun that i forget to screen or get too drunk to remember screening haha.

Getting drunk with friends is also an good option. I didnt drink much in Bulgaria.
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Kassohh

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i like your method of game... i used it at a party one day.
i went to a small party, and me and my friends didnt know anyone there.
so, i just chilled out or a little, no pressure. after awhile i began to open up, and the girls were all over me.
as opposed to forcing myself to approach at a small party, and fucking up my "value" in that environment
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Falc

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Shit the video isn't working for some reason.

And Chinaboy forgot to screen that it was a dude ;)
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ChinaBoy~

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Falc wrote:
Shit the video isn't working for some reason.

And Chinaboy forgot to screen that it was a dude ;)
The vid is working perfectly...it just shows Czech Republic > Canada :P

yea, and then I have to go for the date for which I dont have much time lately. Kinda busy lately

How r u doing Falc?
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TheFinisher

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This video reinforces epic behavior. Thanks mate. Good ish. 

I appreciated how you pointed out that the SNL's involve low quality girls. I ran into trouble with that before. 

Beast.
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#7

dirtysexybandit

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lol it's funny that there's like 2 chicks sitting in the audience. 
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#8

FineReason

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if ur getting no girls how is screening gonna help
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#9

Roscoe~

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Yep, stupidly simple. This is like autopilot now.
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Patrick.Bateman

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Awesome article. Great suit.

Yes you´re right phonenumbers arent worth shit. This approach sounds way  better than getting another number and having to invest in texting her.

cheers
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0bbi

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So when girls tell you they have BF you automatically believe it and focus somewhere else?

Damn, what happened to the good old times of amog wars and swooping taken chicks?
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Mountaineer-~

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SOLID!

Was waiting for that video! Thx Alex!
This reminds me of checking out my Hotseat notes, I can remember that I took notes about it there too...

Fuck yeah, laid 3 new girls this week. Your stuff just works!

Cheers!

PS: @0bbi: fucked a girl with a BF this week. So, IMO definitely don't take anything too black or white. After knowing that she has a BF I screened for other things afterwards: is she adventurous? is she going to get social pressure from her friends if she's obviously hooking up with me? does she share a flat with her BF? In this case I persisted for it because I kind of knew that she's down for it but gets social pressure. Got her number and said to her "tell your friends that you go home now and I will call you in a couple of minutes to meet up". IT WORKED! For details check out my Journal
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I am looking forward to seeing you later this year. I think qualifying and screening is where I've gone wrong and I like how Alexander worded it in terms of, "Your enough now, who are you sharing your value with?" A girl who flaked in the past reached out to call me. We fooled around but, she just isn't the sort of person that is worthy of my value. There is a girl I am seeing and we're going to get out often but, nothing exclusive. Nor am I seeking that.

Curious what Alexander does to decide if a girl is worth sharing value with? To me, I base it on fair trade, intrinsic value, her bringing some intrigue, and matching my pace. Add value. I'm put off by entitlement cause she is a woman. It expresses ignorance since, that won't last, and men tend to age better plus pull well into their middle age even young women in their 20s.

Alexander, I'm about your age. Give or take. I don't have the dream team social circle. I did but, since a relationship, much has changed, and people have gone their own way. A friend that has really good game is winging me. He doesn't know about this stuff but, I might try and bring him along.
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seany

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Awesome video mate!!! 

 
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great vids man. awesome sauce
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LOL...just noticed now this tag: "why is he called chinaboy if he doesn't even live in china?"
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#17

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Loving your stuff Alex. Thanks! 
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#18

Noe

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Hey mate!

Just some chode input here from Sweden :) 

You said something like when you cant get to the VIP tables you can talk to some guy who lets you in.. In my mind though, you should NEVER use guys to get to girls. Talk to the girl you like instead and if they are cool and likes you, they will let you in. True story.
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Nice video man, a lot of value
Hahahah love the "tags"  : why is he called chinaboy.....
Awesome
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