Alexander~ RSD
Here I am in Boston, running seminar, pulling gorgeous Columbian girls, taking home blonde haired Californian sporty girls, releasing articles. Y’know.
My time here in the United States learning the ins and out of Real Social Dynamics with Tyler has been amazing. I have ONE MORE EVENT HERE. So for your last chance to get an Alexander~ special Bootcamp You last chance is in Los Angeles in two weeks, 2 seats remain...
... Then Australia with Julien... the Euro-Hollywood-Abrasive talking newest RSD Instructor. Alexander Julien 7 night a week tour should be out-of-control, of course. Get involved.
Los Angeles, May 18th- 20th
U.S.A ===> Australia ====>
Perth, May 24th – 26th
Melbourne, May 31st – June 2nd
Sydney, June 7th – 9th
Auckland, June 14th – 16th
www.rsdbootcamp.com
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Today I have a video that speaks for itself.
What I have here is a video that every guy should watch, note and implement, repeatedly until the principles and skills within become TOTALLY INTERNALISED.
If you don’t understand these principles and skills, you simply will not pick up girls. You WILL NOT GET IT, you will not get results, you will not become the naturally attractive guy we aspire to teach you to become.
It’s called the Natural Instinct method, called so, because it’s the instinctual behaviour that I see in RSD instructors, students in state, guys born into status and guys with contextual confidence.
It’s the Bootcamp method that I’ve developed week in week out during live infield Bootcamps – NIGHT GAME AND DAY GAME - for the last three years. A conscious checklist that I run though my head that reminds me to properly focus my enthusiasm and energy to ensure I have fun and pick up girls on cold approach.
Imagine you want to know the secrets and truth of how to successfully pick up girls from cold approach, who would you ask?
Ask the most experienced infield Bootcamp coach IN THE WORLD (across 42 countries) in the last five years what he swears by. You’ll get the Natural Instinct Method.
It’s a reconciliation and evolution of everything that’s gone before me, and a method that has stood the test of time since its inception about 18 months ago. It summarises other schools of pick-up thought. and everything that RSD has published. It’s what I’ve seen that makes Jeffy, Tyler, Tim, Derrick, Seany and Evil Stifler’s game as insanely good as it is.
Note that some of the former terminology has evolved in ways that reconciles a combination of different explanation’s of cold approach pick-up. The semantic descriptions that I’ve used are EXTREMELY carefully chosen. Like I’ve said before, the way you ‘install’ thoughts semantically make a world of difference in your continued personal evolution and instinctual actions in the heat of the moment out there infield.
The Natural Instinct Method is quite straightforward. That’s EXACTLY the idea, to minimalise the confusion of cold pick-up ideas and give you something simple to follow and internalise.
The Natural Instinct Method is a simple combination of principles and skills that you can quickly remind yourself of when you feel yourself losing grip of the night, or feeling directionless infield.
More than anything, the Natural Instinct Method is something simple that you can start with, stick with, and very quickly understand and practise.
There is so much out there in the RSD info-sphere that you want to take in, internalise and turbo-charge your social skills BUT if you don’t have the basics down, then the galaxy of useful information available on our network of channels will seem ungrounded and vague. Well, here are the basics that will provide the foundational understanding required to start to grasp the advanced esoteric concepts.
And lastly, from time to time it’s likely that you’ll get so deep into the advanced concepts, or maybe you’ll go out so many nights in a row, that you will actually lose sight of reality. This Natural Instinct Method is my personal reset point, my set of reminders to get back to basics and refresh my approach. If you find yourself losing your consistency infield, get back in touch with the basics.
If you don’t execute the essentials, you’re lost.
These are the basics that everyone needs to know. Keep your wings accountable to them, and ask your wings to keep you accountable to them. With one set of unified ideas we all evolve together, faster.
The good thing is, while it’s a unified ‘method’ it’s not like you will be doing the same thing as everybody else. It’s something specific enough to focus your thoughts and actions, but at the same time open enough to allow personal style of implementation. This has been true in the last 100 students I’ve taught this to; the same principles and skills, a multitude of personal styles all working in their own way.
So please, sit back and take in this special edition of the Alexander~ Blog. If you require clarity or reconciliation of seemingly contradictory points please ask any questions in the comments section below.
If you’ve used and experienced the Natural Instinct Method please relate your experiences to other users. Student to student understanding can be just as valuable as instructor to student learning.
And, once you’ve seen this video, every other thing I’ve ever written or edited will make infinitely more sense.
The key to making everything work is the central golden piece of your inner game:
There is no reason why you’re not enough.
For text notes see the blog post on the Natural Instinct Method.
Thank you, and enjoy
Alexander~
www.alexattitude.com
www.youtube.com/alexanderfreetour
www.youtube.com/RSDalexander
www.youtube/alexanderhimself
www.facebook.com/alexanderrsd
[Want more from your game? See when I’m going to be in your part of the world and ask administration about a Bootcamp, support@realsocialdynamics.com ]
My time here in the United States learning the ins and out of Real Social Dynamics with Tyler has been amazing. I have ONE MORE EVENT HERE. So for your last chance to get an Alexander~ special Bootcamp You last chance is in Los Angeles in two weeks, 2 seats remain...
... Then Australia with Julien... the Euro-Hollywood-Abrasive talking newest RSD Instructor. Alexander Julien 7 night a week tour should be out-of-control, of course. Get involved.
Los Angeles, May 18th- 20th
U.S.A ===> Australia ====>
Perth, May 24th – 26th
Melbourne, May 31st – June 2nd
Sydney, June 7th – 9th
Auckland, June 14th – 16th
www.rsdbootcamp.com
***
Today I have a video that speaks for itself.
What I have here is a video that every guy should watch, note and implement, repeatedly until the principles and skills within become TOTALLY INTERNALISED.
If you don’t understand these principles and skills, you simply will not pick up girls. You WILL NOT GET IT, you will not get results, you will not become the naturally attractive guy we aspire to teach you to become.
It’s called the Natural Instinct method, called so, because it’s the instinctual behaviour that I see in RSD instructors, students in state, guys born into status and guys with contextual confidence.
It’s the Bootcamp method that I’ve developed week in week out during live infield Bootcamps – NIGHT GAME AND DAY GAME - for the last three years. A conscious checklist that I run though my head that reminds me to properly focus my enthusiasm and energy to ensure I have fun and pick up girls on cold approach.
Imagine you want to know the secrets and truth of how to successfully pick up girls from cold approach, who would you ask?
Ask the most experienced infield Bootcamp coach IN THE WORLD (across 42 countries) in the last five years what he swears by. You’ll get the Natural Instinct Method.
It’s a reconciliation and evolution of everything that’s gone before me, and a method that has stood the test of time since its inception about 18 months ago. It summarises other schools of pick-up thought. and everything that RSD has published. It’s what I’ve seen that makes Jeffy, Tyler, Tim, Derrick, Seany and Evil Stifler’s game as insanely good as it is.
Note that some of the former terminology has evolved in ways that reconciles a combination of different explanation’s of cold approach pick-up. The semantic descriptions that I’ve used are EXTREMELY carefully chosen. Like I’ve said before, the way you ‘install’ thoughts semantically make a world of difference in your continued personal evolution and instinctual actions in the heat of the moment out there infield.
The Natural Instinct Method is quite straightforward. That’s EXACTLY the idea, to minimalise the confusion of cold pick-up ideas and give you something simple to follow and internalise.
The Natural Instinct Method is a simple combination of principles and skills that you can quickly remind yourself of when you feel yourself losing grip of the night, or feeling directionless infield.
More than anything, the Natural Instinct Method is something simple that you can start with, stick with, and very quickly understand and practise.
There is so much out there in the RSD info-sphere that you want to take in, internalise and turbo-charge your social skills BUT if you don’t have the basics down, then the galaxy of useful information available on our network of channels will seem ungrounded and vague. Well, here are the basics that will provide the foundational understanding required to start to grasp the advanced esoteric concepts.
And lastly, from time to time it’s likely that you’ll get so deep into the advanced concepts, or maybe you’ll go out so many nights in a row, that you will actually lose sight of reality. This Natural Instinct Method is my personal reset point, my set of reminders to get back to basics and refresh my approach. If you find yourself losing your consistency infield, get back in touch with the basics.
If you don’t execute the essentials, you’re lost.
These are the basics that everyone needs to know. Keep your wings accountable to them, and ask your wings to keep you accountable to them. With one set of unified ideas we all evolve together, faster.
The good thing is, while it’s a unified ‘method’ it’s not like you will be doing the same thing as everybody else. It’s something specific enough to focus your thoughts and actions, but at the same time open enough to allow personal style of implementation. This has been true in the last 100 students I’ve taught this to; the same principles and skills, a multitude of personal styles all working in their own way.
So please, sit back and take in this special edition of the Alexander~ Blog. If you require clarity or reconciliation of seemingly contradictory points please ask any questions in the comments section below.
If you’ve used and experienced the Natural Instinct Method please relate your experiences to other users. Student to student understanding can be just as valuable as instructor to student learning.
And, once you’ve seen this video, every other thing I’ve ever written or edited will make infinitely more sense.
The key to making everything work is the central golden piece of your inner game:
There is no reason why you’re not enough.
For text notes see the blog post on the Natural Instinct Method.
Thank you, and enjoy
Alexander~
www.alexattitude.com
www.youtube.com/alexanderfreetour
www.youtube.com/RSDalexander
www.youtube/alexanderhimself
www.facebook.com/alexanderrsd
[Want more from your game? See when I’m going to be in your part of the world and ask administration about a Bootcamp, support@realsocialdynamics.com ]



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Alexander~
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Hank Thoreau
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Dude just wondering why Bris-vegas is left off freetour circuits? Is there any chance for events here in the future?
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MrCreepGuy
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one of the best speeches about pick up in general!
it contains so much value and all for free. thanks alex for sharing this!
redman
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cursive
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Achilles~
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couldnt ever justify it.
Changing the wording from I am enough, to there is no reason why i am not enough is paramount.
saw this vid on youtube bout 4 days ago, and have been consistantly chanting it inside my head through out the day.... HOLY SHIT... It automatically makes me stand taller, be confident and also be super relaxed.
Went out last night still chanting this.... all i have to say is, I fully understand what you mean by invisible game.
it was funny to note than when i started drinking, it fucked everything up. "there is no reason why im not enough.....right!?!" ....killed it.
Brilliant video. learnt heaps.
btw... no free tour brissy? ...No love for qld.
Guess its more motivation to get shit together and move to melby!
Thanks mate!
Achilles~
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Benn
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Your concepts are reallly on point. There are situations where my natural friends also fuckup and it's really simple now to say why even they fuckup sometimes. For example one of my natural friends had yesterday the perfect girl chasing him but he lost her when she freaked out after he started fingering her in the club. It was too much for her as you say in the video...
One of my sticking points is that I don't stay long enough with one girl. That's something I must work on.
I still have some hesitations about staying with a girl for a long time without making out though. Because I am afraid that I could be wasting my time. She might enjoy talking with me because she only wants to get entertained or maybe she has a bf. Jeffy said once on the forum that before 20 minutes are over, he wants to know if a girl is willing to go down or not. Otherwise he could be wasting his time. What's your view on this?
Benn
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Craig~
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For best results, combine this video with Alex~'s 2 Hour Rule and watch it alone in the club every single night aye.
acousticninja99-
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couldnt ever justify it.
Changing the wording from I am enough, to there is no reason why i am not enough is paramount.
saw this vid on youtube bout 4 days ago, and have been consistantly chanting it inside my head through out the day.... HOLY SHIT... It automatically makes me stand taller, be confident and also be super relaxed.
Went out last night still chanting this.... all i have to say is, I fully understand what you mean by invisible game.
it was funny to note than when i started drinking, it fucked everything up. "there is no reason why im not enough.....right!?!" ....killed it.
Brilliant video. learnt heaps.
btw... no free tour brissy? ...No love for qld.
Guess its more motivation to get shit together and move to melby!
Thanks mate!
Achilles~
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'There's no reason why I'm not enough'
I still remember my first 'I am enough' realisation/experience on bootcamp years later. Or should I say 'tears' later, haha.
sapmi
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With the arousal, i'm naturally not a negative guy, takes a lot to make me angry...but I will add some negative emotions to the mix....I like the teasing bit....just to make sure she knows I'm joking!
I can see now, girls do get very shy with me, even when making out etc....I just love the adoption frame...i'm looking after the cute little things (i love to call them snails)
I love how people are now seeing being cool and normal is the way forward :)
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Material, Jeffy show 2 material, Ozzy material and the rest of the
RSD material everything has its place!
Definitely a cool thing to know for various social situations which
Aren't just cold approach. This stuff fits in with everything!
Username01
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Material, Jeffy show 2 material, Ozzy material and the rest of the
RSD material everything has its place!
Definitely a cool thing to know for various social situations which
Aren't just cold approach. This stuff fits in with everything! I've been
Doing this part half assed for a while because I wasn't aware of
What was missing. What was missing was some stuff from this.
goldenbird
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High value + Arousal = Attraction as you already said years ago.
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Jascha
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Thanks for putting this great content out there.
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Thank you so much!
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Fred E. Rick
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HOLY MACEROLE!
ANGUS PEPPERED! GONNA WATCH THIS TONIGHT WITH A BONER THE ENTIRE TIME!
champ
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It's very cool that RSD provides examples of different styles to game. The vid had some very very specific points that were ABSOLUTELY HUGE FOR ME. Thanks so much for touching on some things that haven't been touched on as much. Thanks so so much. Peace.
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Like you said, all your other videos make 1000% more sense.
I cant believe you post all this info up for free!!
I will see you at your american hotseat when you make it over here
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Did you work specifically on public speaking (i.e. trainings/ critical assessment of your own videos with points for improvement) or it is more a result of extensive experience in this area (free tours/bootcamps/hotseats/etc.)?
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Keep it moving!
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ChinaBoy~
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Self Trust->Relaxation->Arousal + Time->You getting the girl.
Everything you are saying just indirectly points to the whole "There´s no reason why I am not enough".
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Frank69
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I pulled a girl away last Saturday night using the 'hand of god', she was loving it. I think she was shit testing me by then going back to her friends to see how needy I was. I would then just naturally laugh (really self amused at this point) and flirt with her friends to the point the girl dragged me back and made out with me for 20 secs. (I also reverted back to OMG IM snogging a 9 chode mode in my brain, which Im sure she sensed) From then on the girl seemed disinterested.
To summaries Ive gone from intense attraction and arousing her, to VALIDATING the girl and killing that attraction and arousal. Ive also completly lost the frame that attractacted her in the first place. Lesson learnt : )
The Duck ✘
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Awesomely professional video. Love the delivery.
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SirRock
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this goes a lot inline with the video that julien posted lately about being the buyer and not the seller. This makes it a lot more clear
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Rich~
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hahah, it really is..
Awesome vid mate, really clear concepts and delivery... Like!