Alexander~ RSD

Alexander~
 
Here I am in Boston, running seminar, pulling gorgeous Columbian girls, taking home blonde haired Californian sporty girls, releasing articles. Y’know.

My time here in the United States learning the ins and out of Real Social Dynamics with Tyler has been amazing. I have ONE MORE EVENT HERE. So for your last chance to get an Alexander~ special Bootcamp You last chance is in Los Angeles in two weeks, 2 seats remain...

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Today I have a video that speaks for itself.

What I have here is a video that every guy should watch, note and implement, repeatedly until the principles and skills within become TOTALLY INTERNALISED.

If you don’t understand these principles and skills, you simply will not pick up girls. You WILL NOT GET IT, you will not get results, you will not become the naturally attractive guy we aspire to teach you to become.

It’s called the Natural Instinct method, called so, because it’s the instinctual behaviour that I see in RSD instructors, students in state, guys born into status and guys with contextual confidence.

It’s the Bootcamp method that I’ve developed week in week out during live infield Bootcamps – NIGHT GAME AND DAY GAME - for the last three years. A conscious checklist that I run though my head that reminds me to properly focus my enthusiasm and energy to ensure I have fun and pick up girls on cold approach.
Imagine you want to know the secrets and truth of how to successfully pick up girls from cold approach, who would you ask?

Ask the most experienced infield Bootcamp coach IN THE WORLD (across 42 countries) in the last five years what he swears by. You’ll get the Natural Instinct Method.

It’s a reconciliation and evolution of everything that’s gone before me, and a method that has stood the test of time since its inception about 18 months ago. It summarises other schools of pick-up thought. and everything that RSD has published. It’s what I’ve seen that makes Jeffy, Tyler, Tim, Derrick, Seany and Evil Stifler’s game as insanely good as it is.

Note that some of the former terminology has evolved in ways that reconciles a combination of different explanation’s of cold approach pick-up. The semantic descriptions that I’ve used are EXTREMELY carefully chosen. Like I’ve said before, the way you ‘install’ thoughts semantically make a world of difference in your continued personal evolution and instinctual actions in the heat of the moment out there infield.

The Natural Instinct Method is quite straightforward. That’s EXACTLY the idea, to minimalise the confusion of cold pick-up ideas and give you something simple to follow and internalise.

The Natural Instinct Method is a simple combination of principles and skills that you can quickly remind yourself of when you feel yourself losing grip of the night, or feeling directionless infield.
More than anything, the Natural Instinct Method is something simple that you can start with, stick with, and very quickly understand and practise.

There is so much out there in the RSD info-sphere that you want to take in, internalise and turbo-charge your social skills BUT if you don’t have the basics down, then the galaxy of useful information available on our network of channels will seem ungrounded and vague. Well, here are the basics that will provide the foundational understanding required to start to grasp the advanced esoteric concepts.

And lastly, from time to time it’s likely that you’ll get so deep into the advanced concepts, or maybe you’ll go out so many nights in a row, that you will actually lose sight of reality. This Natural Instinct Method is my personal reset point, my set of reminders to get back to basics and refresh my approach. If you find yourself losing your consistency infield, get back in touch with the basics.

If you don’t execute the essentials, you’re lost.

These are the basics that everyone needs to know. Keep your wings accountable to them, and ask your wings to keep you accountable to them. With one set of unified ideas we all evolve together, faster.

The good thing is, while it’s a unified ‘method’ it’s not like you will be doing the same thing as everybody else. It’s something specific enough to focus your thoughts and actions, but at the same time open enough to allow personal style of implementation. This has been true in the last 100 students I’ve taught this to; the same principles and skills, a multitude of personal styles all working in their own way.

So please, sit back and take in this special edition of the Alexander~ Blog. If you require clarity or reconciliation of seemingly contradictory points please ask any questions in the comments section below.

If you’ve used and experienced the Natural Instinct Method please relate your experiences to other users. Student to student understanding can be just as valuable as instructor to student learning.

And, once you’ve seen this video, every other thing I’ve ever written or edited will make infinitely more sense.

The key to making everything work is the central golden piece of your inner game:

There is no reason why you’re not enough.



For text notes see the blog post on the Natural Instinct Method.

Thank you, and enjoy

Alexander~
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#1
Alexander~

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first?
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TOOBAD

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Fist - yeah fist bitches
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 3rd cunts
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Hank Thoreau

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 Awesome stuff Alex! Love the simplicity of the ideas here! I'm glad someone is stripping this shit back, the way it should be.

Dude just wondering why Bris-vegas is left off freetour circuits? Is there any chance for events here in the future? 
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8rd
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tyler0351

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Oh my God yes --- I didn't realize it was a 2-hour video. FUCK. I'm going out in 30 minutes. I wish I would have had this earlier today! 
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MrCreepGuy

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already seen it about a week ago on youtube.
one of the best speeches about pick up in general!
it contains so much value and all for free. thanks alex for sharing this!
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redman

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 Sweet!!!... Pretty much exactly as you said man, this is basically the blueprint that you want to be thinking about. When ever I am struggling with things I go back to it. It's simplicity is really it's beauty, when you start over analysing things it can be your downfall, but with this it is so simple that you're not going to lose your relaxation on a night by consciosly reminding yourself aspects of it i.e. talk, test, touch... Awesome stuff man, so much value!!
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 I drenched my pants
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Achilles~

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 Ive known "im am enough" for years. but never really believed it.
couldnt ever justify it.
Changing the wording from I am enough, to there is no reason why i am not enough is paramount.

saw this vid on youtube bout 4 days ago, and have been consistantly chanting it inside my head through out the day.... HOLY SHIT... It automatically makes me stand taller, be confident and also be super relaxed.

Went out last night still chanting this.... all i have to say is, I fully understand what you mean by invisible game.

it was funny to note than when i started drinking, it fucked everything up. "there is no reason why im not enough.....right!?!" ....killed it.

Brilliant video. learnt heaps.

btw... no free tour brissy? ...No love for qld.
Guess its more motivation to get shit together and move to melby!

Thanks mate!

Achilles~
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#11

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 One of the best vids posted on RSDN by the instructors. Loads of value. Cheers mate! 
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#12

Benn

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Awesome video. Thanks!

Your concepts are reallly on point. There are situations where my natural friends also fuckup and it's really simple now to say why even they fuckup sometimes. For example one of my natural friends had yesterday the perfect girl chasing him but he lost her when she freaked out after he started fingering her in the club. It was too much for her as you say in the video...

One of my sticking points is that I don't stay long enough with one girl. That's something I must work on.

I still have some hesitations about staying with a girl for a long time without making out though. Because I am afraid that I could be wasting my time. She might enjoy talking with me because she only wants to get entertained or maybe she has a bf. Jeffy said once on the forum that before 20 minutes are over, he wants to know if a girl is willing to go down or not. Otherwise he could be wasting his time. What's your view on this?
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#13

Benn

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Btw I would like to go to one of your hotseats. I feel like I only received 50% of the value without the detailed infield examples. Is your hotseat going to be available in Europe?
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#14

Craig~

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Insane mate!!! This video is all you need.

For best results, combine this video with Alex~'s 2 Hour Rule and watch it alone in the club every single night aye.
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Yes!...hurry n get your shit together n move down here mate!!
Achilles~ wrote:
 Ive known "im am enough" for years. but never really believed it.
couldnt ever justify it.
Changing the wording from I am enough, to there is no reason why i am not enough is paramount.

saw this vid on youtube bout 4 days ago, and have been consistantly chanting it inside my head through out the day.... HOLY SHIT... It automatically makes me stand taller, be confident and also be super relaxed.

Went out last night still chanting this.... all i have to say is, I fully understand what you mean by invisible game.

it was funny to note than when i started drinking, it fucked everything up. "there is no reason why im not enough.....right!?!" ....killed it.

Brilliant video. learnt heaps.

btw... no free tour brissy? ...No love for qld.
Guess its more motivation to get shit together and move to melby!

Thanks mate!

Achilles~
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Real World~

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Great video to go over the basics.

'There's no reason why I'm not enough'

I still remember my first 'I am enough' realisation/experience on bootcamp years later. Or should I say 'tears' later, haha.
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Love it..... But, are you totally banning kissing on the lips if you want a same night lay? Just can't help myself, I love the make out....but I won't constantly be sucking on her face all night, 10 secs total maybe....then kiss on neck, claw, hold hands...lead...and chat bullshit...........

With the arousal, i'm naturally not a negative guy, takes a lot to make me angry...but I will add some negative emotions to the mix....I like the teasing bit....just to make sure she knows I'm joking!

I can see now, girls do get very shy with me, even when making out etc....I just love the adoption frame...i'm looking after the cute little things (i love to call them snails)

I love how people are now seeing being cool and normal is the way forward :)
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 Any place we can see the videos he's referring to? 
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This is great and I've watched the whole 2 hours twice, but I have definitely noticed a few differences in what you teach here and what other instructors are saying, such as when you say don't go for makeouts or SNL's until many hours have passed. I believe Jeffy actually goes for the makeout every time within 20 minutes, and says most pulls take 45 minutes. Plus everything that I've seen in Tyler's Hot Seat is quicker. I'd also like to know how you are supposed to internalize "There's no reason why I'm not enough" when many girls are not interested in you on any given night. Like, genuinely not interested, not "intimidated" but just not interested. All of that being said, it's a great video and it's the first time alot of what you teach made sense to me.
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#20

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nice work alex,  good job
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Did the no kissing thing last night for the first time. I kissed a chick on the neck, shoulders, cheeks but no lips, just brushing it, coming in then moving away... And she got the game and played along. THE SEXUAL TENSION WAS TROUGH THE ROOF. We almost started fucking each other on the dance floor. We dance a little, then I move away to talk to my friends, then we get back together. The shit got so amplified it was ridiculous. Thanks Alex!
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wtf are you eating? Choclate suace?
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#23

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This is a neat little tool in the toolbox, this and the flawless natural
Material, Jeffy show 2 material, Ozzy material and the rest of the
RSD material everything has its place!

Definitely a cool thing to know for various social situations which
Aren't just cold approach. This stuff fits in with everything!
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This is a neat little tool in the toolbox, this and the flawless natural
Material, Jeffy show 2 material, Ozzy material and the rest of the
RSD material everything has its place!

Definitely a cool thing to know for various social situations which
Aren't just cold approach. This stuff fits in with everything! I've been
Doing this part half assed for a while because I wasn't aware of
What was missing. What was missing was some stuff from this.
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#25
goldenbird

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 awesome video alex! I like the more "humanistic" approach you are using to pick up chicks. 

High value + Arousal = Attraction as you already said years ago.

 
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#26

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 What I dont understand is. How can u be enough when ure self image is bad? Imagine if uve had a shitty childhood and when u were young you got rejected by alot of girls. How should u be able to feel u are enough?
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Jascha

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This "method" you crafted truly makes me feel like I won´t need any more theory ever again. I have been paying attention to beeing relaxed while beeing out the last couple of nights and I experienced a deep feeling of fun and amusement and I have been getting very good reactions from people (girls) so far. But most importantly, practicing relaxation seems to enable me to enjoy going out more than any other principle or set of behavior patterns did before.

Thanks for putting this great content out there.
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#28

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Wow, awesome vid! Tons of value... A whole seminar's worth... Only this much value can come from RSD... 

Thank you so much!
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#29

Knoxville

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 That video was jammed packed with information that just put a lot of information floating around in RSD all into one 2 hours video. Thanks for this! This was suppper valuable. Now I know why girls always run off  :) I get nervous and say weird shit :)
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2 HOURS!

HOLY MACEROLE!

ANGUS PEPPERED! GONNA WATCH THIS TONIGHT WITH A BONER THE ENTIRE TIME!
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#31

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It was a great vid. I learned some important things from it. What are some examples of ways girls game you. Because sometimes or alot of times girls will just be all over you so its obvious that they're down to have sex ASAP.  Or they'll just ask you to take them out. Or they ask you for your number. But what are some other ways? Can it be as subtle as when a girl teases/"negs" you or flirts? Thinking about it seems like there are different styles of girl game too LOL But it seems that the one constant is the looks they give you specifically in the eyes or when their pupils explode in size. Is there another facial expression that is analogous to when a girl is "quiet and attentive"?

It's very cool that RSD provides examples of different styles to game. The vid had some very very specific points that were ABSOLUTELY HUGE FOR ME. Thanks so much for touching on some things that haven't been touched on as much. Thanks so so much. Peace.
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#32

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 Alex thanks for posting this up.
Like you said, all your other videos make 1000% more sense.

I cant believe you post all this info up for free!!
I will see you at your american hotseat when you make it over here
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This is some bad ass shit Alex.  I like the fact that you pointed out those details that happen inbetween the different "stages" of the interaction. Quick question though, do you always have to find a "witty" comeback to shit tests? What about just ignoring them or laughing it off or not saying ANYTHING and just STARING at them? What do you think about that?
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#34

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 Amazing! Everything you need to know in one video!!
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Adrenalyn

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 Money. Fucking killed it Alex Attitude!!
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Alex you could be an actor. At 13 mins when you're talking to that guy, it was like something off TV.
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Adil

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This was SERIOUS. Two hour long talk without "Ums" and with a lot of value. At first I thought it'll include some promo shit as well but no! Alex, NOW I became sure you have the ambitions to leave something incredible before you quit RSD :)

Did you work specifically on public speaking (i.e. trainings/ critical assessment of your own videos with points for improvement) or it is more a result of extensive experience in this area (free tours/bootcamps/hotseats/etc.)?
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#38

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 So basicly be a normal guy? Talk, dont care about her tests, escalate.
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Novatoast

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 Whoa! Felt like I just watched 2 hours of an RSD professional DVD product ...Flawless Natural part 2: Alex's "giving away more free value" edition? Pure genius! Cheers~
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#40

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Great value mate. You're building something big here.

Keep it moving!
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I loved the positivity and sort of naive way to see the whole pick up thing (yet still remaining rock solid). I will do my best to bring that to my game too. Thanks!
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ChinaBoy~

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 Why I love NIM is because it´s coming from the a place of total Self Trust.

Self Trust->Relaxation->Arousal + Time->You getting the girl.

Everything you are saying just indirectly points to the whole "There´s no reason why I am not enough".
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#43

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 I listened to this at work today.  It's such a different angle of looking at RSD concepts that I literally felt uncomfortable as it filled in many missing pieces of the puzzle.  I'll be listening to this again and again for the same experience.
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#44

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 Alex makes a great point about escalating, 1h 38min in.
I pulled a girl away last Saturday night using the 'hand of god',  she was loving it. I think she was shit testing me by then going back to her friends to see how needy I was. I would then just naturally laugh (really self amused at this point) and flirt with her friends to the point the girl dragged me back and made out with me for 20 secs. (I also reverted back to OMG IM snogging a 9 chode mode in my brain, which Im sure she sensed) From then on the girl seemed disinterested.  
To summaries Ive gone from intense attraction and arousing her,  to VALIDATING the girl and killing that attraction and arousal. Ive also completly lost the frame that attractacted her in the first place. Lesson learnt  : )
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Alexander~ wrote:
Here I am in Boston, running seminar, pulling gorgeous Columbian girls 
Wellcum to the dark side bro..

Awesomely professional video. Love the delivery.
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 Best content RSD ever released in that 2 hr clip u posted, brother
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 awesome stuff!! alot of things in here I needed to be reminded of.
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#48
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Awh man Alexander such a cheater! saying first right after posting...
this goes a lot inline with the video that julien posted lately about being the buyer and not the seller. This makes it a lot more clear
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#49

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Alex, I want to keep hearing more. Wish seattle was on your list of stops in the US! Totally wanted to meet you in person, but thats cool! 
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#50

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 "get your harrassment on, thats the terminology in australia"

hahah, it really is..

Awesome vid mate, really clear concepts and delivery... Like!
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