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Helsinki Video Link

Get the full article Here.

Got some breaking news. A new 5,000 word article on my new webpage, updates on my year ahead, my Hotseat program is being unleashed in Asia and I’ve got my facebook page up and running for secret networking with
RSD alumni and direct communication with me.

First, an overview of the natural instincts method and an update of where I'm going to be this year.



Natural Instinct Method Overview and Schedule Video Link

Of course the big news from that is that I’m doing Asian Hotseats in March! If you can get to SINGAPORE, HONG KONG OR TOKYO  it’s a rare opportunity for Asian based guys to learn directly from myself, Alexander~
the most experienced Bootcamp coach in the world,
in the last 5 years.

Check out some of my former times tearing though Asia, consummating interaction with Asian models and other gorgeous girls from all over the world. Some of my reviews from Tokyo are the best I’ve ever had.



Alexander~ Asia Highlight Video Link

I’ll be doing FREE TOURS in each of those cities. So make sure you register with RSD so we can organise the room. Write down any questions before hand and I’ll address as much as I possibly can.

OR... ask me the same questions on my facebook page...

I’ve taken to facebook in a big way. Check out my page http://www.facebook.com/AlexanderRSD.

I’ve started using it frequently. It’s so easy to keep it updated with whatever ideas I’m having when I'm writing, giving seminar or infield. I’ll literally stop and share notes so I have them on file to write about later.

It’s good because you can ask questions to me directly there as thought your sending a text message, which I get in real time and will respond to if I can, or when I get to it later. It’s like a faster more direct method of quick exchange communication than RSDnation, right there in your pocket wherever you go.

You have access to an executive coach right there in your pocket. Like the page with the widget thing on the right hand side of the page and stay up to day with the videos, articles updates and epiphanies I'm having. From my point of view it’s great to know that what I’m doing can be INSTANTLY communicated.

Another amazing innovation has been the RSD alumni groups here in Australia. What I’ve done is created secret groups - so they don’t show up on your wall or anything – that links you up with Bootcamp and Hotseat alumni
from the same city. Message me on my facebook wall if you’ve done a Bootcamp or Hotseat and you want in on the group in your city.

Lastly and most importantly... a brand new article on my new fully functional blog www.alexattitude.com .

The full article is too long for an RSDnation post. You can see the full article at http://alexattitude.com/archives/628.
Any questions or comments about that article ask in the comments section there for me to address for you.

The over view of the article is:

“In short; your perception that a girl is acting bitchy toward you is a misunderstanding. You are actually having an intimidating (intense/in your face/extreme) effect on her and overwhelming her. Your perception of a ‘bitchy’ reaction (evasive/stand offish/slow to warm up/shutdown/cold) has exactly the same behavioural traits as an intimidated response. The solution; embrace emotional congruence with ‘I am enough’ and realise girls’ reactions are not bitchy, but rather anxious responses to you because they are unfamiliar with you and/or perceive you to be high value. This
automatic reaction is the same way that you – and everyone – automatically reacts when they feel social discomfort when exposed to someone they perceive has higher confidence (higher status/ high value/ more influential/ less
reactive) than them.”



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Now the blog is working properly you can go back and easily find all the important articles that have always been on alexattitude.com. They’re just as valid as they’ve always been and make for good reading when you hit frustrating
plateaus.

That’s all for now mates. Get geared up for the Australian bootcamps, be ready for the Asian Hotseat events and link up with me on facebook for direct communication.

Up next... I’ve been casually working on an article for about 6 months now about the most intense night out I’ve ever had. I’m writing to immortalise one of my most memorable life experiences so it’s very detailed and blown out to about 20,000 words. Should be fun to share a good old fashioned field report more epic than Homer’s Odyssey.

Alexander~
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 firstttttt finally!!!
lol
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Fuckin top
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Bro, you should've seen this cutie I picked up for V Day! Oh.. my.. God! 

Copenhagen F..T..W!

P.S. Everything you're saying happens over and over again. Comfortable man-to-woman interaction, leading, attentive listening from her side, being a bit uneasy around me, physicality, dreamy eyes, tests here and there ifever I notice them, but just solid authentic interactions.

Keep the articles coming and looking forward to more! 
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Your articles are on such an advanced level, jesus.
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The Duck - wrote:
Bro, you should've seen this cutie I picked up for V Day! Oh.. my.. God! 

Copenhagen F..T..W!

P.S. Everything you're saying happens over and over again. Comfortable man-to-woman interaction, leading, attentive listening from her side, being a bit uneasy around me, physicality, dreamy eyes, tests here and there ifever I notice them, but just solid authentic interactions.

Keep the articles coming and looking forward to more! 
haha! Awesome mate. Are you not with your Brazillian girl anymore?

Alexander~
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 6th
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Took some time apart while she's on exchange.

Feels good to be back ;0)
Alexander~ wrote:

The Duck - wrote:
Bro, you should've seen this cutie I picked up for V Day! Oh.. my.. God! 

Copenhagen F..T..W!

P.S. Everything you're saying happens over and over again. Comfortable man-to-woman interaction, leading, attentive listening from her side, being a bit uneasy around me, physicality, dreamy eyes, tests here and there ifever I notice them, but just solid authentic interactions.

Keep the articles coming and looking forward to more! 
haha! Awesome mate. Are you not with your Brazillian girl anymore?

Alexander~

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Such a sage post
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Hey Alex, this shit is off the fucking chain.

It's like you are the space in which a woman can express her femininity. And your strength of reality dictates how free and expansive the woman can be in that space.

No surprises that hotties have strongest feminine energy.

And no surprises the more you go out and experience it the better you will become.

Many thanks!!!!
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The Duck ✘ wrote:
Took some time apart while she's on exchange.

Feels good to be back ;0)
Alexander~ wrote:

The Duck - wrote:
Bro, you should've seen this cutie I picked up for V Day! Oh.. my.. God! 

Copenhagen F..T..W!

P.S. Everything you're saying happens over and over again. Comfortable man-to-woman interaction, leading, attentive listening from her side, being a bit uneasy around me, physicality, dreamy eyes, tests here and there ifever I notice them, but just solid authentic interactions.

Keep the articles coming and looking forward to more! 
haha! Awesome mate. Are you not with your Brazillian girl anymore?

Alexander~


OMFG... time to party mate!!!!!!! I am coming to compenhagen.
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The Duck ✘

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Most definitely!
Alexander~ wrote:

The Duck ✘ wrote:
Took some time apart while she's on exchange.

Feels good to be back ;0)
Alexander~ wrote:

The Duck - wrote:
Bro, you should've seen this cutie I picked up for V Day! Oh.. my.. God! 

Copenhagen F..T..W!

P.S. Everything you're saying happens over and over again. Comfortable man-to-woman interaction, leading, attentive listening from her side, being a bit uneasy around me, physicality, dreamy eyes, tests here and there ifever I notice them, but just solid authentic interactions.

Keep the articles coming and looking forward to more! 
haha! Awesome mate. Are you not with your Brazillian girl anymore?

Alexander~


OMFG... time to party mate!!!!!!! I am coming to compenhagen.


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 holy shit! that's what Helsinki looks like in winter?

damn it! when I was working in a cruise ship I was there and I tell everybody HELSINKI is the best when it comes to women.

It was absurd when u look at the girls and they STARE you back and they are really hot!

I was talking to the salesman of a longboard and I said 'damn dude! I'm from brazil is that possible live and working here just knowing english?"

he said 'ahhah no dude... u have to know the our native language first. but the girls from brazil, the feeling is the same from here

the vid when i was there:
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 Alex,

Does this article apply if you still see yourself as low value?  IE:  you are concerned with how intimidated YOU are feeling towards the girl? 

Further, is this an advanced concept for only the guys who are already comfortable and confident talking to girls?  
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 also you are my new favorite instructor, you seem humble and spare us the PUA ego "i'm so cool " bull shit others seem to have
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synergist- wrote:
That secret Facebook group for Hot Seat and Bootcamp alumni needs to be started for EVERY CITY, especially in the United States. Such an amazing idea. It has to happen.
yep... I'm a thinker!
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Copenhagem is cool as well, I was asking some info to a really beautiful girl, she was like u said in the video, quiet and paying attention. so cute.

I can't wait to have my BC and solve those 'dont know how to start and finish an interaction' 

take a look in riga - latvia and there's another damn city that, right in front of the port for the ships there's the MOST beautiful green eyes girls, simply dressed, selling things. but oh well.. i forgot the name
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 Hey Alex, great video and very solid material as usual!

It's your friend Miika here (Helsinki bootcamp 2010). Send me an e-mail if you're coming to Helsinki again. It would be cool to tear it up in the Helsinki nightlife like old times :D
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 This is very valuable information.
Thanks Alexander!
Respect
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 excellent advice. really nice video. europe is awesome. great. thank you
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 BOSS!
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Handle wrote:
Dude. To say a girl will never be a bitch to you again and promise that to people is bullshit to me bro. I'm not doubting your skillset but the fact is that to say "you NEVER want a girl to be a bitch again" is gay.
that your opinion... but i stand by mine.

thats why I post articles like this.

Alex~
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I concur..Helsinki girls are really receptive. I only went out there on a Monday. Can't imagine what it would be like on the weekend.
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 Thanks for the advice,  it reminds me of a set where the girl acted a bit strange. Also at that time I didnt use the fact that time was my ally, and ejected.
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 I like your thinking and your whole approach to this topic. It brings back some of the "Ah hah!" moments for me.

Bring your Hotseat to America brother!! :)
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furyx wrote:
 I like your thinking and your whole approach to this topic. It brings back some of the "Ah hah!" moments for me.

Bring your Hotseat to America brother!! :)
Yep, I'll be there in fall!
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 Holy shit.  This has seriously answered so many questions in my personal experiences where a girl would so suddenly just be scared away by me, despite obvious inital attraction.
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fuck yeh dude.

Been reading back over some of the older articles too.
Love the insane detailed breakdown of everything.

The 2010 Vid still inspires and motivates me.

Doing any free tours in Brissy?
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 Holy fuck, good shit!
Is it just me or have the posts been getting REALLY fucking valuable lately?
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Achilles~ wrote:
fuck yeh dude.

Been reading back over some of the older articles too.
Love the insane detailed breakdown of everything.

The 2010 Vid still inspires and motivates me.

Doing any free tours in Brissy?
Yep I want to, I'd say I'll do it in April!
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Nice vid. That was definitely a lesson I had to learn. Especially since in Japan I`m like triple their size so the girls shit themselves when they see me coming (in a good way).
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haha solid stuff Alexander! I actually like to ask girls in the end why the act bitchy-cold etc etc when I first approach and the most common answer is I WAS SCARED BY THE LOOK IN YOUR EYES! ahaha crazy - pure intent ;-) glad to see that broken down by Alexander!
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 Nice overall post Alex, 

I had no idea your now working in my old stomping grounds.. You guys are becoming more accessable. I have this image of running into one of you guys out one day.. probably hitting on my girlfriend... 

Awesome vid btw, I really like your attitude towards pick up... more than some... seems to come from a place of love, not hate.. good job. 
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luv jeffy!
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Maikuljay wrote:
 Nice overall post Alex, 

I had no idea your now working in my old stomping grounds.. You guys are becoming more accessable. I have this image of running into one of you guys out one day.. probably hitting on my girlfriend... 

Awesome vid btw, I really like your attitude towards pick up... more than some... seems to come from a place of love, not hate.. good job. 
exactly, the love of the people you are going out to meet and get to know, and take further!

Ultimately its the only thing that will keep you enthusiastic about the game.

Alex~
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 Great Great stuff man.

Keep up the good work
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Your stuff is SO solid. Everything is clicking and falling into place. Thank you
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 Dude the article on ur webpage is awesome! 

So easy to apply and it created a big shift in how i view interactions right away, thanks!
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Girls are not biitches? fawning all over me?? girls are intimidated? REALY??!!! must great to be you. My  experience does not  consist of anything but girls who are very much acclamated to talikng to guys; constantly have guys htting on them; are vacums for valdation, selectively engage who they very well please barring just a random polite girl, and if the girl does give up the phone number it will largely be for her own future valadation unitl the flake.
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Brucefast wrote:
Girls are not biitches? fawning all over me?? girls are intimidated? REALY??!!! must great to be you. My  experience does not  consist of anything but girls who are very much acclamated to talikng to guys; constantly have guys htting on them; are vacums for valdation, selectively engage who they very well please barring just a random polite girl, and if the girl does give up the phone number it will largely be for her own future valadation unitl the flake.
Yep, thats how i used to think about that. Then, with experience I began to understand things differently. Then i wrote about it to help guys like you who don't yet enjoy girls and the social scene.

Take what you can from this article, I wish i had this foresight back when i used to think the way you wrote here.

Alex~
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jsldmv wrote:
 Holy fuck, good shit!
Is it just me or have the posts been getting REALLY fucking valuable lately?
yeah thanks mate!

My blog was broken for so long that I didnt want to write articles that didn't have facilities to build up a following and have REAL influence. Now that the blog is rocking I really love writing on it! :)

I love writing stoties... favorite part of my job.

If you could be so kind, could you please comment on the article itself and share it where relevant.

Cheers mate!

Alex~
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 I gotta say, this post is not only gold, but it is very ironically timed. 

I had a realization while in the library the other day about this very subject. Throughout so much of my life I have ahd nervous, anxious tendencies when interacting in social situations. Then, for some reason that I'm not quite sure of, just sitting in the library doing some homework it dawned on me: other people have these exact same anxieties as I do! 

This seems really fucking obvious...of course they do! I've probably heard this a thousand times before, but for some reason it just never clicked until around Tuesday or Wednesday. (On a side note: It's interesting that I had this realization probably around the same time you were writing this.) 

When I think about how everybody has these negative, self consciouss beliefs I can't help but think that they're all fucked in the head. Now don't take that the wrong way! When I say that I mean it with a lot of love, after all I'm just as fucked up as they are. But I have something most people do not: a mind that is constantly trying to reveal my weaknesses, not running away from them. This allows me to move forward, grow, and understand myself and others better.

It's a belief that gives me an advantage over others. Always there in the back of my head is the realization that the people I am talking to have the same negative beliefs as I do, and because of it I am more relaxed and I feel like I am on a different level then before. I am even more aware of what's going on, but it doesn't bother me. I assume that negative reactions are actually just a result of their being uncomfortable, intimidated, or simply unaware. Unaware of what? I'm not exactly sure, it's somewhat difficult to describe.

I finally feel like I understand this. The key word here being "feel", because describing it with intellectual words is extremely difficult. Hopefully I managed to make myself understood though. 

Thanks Alex~
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WesD wrote:
 I gotta say, this post is not only gold, but it is very ironically timed. 

I had a realization while in the library the other day about this very subject. Throughout so much of my life I have ahd nervous, anxious tendencies when interacting in social situations. Then, for some reason that I'm not quite sure of, just sitting in the library doing some homework it dawned on me: other people have these exact same anxieties as I do! 

This seems really fucking obvious...of course they do! I've probably heard this a thousand times before, but for some reason it just never clicked until around Tuesday or Wednesday. (On a side note: It's interesting that I had this realization probably around the same time you were writing this.) 

When I think about how everybody has these negative, self consciouss beliefs I can't help but think that they're all fucked in the head. Now don't take that the wrong way! When I say that I mean it with a lot of love, after all I'm just as fucked up as they are. But I have something most people do not: a mind that is constantly trying to reveal my weaknesses, not running away from them. This allows me to move forward, grow, and understand myself and others better.

It's a belief that gives me an advantage over others. Always there in the back of my head is the realization that the people I am talking to have the same negative beliefs as I do, and because of it I am more relaxed and I feel like I am on a different level then before. I am even more aware of what's going on, but it doesn't bother me. I assume that negative reactions are actually just a result of their being uncomfortable, intimidated, or simply unaware. Unaware of what? I'm not exactly sure, it's somewhat difficult to describe.

I finally feel like I understand this. The key word here being "feel", because describing it with intellectual words is extremely difficult. Hopefully I managed to make myself understood though. 

Thanks Alex~
Perfect, exactly what I wanted to acheive.

Alex~
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#43
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 just watchin the first vid alex and u r bang THE FUCK on. 

thank you for being smart enough to make this understanding widespread. 

mate u r so right its not even funny.

if u wanna see more of this kinda stuff check out Byron Katies work - she talks loads about CONFUSION like this, how we live confused and misenterpret everything and thats what makes us spread negativity. 

u r THE SHIT
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subx wrote:
 Alex,

Does this article apply if you still see yourself as low value?  IE:  you are concerned with how intimidated YOU are feeling towards the girl? 

Further, is this an advanced concept for only the guys who are already comfortable and confident talking to girls?  
Once you realize and understand the concept of what hes saying it should help you to be more comfortable and confident talking to a girl. Seeing yourself as low value probably comes from the way you live your life and not the game itself, start doing things for YOU like working out, having fun etc
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Handle wrote:
Dude. To say a girl will never be a bitch to you again and promise that to people is bullshit to me bro. I'm not doubting your skillset but the fact is that to say "you NEVER want a girl to be a bitch again" is gay.
you can percieve any event the way you want, he has understanding and years of experience behind his theory whats behind yours?
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#46
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Once you start filtering everything through this paradigm things just click.

It's great to have this communicated so clearly. If I knew this stuff when I was first starting out, with the detail you have provided it would have been amazing. Kinda jealous of the new guys coming into this material - loads of time off the learning curve ;) 

Cheers mate! 
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 Alex, I can not express the joy I feel to realize pickup is finally on the right track! The true love and respect for women that can be sensed from your attitude is sooo cool!

The wonderful "feminine creatures" deserve better men, and ironically, it seems they are going to emerge from a very unexpected direction - the once hated and weird "PUA community" :)

Oh, and thanks for the priceless insight about the misinterpretation of girls' reactions when approaching them - I suspected that, yet hearing it from you makes BIG difference! I guess I should learn to trust my faculties more lol, but damn it - affirmation from people one respects is always welcome!

Spread the love man.

Yosi
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i love down under bar.
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