The attraction manifesto is just hours away from being available and sent directly to your email addresses. The moment it becomes live for viewing I’ll let you all know over on www.facebook.com/alexanderrsd.

The attraction manifesto is a bonus video that’s included for you when you register for the Alexander Hotseat. It’s a 5 hour video that is the culmination of 6 years studying, practicing and coaching cold approach pick up. It’s a video like none-other in this industry… because no-one has ever set out to do a video solely on attraction.

I’m extremely excited to share this significant part of my ‘life’s work’ with you. I can’t wait for you to better understand attraction in order to get the most out of the Hotseat videos!

And of course the Alexander Hotseat is here in Europe! Five massive cities! Then some colossal cities over in the USA! Free Workshops the Thursday beforehand in each city!

(For the free workshop time and place check out www.facebook.com/alexanderrsd for details, then all you have to do is show up)

Eurotrip 11.

HotSeat; January 5, 2013: Amsterdam, Netherlands
HotSeat; January 12, 2013: Munich, Germany
HotSeat; January 19, 2013: Copenhagen, Denmark
HotSeat; January 26, 2013: Oslo, Norway
HotSeat; February 2, 2013: London, United Kingdom

AMERICA (FUCK YEAH)

HotSeat; February 16, 2013: Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
HotSeat; February 23, 2013: Phoenix, Arizona, USA
HotSeat; March 2, 2013: Miami, Florida, USA

I will be in Miami during the model season Bootcamp with the crew! How exciting!

HotSeat; March 9, 2013: Denver, Colorado, USA
HotSeat; March 16, 2013: Los Angeles, California, USA
HotSeat; March 23, 2013: Chicago, Illinois, USA
HotSeat; March 30, 2013: New York, New York, USA

Go to a Hotseat email support@realsocialdynamics.com

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I have been thinking a lot about advanced game since hanging out with my long-time infield comrades in Australia over summer.

It was quite a clash of context to hang out with 3 of the best natural’s in Australia after coaching hundreds of entry-level guys at Bootcamps, free tours and hotseats around the world.

The thing that made it strange was that the actions that my brilliant natural friends are the same as my some of my entry level students.

BUT COMPLETELY DIFFERENT to when you’re in intermediate purgatory.



Its totally clear that when you learn game you MUST come full circle.

You start naïve, the graduate to kinda ruthless, then you have to come back to innocence.

You start with a happy vibe, fight through intermediate purgatory, and then you have to overcome that struggling vibe to come back into enjoyment and lightheartedness in the game.

This is reflected in guys results as they go through the game, they start of getting more results when they’re fun and naïve, but then start to get less results when they become too dedicated and too intense.

You have to understand that once you get a really deep understanding of principles, and really great social skill set then you have to then let go of all that, and get back to your innocent fun loving self.

Thing is though, once you come full circle, you have all those skills are your disposal. All your know how is there for you, working invisibly under the surface, giving you an awesome vibe of self trust and a strong grounding.

Instead of you having to shove your ability in people’s faces, you can relax, smile and chill knowing that it’s all there, and will come to you and serve you as you need it.

I recently had a brilliant student from Korea on my bootcamp. He was a freaken social genius, so attentive to details, so dynamic and responsive. But he was ruthless and intense and never connected with anyone.

If you were to look at his ‘skills’ from an outside perspective compared to my skills, or Tyler’s skills, or Brad’s skills… or anyones skills, you would have though that he was more socially skilled and influential. Because compared to him we look kind dumb, simple minded and flawed.

But who **actually** ‘gets the girl’ more. The ruthless intense company vice president or the chilled out, easy going down to earth C.E.O of a corporation?

Are you more likeable if you’re easy going or intense? C.E.O with the world at his feet or vice president still trying to prove his worth to others by shoving his intensity in their faces?!

Sure, once in a while a C.E.O. has got to flex his muscles and eradicate the crap, but the ultimate difference between the C.E.O frame and the Ruthless Vice President frame is that the C.E.O bring people up when they suck, and the Vice President peoples suckiness to demonstrate how great he is.

Ultimately its negative and a scarcity behavior.

It goes against the idea that ‘there is no reason why you’re not enough’. The holy grail of all game.

So… what I’m advising you to do is let go of the intensity, trust that all you know in the game will be there for you when you need it, and let yourself slip back into happy fun times innocence.

Do all the same stuff – approach, endure tests and escalate - as a celebration of your self to share with people, instead of doing it to prove a point.

Get the nice guy baseline back and go from there… with a smile and a CEO vibe.

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And now a little bit of information on ow to get a second date! Woo!



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And now a little bit of information on how drugs don’t really help shit in game haha relevant because its in Amsterdam!



Well that’s all for this week! I hope you love the attraction manifesto and it melts your brain to pieces… only to reform with a better understanding of the matrix.

Updates on www.facebook.com/alexanderrsd

Alexander~