While I really love Tylers Videos for their intellectual content it's your stuff that helped me more with interacting with girls. Especially staying longer in sets and don't rush things have led to some pretty girls laying in my bed :-)

I love this videos, too! the first one for the content. I remember the first time going out after I heard about RSD about 2 months ago I had a situation where I turned around one girl, talked a little bit, rushed out of the conversation (totally unsecure back then) came back later and talked to her friend. A third friend then talked me up and accused me why I hit on her 2 girl firends. Totally freaking out. I said "it's a night club, i try to be social", with such a apologetic undertone...I handled similar situatons much better afterwards, thanks for the backup! And this content will tighten it up.

The other Video is great visually! Contentwise I would normally think that this is not needed because not dressing like shit and washing yourself on a daily basis and do some sport is something in my reality is as normal as eating breakfast, so no grown ass man should need advice on that topic. But then a take a look on the forums...

Have a great day!

The first 30 min video made my last weekend alot clearer , got massively shit tested and pushed in the face ! That exact line "You think you are so cool" .

Cheers Alex

Hi! Anybody got the book recommendation about style? Jim Dilligan or something like that but i can't find it.
Thanks in advance!

The top video is amazing with all the examples, empathy towards girls and also the connection with relationships etc and how it all falls back into evolution!!

The mark of a good leader is they don't create followers, they create more leaders.

ahhhh very nice alex tons of value in those two videos mate, you got a really healthy way in the way you approach game:). will be looking forward to sseing you next year at hotseat in sydney and hopefully if i can get the money together to do a bootcamp that idea excites me like hell!!

cheers cunt...

The content here is very very valuable

Hey man

This is good stuff, you obviously know I dig your philosophy and am getting a shitton out of it (way more solid interactions with girls that remember me with true love in the night rather than fast lays and adrenaline pumping stories). Not only this but everyone who NIM "clicks" with around me is seeing epic changes in their life and game and so forth.

One observation I'd throw out is that, while I'll watch these longer videos and think they're great since I see the payoff -- I also notice that in the 30 minute video, there's no part where everyone in the room is laughing. I don't know if this is a problem per se, but in today's addictive society, I think some of this stuff will get you hooking attention like crack, like Tyler and Jeff seem to. Then again, I also have the feeling this stuff ain't in line with your overall philosophy, so...take that for what its worth.

You're great at your story telling, mainly in the context of funny stories, but they're not tied to learning. Tyler's stories are often very funny, but also demonstrate a practical thing to do, or a lesson. I dunno if this is a bad thing, but its the key difference I see in Tyler vs Alex teaching style.

Knowing that your Hotseat is on the level of a paradigm change as Tyler's Blueprint, and Blueprint was heavily story based. You may wanna try and incorporate that better to better hook a bigger segment of the RSD fanbase, and even though your material is just plain better, you still gotta be selling/marketing the ideas better in the RSD community, cuz EVERY SINGLE RSD GUY I EVER TALK TO has the exact same "limiting beliefs" regarding "Alexander game" like:

limiting belief 1. "But Alex is just naturally in a good mood, so he CAN game like he does" (like I told you) or similarly, even as stated by other instructors "Alex is just ALWAYS in state" (Jeffy) or "Alex is a really good self-amusing guy" (Tyler) -- which IMO even these are limiting beliefs (and the contrast, the correct belief is that the GOOD MOOD you experience is just a result of the things you do, like use positive and negative expressions, tap your feet, relax your body (or don't do -- go in "hard" and get blowouts and cause girls to get defensive), things you think like "I am enough", etc. e.g. Mood is a result, not a trait.

limiting belief 2. "I don't want to waste my time with a girl who isn't down to fuck" whereas in reality you want to be thinking (i) "this girl's company is so pleasurable that I don't even care if I eventually fuck her, its better to hang out with a 5 star girl and hug her, than it is to pull and fuck a 3 star girl", (ii) "even if a girl is DTF you instead want to inspire her to want to sleep with you, which is what seduction is"

limiting belief 3. "I need to control and lead the set, Alex isn't leading enough, if she likes me, its time to take the next step" whereas in reality you want to be thinking "I am enough, I just need to do a few of the right things and make a few decisive executive decisions but otherwise she has free will so best to just enjoy it and trust that it will happen with time, initiative, physicality, and enduring tests."


Like I kinda mentioned in SF, I really would add a little "seminar segment" where you bust those limiting beliefs up front. Especially the MOOD one, because I used to think it for so long, that I am naturally a more cognitive (thinking) guy, but would never become an emotionally communicative person -- yet more and more of the guys who I thought were "naturally chill" (yourself, and several other guys I've met over the past year from RSD) actually have had to work on it in the past and hit that "always good mood" place. You also want to emphasize especially key points (like the "Good mood is a result and you can and must create it") like this during the seminar with phrases like "The point I am going to make in the next 2 minutes, is worth the entire $300 payment you've made to come here, so listen carefully".

Anyway sir, good shit, I'm digging it, its obviously, from my experiences, and your folder of hotties you've hooked up with, and all of my buddies experiences, the natural instincts method is WHERE ITS AT moreso than anything in the PU community, so thanks for all that, happy holidays in Australia, and good luck in 2013 going forward with Hotseat.

Tom

Always appreciated 
Heres another training video people can try :P
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YErZ5GjOyas

double post

Your last few videos have been really good man!

 very awesome video again

Bangladesh originally. Not the strongest team out there but definitely getting there, especially after the series win over West Indies this month. I'm a pretty big fan of the Aussies too just cause no other team has that self belief that I see in them. I almost cried the day I heard Ricky Ponting retired :'(

Faisal.